6:52 and 8:20 are right on point. This is what guys need to realize about women who complain about their OWN choices, and stick with those choices. That would be the end of the emotional tampon gig. A lot of guys do this because they try to pursuade her, and believe she's the victim - based on her claims. Then, they ***** when she sticks through the same BS that she started. She's not going to leave; that's her own fault. Stop proving how great and different you are.
As for the guy... He's obviously a bad person; not someone worth looking up to. He destroys women's self-esteem to keep them dependant on him. Weak. Not a real man at all. Doesn't have any kind of personality or intelligence. I knew a lot of people like this back in the day. They were successful, but worthless. The women weren't all that great, either. Low self-esteem, depression, bitterness, etc BEFORE getting involved with them. This is who bad people seek out - they're predators. The "victim" isn't a victim, however - there's no such thing.
I don't think any of the "mangina's" are hating on him. When someone is a narcissistic, selfish, unpleasant douche bag or douche bagguete, everyone hates them - except those who find them physically attractive. They're the only ones not seeing things clearly, and viewing them as misunderstood. They're hated on, and disliked for good reason.
This is a cue guys should be taking when dealing with women. Does everyone hate her, or only use her for sex? It's probably because she's a *****. Not the misunderstood victim. Don't sympathize with the damsel in distress who's hated on by everyone; has no friends; *****es about everyone; etc.
The interviewer and the woman both made the mistake of trying to get through to, and change him. Get him to see the light. Another big mistake. I'd be willing to bet that she's doing all this stuff to get him to come around. If she gives him all this love and affection - he will return the favor, and become nice back.
Which, is another mistake a lot of GUYS make with *****es. Gotta accept people for who they are, and understand that they're not going to change. Being good to a bad person isn't going to change them into good. It's important that you realize this. If the girl you are pining after doesn't realize this with her "bad boys" - that's her fault. As you can see, logic doesn't work. Stop trying to convince her to leave the dumbass...
It's the traits that people should be looking at - not his behaviors. Making women laugh is a good one. Holding back is another. A lot of jerk-like behaviors are very effective. No question. But, you don't want someone to hate you if you're a decent guy, right? Adapt these kinds of traits into your game, and you're good. You don't have to be bad like this guy to be successful.