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I haven't seen any pictures. I also didn't read anything about leaves.cordoncordon said:Am I in the twilight zone?
Have you guys actually seen the pictures?
I trained race horses for many many years, and I would never beat a horse with a whip the way AP did to his kid. In fact there are specific rules against hitting a horse and drawing blood like that, and if violated they lead to fines and suspensions. We are talking a 1000 pound animal here. And AP was doing this to a little 40 pound 4 year old kid? Really?
And on top of that, he stuffed leaves in the kids mouth before he did it? What kind of sick sadist is this guy? IF he took a switch and whipped a 30 year old woman or man like that and left those kinds of marks and bruises, he would be thrown in jail for 5 years. But because corporal punishment on your children was deemed acceptable for years and years, so long that it became an accepted tradition, it was ok to hit a person or whip them when it came your kids? But not an adult? That is sick. I mean, what kind of world is this where people are actually defending this guy?
He should be thrown out of the league for at least a year, serve 30 days in jail, and go to some anger management classes. Because this guy is NOT RIGHT in the head.
I am not against a quick pat on the butt or across the hand now and then, but this guy went way way too far. In fact in his text messages he even talked about how he is going to have to redo his punishment next time on the kid because the kid didn't "cry". So in other words he was going to make it worse.
zekko said:When I was growing up, even the principal and teachers could hit you with the board, or a paddle, or a ruler, or a stick. Nobody died that I can recall. This is just another step in the process of making the father's role completely obsolete.
Honestly, I don't have much hope for things to recover, this society is already a lost cause and is circling the drain. It's only a matter of time before it all goes down in flames. What a damn shame.
I don't think any of this info was out yesterday. I didn't read anything about bleeding or leaves last night. All they were saying was that he used a switch.cordoncordon said:People keep saying something similar to this over and over. I mean, what do people think will happen to kids who are beaten? They end up as serial killers? Insane? Grow up and beat their kids? Well that last one I'm sure does happen. But I am sure you did turn out ok if those things happened to you. I'm sure the majority of children who are beaten turn out 'ok'. Just like the majority of kids who are not beaten while growing up turn out 'ok'. Some of you are acting like if you weren't beat as a kid, then you grew up and are now a societal misfit. That just isn't true.
But when you beat a kid, does that mean it's alright to draw blood? Cut the kid open? Bruise the kid? Lacerate him or her? Is that a morally correct thing to do as a member of the human race?
Would you do that to your dog? Your cat? Your mother? Your friend? All because they pushed a kid off of a bike? A 4 year old? You really thing that deserves getting open faced wounds on your body? Tell ya what, next time your gf or wife does something you don't like, and will not agree with you no matter how hard you reason with her, why don't you strip her naked, bend her over, fill her mouth full of leaves, and whip her endlessly until she bleeds from all the lacerations on her body. Then come back here on the MISC and tell us how you feel about doing that. From a jail cell, because that is where you will be.
Think of that. Whip an adult, who can defend his or her self, and you go to jail. Whip a defenseless 4 year old who can't defend jack? And many of you think that is A Ok.
Would it take a stab wound? Burn marks?PairPlusRoyalFlush said:Based on those pictures I would not convict.
TyTe`EyEz said:You can't even discipline your kids without the government's approval.
I can only imagine the sh1t storm that's about to be stirred up.
TyTe`EyEz said:Just what we need, the government to take away the ability of a father to discipline his son. We've already seen what happens when sons are left without a father figure (i.e. gangs). Let's just punish the fathers that actually stay in their children's lives - the fathers that care about their child's upbringing.
( . )( . ) said:It's another nail in the coffin and btw this goes a bit deeper than useful idiot sh!tlibs continually pushing to implement laws to make it illegal for parents to discipline their children coz cruel or whatever retard reasoning they come up with. The family unit is the last bastion against a nation totally and utterly dependent on big daddy alpha government. Hence why the hardcore leftoids have been doubling down on the Marxist "It takes a village to raise a child" meme like it's their job.
zekko said:When I was growing up, even the principal and teachers could hit you with the board, or a paddle, or a ruler, or a stick. Nobody died that I can recall. This is just another step in the process of making the father's role completely obsolete.
Honestly, I don't have much hope for things to recover, this society is already a lost cause and is circling the drain. It's only a matter of time before it all goes down in flames. What a damn shame.
:nono:Stagger Lee said:That's part of the problem. Idiots ruin it for everyone. There's nothing wrong, actually it's most likely beneficial, with reasonably spanking a child or manhandling your wife if and when the situation calls for it. But when idiots take it way too far, it gives libtards the ammo to paint all physical discipline with a broad brush. That doesn't justify liberals but still empowers them to act.
Yeah, I didn't know anything about this yesterday. Having seen it, I agree that he went too far. That said, I'm with PairPlus, I'm not sure I find those pictures all that shocking. If you hit someone with a switch, you're probably going to leave a few marks.TyTe`EyEz said:I don't think any of this info was out yesterday. I didn't read anything about bleeding or leaves last night. All they were saying was that he used a switch.
With this new info coming to light, I seriously doubt any of us condone what Peterson did.
Right, what the fvck is a switch supposed to do? Still, I don't know about this whole thing. Still on the fence about it. I have a son, and I've never had to go that far with him. And I can't see myself ever doing it. Different parenting styles? Probably. Is he in the wrong for doing that? Probably. Should he be punished for it, as in suspended a game because the league considers it child abuse? No.zekko said:Yeah, I didn't know anything about this yesterday. Having seen it, I agree that he went too far. That said, I'm with PairPlus, I'm not sure I find those pictures all that shocking. If you hit someone with a switch, you're probably going to leave a few marks.
All you do is attack people. Get off your high horse, and while you're at it, start consolidating your posts.rascall said:That's why the country is in such bad shape, everybody wants to attack each other
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What problem is that?Tictac said:this guy has a problem.
Here's the issue, A.P. was probably disciplined in the same manner, as were his parents and his grandparents. I know because my granny, would tell me stories about she got whoopins with switches.Tictac said:And he (nor anyone else) ought treat children this way.
Maybe so, but I would say that we have reason to be suspicious of the government, feminists, and liberals.rascal99v said:Here we go again, the same group of guys spouting off against the government, Liberals, feminists, without even knowing the facts in which they are proven wrong once again
It crossed my mind that he may have done this so that the child wouldn't bite his tongue.zekko said:Oddly, the thing that bugs me the most about this is that he stuffed leaves in his mouth. To me, that sounds like it is going beyond mere punishment and shows an intent to humiliate the kid. It suggests that the guy is a little off balance. It sends up red flags.
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