A True Fight Story: Skilla Goes Nuts ;)

[Skilla_Staz]

Still don't see how a crowd of people who don't even know the kid, and many of whom would support me, would help HIM...

Also, if you broke my ribs, I'd probably be in too much pain to even think about your penis...

 

[penkitten]

:crackup:FUNNIEST TITLE OF THE YEAR AWARD VOTE :crackup:

 

[Skilla_Staz]

:crackup:FUNNIEST TITLE OF THE YEAR AWARD VOTE :crackup:

I actually laughed when I wrote it...

 

[BluEyes]

Don't listen to the haters man...I've been in more than my share of fights, I know how it is.

 

[penkitten]

I actually laughed when I wrote it...

no really, the kids have been home all day snowed in. so when they get to arguing and stuff , i look over at gio and yell "true fight story" and then when he starts laughing , i yell "skilla goes nuts"!!!

 

[Skilla_Staz]

Ha pen, I have a feeling youre making fun of me, but, I still find it entertaining.

 

[penkitten]

Ha pen, I have a feeling youre making fun of me, but, I still find it entertaining.

no , its just the title is so entertaining

 

[ValleyDJing]

nah skilla she's making fun of you. Maybe you should beat her ass like that other chick!

Now I'm the one poking fun at you. haha! you know I'm messing with you.

 

[wolf116]

ValleyDJ, you ever stop to think I put that in there to prove the point? no? You don't stop to think?, oh...guess I'm not the dumb one now.

Wolf: I went through highschool with out a fight, I'm not scared of confrontation. Also, if you've never been in a cage fight....you can't really have an opinion on "what wins fights". And yeah, only thing not allowed is point of elbow shots.

Anyway, to the OP, I'm not looking to fall out with you, I'm just saying from a guy who has sisters, you gotta see this from his POV.

It's understandable that you are not afraid due to your cage fights but not everyone gets to experience that

I can have an opinion because I've been in street fights(once the other dude had a knife and I won, shin kick to groin fixed him) and countless school fights due to the fact that I was too poor to afford a uniform or shoes.
It's not like in controlled fights where there are rules. I've also had one armature boxing fight and won. And I spar mma/MT once a week. I'm 19 and have been fighting since year 1.

I also have two younger sisters. And I have needed to stick up for them before. But I would never disrespect my sis and hurt her friend who just fvcked up when they were playing. I could have had a chat to him but nothing else.

 

[WesCottII]

Edit: not worth it.

 

[WesCottII]

It's understandable that you are not afraid due to your cage fights but not everyone gets to experience that

I can have an opinion because I've been in street fights(once the other dude had a knife and I won, shin kick to groin fixed him) and countless school fights due to the fact that I was too poor to afford a uniform or shoes.
It's not like in controlled fights where there are rules. I've also had one armature boxing fight and won. And I spar mma/MT once a week. I'm 19 and have been fighting since year 1.

I also have two younger sisters. And I have needed to stick up for them before. But I would never disrespect my sis and hurt her friend who just fvcked up when they were playing. I could have had a chat to him but nothing else.

Yeah, I get your point, if she was ok with it, i'd be ok with it.
I'm not trying to say "I'm the baddest Mo' fo'", 'coz I don't into fights outside of the cage.

 

[MrS]

You should have been bobbing and weaving!

 

[Phoenix_of_the_ashes]

So this is the story behind all those pathetic fight clips on youtube, I always wondered.

 

[Hydroblunt]

From a guy who has sisters, I'd do exatly what the guy did. I don't care wether my sisters thinks it's "ok", you sent her to the damn nurse. I'm 5"9 and I can squat, bench and dead more than you, and I'm an MMA cage fighter with a 15 -0-0 record, would you be so ****y then?

If that was your sister and you had punched first, you would have been getting locked up immediately and prosecuted, possibly sued. Didn't they explain that to you at your MMA school? You do know you are registered as a professional fighter, right?

Only non-pros, non-trained & non-disciplined get into those types of fights. Any pro-fighter is smart enough to stay away from conflict at any cost. At worst, they will use real SELF DEFENSE, not fight. K-1 fighters, Boxers & MMA guys get challenged like that all the time. What's the last time you heard of one of them actually getting into a bar fight, besides Mike Tyson?

The more I train & learn, the more scared I am of having to get into a street/bar fight. Cause it's more and more likely that either I'm gonna really hurt the guy, go to jail & deal with a lawsuit or the other guy knows some serious sh*t which is lethal & he is crazy enough to use it. MMA don't work too well when the other guy is going for lethal points your body with precision. And there are some f**ked crazies out there who know how to do that sh*t.

Next time either of you youngings get into that situation, simply tell the aggressor "let's sign a release form and get in the ring/cage". You would be amazed how many "tough guys" start coming up with excuses & end up backing off. If they persist, learn some self-defense which simply neutralizes the opponent. They tell boxers that against a non-pro, they should know how to take shots without throwing back. They are right.

 

[wayword]

Ok, let's talk about solutions now.

Let's say some guy starts talking trash up in your face at a bar. You didn't do him wrong, and he has no legit beef with you. More likely, he is just drunk and maybe looking to start some drama.

So, how do you best handle this? Where essentially, you want to AMOG and tool him without having to get physical? What's some good BL and verbal techniques to use to PWN or de-escalate him?

 

[DJDamage]

Let's say some guy starts talking trash up in your face at a bar. You didn't do him wrong, and he has no legit beef with you. More likely, he is just drunk and maybe looking to start some drama.

So, how do you best handle this? Where essentially, you want to AMOG and tool him without having to get physical? What's some good BL and verbal techniques to use to PWN or de-escalate him?

If the guy is drunk and looking for a fight, there is little you can say or do. Go find the bartender or security and let them handle it since its their establishment and its their job to keep you safe. You can also leave the place cause he a'int worth it.

worst case scenerio you will have to defend yourself.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s-nd5s7kJLs

 

[wayword]

If the guy is drunk and looking for a fight, there is little you can say or do. Go find the bartender or security and let them handle it since its their establishment and its their job to keep you safe. You can also leave the place cause he a'int worth it.

worst case scenerio you will have to defend yourself.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s-nd5s7kJLs

Naw, that's not very suave. You should be able to handle the situation on your own.

And beating an unarmed scrub ain't hard if you're trained. But, that could lead to other problems like assault charges, him coming back later with back-up or weapons, he could already be packin' a blade, you don't want to be watching your back everytime you return there, etc.

What I'm asking is, what is the suave way of handling this 1-on-1, man-2-man? Dude is talking loudly in your face, putting you down, but doesn't really want to fight and isn't taking any swings either... So, what's really needed here is alpha BL and verbal domination. Or something along those lines. Who's got the theory on this?

 

[doctoroxygen]

I posted my strategy, it's worked pretty well for me and I still feel alpha at the end. But the most important thing is.. nobody gets hurt and everybody has a good time. :cheer:

 

[wayword]

There's an assertive way to defuse potential fights like this, and you didn't take it. The way I do it when guys get in my face in bars and at the mall (this happens for some reason occasionally) is make my body language SUPER AGGRESSIVE like I'm ready to fight and my face calm and say "I'm not gonna fight you over something like this." Things usually calm down after that, and no one gets hurt and no one gets suspended and because I didn't back down (not escalating isn't the same thing as backing down, it's just smart) I still look respectable. That's how a proper alpha handles a situation IMO.

Still, live and learn. I know high school is different than real society, so YMMV.

Wow, that actually sounds pretty brilliant and workable! Kind of speak softly while showing him your big stick... Kudos! :cheer:

"You're barking' up the WRONG *evil glint* tree, man!" - can serve as a threat concealed within a deflection to give him an out.

I think the key here is to show some force while giving him an out to save face. You don't back down, but in fact give him the escape route to bail (in effect, showing him the door). If you both can save face then the encounter is over - and it's a bonus if YOU CONTROLLED the defusal. Which is as ALPHA as it gets...

 

[PRMoon]

It's just another story of adolecance. Boys will be boys, and experiences like this hopefully contribute to them being men when they realize later how poorly it was handled. We all make mistakes in during our lifetimes and do things we think are positive and "cool" at one time or another. Later it's the men who look back and say to themselves "Maybe I could of handled it better if I'd done this..." That's what makes a man. Learn from your actions and plan for the future, and realize that you're better then that stuff.

Still, here's to youth and learning.