A Real Alpha Male Is A Family Man, Not A Playboy

[SW15]

The above quote is from an article she wrote. She also wrote an article titled: 5 Reasons Why You Should Wait For Marriage To Have Sex
All this talk about ex and current boyfriends yet she has the gall to lecture on who's alpha and who's not.

She wrote that article around age 30 too in December 2020. According to one of her bios below, she finished a bachelor's degree in 2013. In a typical academic path in the United States, a person finishing a bachelor's degree in 2013 would have been born in Fall 1990-Summer 1991.

Amy Mastrine

Focusing on women and celebrating what makes them so unique, Evie Magazine helps women seek truth and find beauty...the kind that really matters.

www.eviemagazine.com

Amy Mastrine, Web and Email Marketing Associate - Multidisciplinary Association for Psychedelic Studies - MAPS

Amy graduated from Penn State University in 2013 with a B.A. in advertising and a minor in sociology. Amy’s exploration of ideas led her to the Institute for Humane Studies, a non-profit at George Mason University in Arlington, Virginia. At George Mason University, Amy worked on a video project...

maps.org

She also lived in Washington DC, San Francisco, and New York. It is likely she has spent a lot of time riding a penis carousel.

 

[kavi]

Yes but how many family men are actually not being manipulated into it. Money is the biggest corruptor of women look at prostitutes, IG models, expensive luxury crap, cars, boats, watches all that luxury crap is desired by women. Todays women are money hoes all they want is to extract money from you, why would you want to be that guy?

Some men think they dont wanna be alone, they dont wanna hang with men only. Many men want women and children to make them feel good, this is simply a dependance and giving away power. There is no bliss or contentment at the end of the husband provider role.

The ONLY Alpha males are leaders of society and role models. To be Alpha you HAVE TO BE affecting more ppl than the average guy who just influences his wife and kids.

Alpha is not a player. Alpha is not a family man. Alpha is a leader whos influence and impact is greater than that of others. To be that guy and have that impact a guy cannot be spending time and energy on being a player or family man. Player and Family man are both Betas. The family man not so bad but at the end of the day he is just dependant on a wife and children for happiness which tbh really is Beta.

 

[EyeBRollin]

The family man not so bad but at the end of the day he is just dependant on a wife and children for happiness which tbh really is Beta.

A family man is dependent on a wife and children for happiness- is that really what you think?

 

[kavi]

I'm talking from the perspective of Game.

Female Game: Be able to manipulate a guy and have power over him, extract, use, abuse and discard.

Women do this simply for the reason that THEY LOVE IT. This has little social value. The reason women are doing this today is just because they REALY ENJOY IT because they are so low it gets them WET over their own manipulative narcissism to have that POWER.

This is the same reason women will complement men on their sexual performance esp in casual encounters. It just gets them WET knowing they can manipulate you and boost your ego with fake compliments.

Its a disgusting and low thing, a most unnatractive quality in women that any woman should think she has futile power of a man esp from my experience. I find it exceptionally weak and pathetic, futile and low that any woman would think such a low level of Game from her would ever be able to control and have power over me. Even when I meet women and there is positive interaction I can see their brains ticking away at how they are gonna run this Game and have this power over me and its like I feel I need to tell them upfront they dont have and will never have that power over me and that it is really pathetic and futile that a woman would even think she could have that power of MANIPULATION over me.

The only one with power in the relationship is gonna be me and there are a 1000 10s that want what I have I really have no need or see any value in a woman unless she is 100% onboard and sincere about how we are working together. All of this nonesense about women wanting worker and provider men is all bull**** I am NEVER gonna allow the job-market to determine my value to women.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

A family man is dependent on a wife and children for happiness- is that really what you think?

People really need to stop with this type of nonsense. There are a lot of poisoned minds on this site. I was aware of it, but I guess did not realize it went to this extent.

 

[EyeBRollin]

People really need to stop with this type of nonsense. There are a lot of poisoned minds on this site. I was aware of it, but I guess did not realize it went to this extent.

It seems to be getting worse. I am sure it is reflective of the 2023 dating environment.

 

[kavi]

Whats a Family Man?

Newsflash: Your kids dnt need you, neither does your wife. No man or woman in this or the next generation respects or loves their father. It is simply that men need a wife and kids to cope with the crapness of the modern world.

Most children only need men as role models and for the odd bit of protection.

This delusional trad thing has gone way too far.

Im sayng this cos both my brother and cousin recently had marital problems or divorce and both were worried about losing their kids. But I could clearly see that these children dont really need their fatthers and in reality it was the fathers who were dependant on their kids rather than the other way round.

It is true that there are men who abondon their children I dont think thats cool but at the same time there is some extreme beta glorification of a nuclear family system and some weird idea that a loser beta worker father guy has any real value to society. Newsflash: If you wanna go and be a part of this broken system do it but dont act like children or women NEED you to do that.

There is no moral value in taking part in this broken system.

Your income and hard-work in the capitalist system has NO VALUE to women or chidren other than for the woman to see you as an ATM to be finessed. THIS IS ALL YOU WILL GET for taking part in this economic system. Your suffering will not be rewarded or respected.

 

[kavi]

Its simple really.

If men want to be married and have a family. Draw serious lines about finance. This is yours and this is hers. Keep everything separate. If you wanna have kids contribute to them thats cool but draw a line. This is what I pay this is what you pay. Its business not personal.

This whole marriage provider system is mixing business (money) and personal (relationships). Men just end up giving away everything.

One guy may spend 1K on a ring yet another spends 100K on a wedding ring. There is no limit or standard.

There is no reason why a guy should be a limitless ATM for these women. Keep it business like to ensure she dont get stupid ideas about finessing you. Keep everything tight financially.

If you wanna marry go for it. You work for yours she works for hers. The kids you split it. If you want her at home you guys agree what she gets for that role. Whats yours is yours NEVER give any extra. A woman should not be given any resources by a man.

Now, this is how it is. If a guy making 50K is good enough for a woman than a guy making 500K is the same. Why should the guy making 500K give a better lifestyle to a wife than the one making 50K??

If you are making 500K then that is all yours. You give her no more than what the guy making 50K gives to his girl. If you wanna buy cool **** like a big house and high-end holidays and you wanna pamper your wife then that is a weakness.

Whats this bull**** about giving women money and buying her stuff. Men need to stop playing around and being finessed cos its all weak.

I know that men suffer in the economic system and when they get money they wanna spend it on women cos they have no extra time so they just wanna spend money.. This is a terrible strategy and is causing women to see men as simply something to finesse.

Its about time some men out there gave some of their money and resources to serious social-poltiical movements, or serious projects, instead of just giving everything away to women. Its like nothing is happening in society there is no improvement nothing everyone is depressed, negative, broke, tired and all that is happening is that men are working hard and then giving everything to women but then where is it all going, seems to me it is all going into the captialism and stock market as the only outcome of this is the rich getting richer.

 

[lgbs2004]

Aren't alpha males tattooed bad boys who snort coke and beat up their women?

 

[Dash Riprock]

Alphas rarely get married.

From an evolutionary and genetic perspective (not social media, message board, or female author), their goal is to spread as much DNA in the gene pool as possible. If an alpha happens to marry, there's an almost 100% certainty it will be short-lived due to their generally overbearing and aggressive attitudes. To be a leader/alpha in any pack, wolves or humans, you have to be a blood-thirsty win-at-all costs type of being. Woman may be initially attracted to this (hence the term “Alpha Widow” that gets thrown around SS so much), but they know betas and below make much better marriage partners based mostly on their agreeability factor vs an alpha.

 

[member160292]

Alphas rarely get married.

From an evolutionary and genetic perspective (not social media, message board, or female author), their goal is to spread as much DNA in the gene pool as possible. If an alpha happens to marry, there's an almost 100% certainty it will be short-lived due to their generally overbearing and aggressive attitudes. To be a leader/alpha in any pack, wolves or humans, you have to be a blood-thirsty win-at-all costs type of being. Woman may be initially attracted to this (hence the term “Alpha Widow” that gets thrown around SS so much), but they know betas and below make much better marriage partners based mostly on their agreeability factor vs an alpha.

Yup, you position yourself as the ‘provider’ early on to offset any intuition, especially women in their early 30’s

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Whats a Family Man?

Newsflash: Your kids dnt need you, neither does your wife. No man or woman in this or the next generation respects or loves their father. It is simply that men need a wife and kids to cope with the crapness of the modern world.

Most children only need men as role models and for the odd bit of protection.

This delusional trad thing has gone way too far.

Im sayng this cos both my brother and cousin recently had marital problems or divorce and both were worried about losing their kids. But I could clearly see that these children dont really need their fatthers and in reality it was the fathers who were dependant on their kids rather than the other way round.

It is true that there are men who abondon their children I dont think thats cool but at the same time there is some extreme beta glorification of a nuclear family system and some weird idea that a loser beta worker father guy has any real value to society. Newsflash: If you wanna go and be a part of this broken system do it but dont act like children or women NEED you to do that.

There is no moral value in taking part in this broken system.

Your income and hard-work in the capitalist system has NO VALUE to women or chidren other than for the woman to see you as an ATM to be finessed. THIS IS ALL YOU WILL GET for taking part in this economic system. Your suffering will not be rewarded or respected.

You really should stop posting on this topic. Your advice and mental thought process is trash.

Most people who don't come from broken or fvcked up families love and respect their parents.

Sorry to hear you came from one that didn't. Stop projecting what happened to you growing up onto what everyone else thinks or doesn't think.

Kids who have no father in their life have an absurdly high rate of mental issues and other problems as adults. So yes, technically they don't "need" them, just like a human doesn't "need" a place to live. They can go out in the wild and rough it or live in a cave their whole life but why the fvck would you?

 

[Murk]

There is nothing wrong with wanting to be a husband and father, if you know the cons and that is what you really want, not by coercion.

Alpha and Beta are container words, just put whatever narcissistic fantasy you want, mix them together and there you have the definition for you. Alpha are simply traits that make a woman wet, Beta are traits that give her security, both are needed, but not one at the expense of the other, what the ratio between them? Nobody knows cause we all are living different lives, and that's up to you, generally should be more Alpha traits than Beta traits, at least in my case it was.

I don't think security is beta, security is alpha but tends to come in a beta package for subpar women. Beta is the guy without a backbone, scared of sticking to his guns and confrontation, takes the easy way out, rather live on his knees than die standing. An alpha can absolutely provide security, he is just very selective on who gets it due to his options and knowledge of self-worth. I think the "beta provider" term confuses things, he is just give give give, alpha's provide, on a give receive, give receive basis, that ultimately benefits him long term. The act of provision alone is not alpha or beta, it depends who you're providing for.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

An article saying A good man invests in one woman.

Good men don’t seek the short-term, meaningless pleasure of sleeping with a lot of women

This is begging the question, though.

Sleeping around with a lot of women is obviously meaningful to the guy that is sleeping around.

What is or isn't meaningful is up to the individual, and not second or third parties.

— they invest in one woman and take on the long-term responsibilities that come with raising a family.

That is what an alpha do once he is ready to settle down.

A real alpha man is strong. He exercises self-discipline and holds back his base instincts, so he can be responsible for those around him — especially a wife and children.

Thoughts?

Two things can be true at the same time.

An alpha male can play the field, sleep with as many women as he wants...but when it is time to settle down, do all of the responsible family stuff and do it to a high degree.

To do one is not to negate the other...it just depends on where a man is in his life, his mentality, and how he moves.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

An article saying A good man invests in one woman.

A Real Alpha Male Is A Family Man, Not A Playboy

Much has been said about “alpha males,” a term used to describe a desirable man who is successful and attractive to many women.

www.eviemagazine.com

Good men don’t seek the short-term, meaningless pleasure of sleeping with a lot of women — they invest in one woman and take on the long-term responsibilities that come with raising a family. A real alpha man is strong. He exercises self-discipline and holds back his base instincts, so he can be responsible for those around him — especially a wife and children.

Thoughts?

Ask a fish about the water and its perception of what that it is.

 

[SargeMaximus]

What type of society exists where kids are abandoned by their fathers?

Trust me, one you don't want to be a part of.

Family structures exist for a reason and have since humans began. Stop taking this stuff too far, this mentality will not have the end result you think it will.

This makes you sound nonsensical.

Idgaf

 

[Supreme Solar Wolf]

Married "men" are not alpha. They are beta simp cucks. No real man should get married, just like no real man should ask a fish how to catch a fish. PUmp and dump. Stay MGTOW.

 

[Alvafe]

An article saying A good man invests in one woman.

A Real Alpha Male Is A Family Man, Not A Playboy

Much has been said about “alpha males,” a term used to describe a desirable man who is successful and attractive to many women.

www.eviemagazine.com

Good men don’t seek the short-term, meaningless pleasure of sleeping with a lot of women — they invest in one woman and take on the long-term responsibilities that come with raising a family. A real alpha man is strong. He exercises self-discipline and holds back his base instincts, so he can be responsible for those around him — especially a wife and children.

Thoughts?

someone is desperate because can't nail a men down

 

[devilkingx2]

A real Alpha Male does whatever he wants. Letting anyone else dictate morality or how you should live your life is Beta.

What type of society exists where kids are abandoned by their fathers?

Trust me, one you don't want to be a part of.

Family structures exist for a reason and have since humans began. Stop taking this stuff too far, this mentality will not have the end result you think it will.

This makes you sound nonsensical.

The interests of the individual and the interests of society are usually different.

Like if I could get away with shoplifting, it would be extremely beneficial. But it is not beneficial to society or individuals if everybody shoplifts.