It depends on you and other factors. You can be the "Mr. Right" and a high-value man, but from my experience, a relationship lasts when:
- Both partners have a sense of scarcity (such as in college or social circle relationships).
- The relationship started in your 20s or earlier.
- Her activities, such as her job and hobbies, do not involve interactions with other men.
- There is proximity and exposure between the partners.
Most of the relationships I have seen last are those in which the two partners share proximity, exposure, and are inexperienced in the dating scene. They often come together through social circles. These relationships are more likely to endure and create strong families. However, a common issue that arises is that one partner may cheat with someone they’ve met through their activities, compensating for the "proximity/exposure" effect while their original partner is away.
This is how most relationships are formed and sustained: through social circles. People in your community know who you are. The dating market is not typical, and with the advent of technology, it is becoming even more challenging.
For instance, a significant percentage of people in the dating market are those who did not bond and develop an emotional attachment to someone in their early 20s.
These are just my two cents.