AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
Sure... until she brings home an STD, all kinds of drama, and a baby that isn't yours.If your girl respects you and is scared to lose you then she will play ball, of course she probably will still do her thing on the side(as men do the same) but I'm talking about how she treats you, who gives a shi!t about what she does being your back, what you don't know doesn't hurt you, outta sight outta mind.
As has been said, this hinges on her openly crossing the boundaries. But that's the problem. If she doesn't care anymore, you will notice that anyway and can leave her without a need for a boundary. If she cares, she won't cross the boundary regardless of whether you told her. But if she wants to fvck you up... you simply let her know what to hide, and so the boundary will be useless anyway and not telling her would've been better because you'd see it and could have started disengaging and working on more options sooner.Based on your logic, that's like saying "why have laws when people are still going to committ crimes if they think there going to get away with it" lol
Boundaries are not for her, there for you, so when she crosses those boundaries you will leave her.
If she still goes against your boundaries(I'm not talking about cheating) by doing it behind your back then she doesn't respect you, respect is when she knows you will leave her or she can possible lose you if she does this or that so she refraims from doing it because she doesn't wanna take the risk of you possible finding out or getting tired of her bad attitude or whatever the case may be.
I guess if you don't care what she does, and you don't plan on dropping your plates when you're in a relationship, then you're fine. But to me that's not really a relationship and so, it's not what we're discussing in the first place. Imo there's no point in being in an arrangement like that, just keep her as a plate without an empty gesture of "exclusivity" on it if that's what you want.
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