a woman that cant make up her mind.

[Jblitz59]

when does a woman ever make up her mind? haha

 

[Blown5.0]

well when she put out on her facebook page..that " shes gonna have a VERY good lunch with an old friend tomorrow..." that has to tell you something!

 

[Unbridled_Phoenix]

It shouldn't tell you anything, cause you don't give a fvck. Delete this girl from your facebook, from your life!

 

[Blown5.0]

I need too!

 

[theunflushables]

I need too!

Yes you do. If you havent done so already, do it now.

If you dont speak to her in any other way, she will start using facebook to jab at you. Status updates, wall posts, etc. all will become ways she can use to either lure you back in or tear you down. Do it for your sanity.

 

[Blown5.0]

she already tries lol...
flirting with my friend on there...tell people i know not to talk to me...because im " psycho " and im just using them to get to her...

 

[Blown5.0]

OK i guess its time for an update...

i haven't seen or spoken to this chick in about 2 months...
i have heard from multiple people...she has been talking major **** about me...for unknown reasons, but she also has been talking to a good friend of mine...saying that i was a good guy and other good things about me BUT...that she made it clear of our relationship...that "I" just miss understood....I guess shes just trying to play it off...

last week...she asked me to come over to her place..that it had been awhile and she wanted to see me. I said no i was busy maybe some other time...she responded back pretty quick saying that she changed her mind that she was gonna have a party ( that never happened ) and i should come meet the new guy.....

is this just straight up BPD....trying to make me jealous..what?

 

[Nutz]

OK i guess its time for an update...

i haven't seen or spoken to this chick in about 2 months...
i have heard from multiple people...she has been talking major **** about me...for unknown reasons, but she also has been talking to a good friend of mine...saying that i was a good guy and other good things about me BUT...that she made it clear of our relationship...that "I" just miss understood....I guess shes just trying to play it off...

last week...she asked me to come over to her place..that it had been awhile and she wanted to see me. I said no i was busy maybe some other time...she responded back pretty quick saying that she changed her mind that she was gonna have a party ( that never happened ) and i should come meet the new guy.....

is this just straight up BPD....trying to make me jealous..what?

Either bat**** crazy or BPD. Not much difference IMO. Best solution is to get two really hot chicks to go over with you. Tell them to play it up with the touching and flirting so she'll leave you alone and bounce early with them. That will mess her up so bad. Then just go cold on her. Totally cold. Leave it simmer for weeks. If she can play these games then you can to, at least that's my take on it. Just know that nothing will ever happen between the two of you besides drama like this. There's no relationship material there

 

[penkitten]

ask yourself if you need this DRAMA and if the answer is no, then stop seeking it out by seeing this chick.
this sort of drama is going to kill all your brain cells.
all of them.
every last one of them.
until you can no longer function without the drama on a daily basis.

 

[aaev26]

I really feel for you man. I've had 2 family members with BPD and used to attract really fcked in the head women because of my upbringing. My best advice would be to act like a complete gentleman and break it off with a nice clean sincere text reply... Something like... Xxx we had some great times and you taught me a whole lot. Thanks for everything and I hope things work out for the best with you. After that completely disconnect. You waste your valuable time and mental well being playing cat and mouse with her.

 

[Blown5.0]

Its been a pretty complete disconnect...i haven't seen nor talked to her in about two months except when she asked me to come over one night.......all this stuff that keeps coming up is her friends and my friends telling me what they hear. i "had" her on facebook....but some status i put up the other day about my night before about the crazy "shenanigans" we got in too...she took me off...

apparently " shenanigans " is her word... other people aren't allowed to use it...lmao

that just tells me...she still checks up on me...and gets jealous...am i wrong?

 

[sodbuster]

sounds to me that you enjoyed being a guest star on "the real life". I just had a 21 year old play that with me and it lasted 2 dates. Hopefully the thinks I'm a chump and leaves me alone without stalking. Mother has multiple personalities. daughter is BPD-lies and drauma all day long.

 

[Blown5.0]

now i guess this chick is trying to play hard ball...
ive been having no contact with her...now shes resorted to hitting on a good friend of mine...on facebook. I doubt my friend would do anything with her...but still it hits a nerve!

 

[The Asian Lover]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uoef3bVAYI4

 

[Blown5.0]

Aight i get the point...and i guess i over exaggerated on the 2 hours thing....

Point takin!!