A Prayer, A haircut and Happy Hunting.

[BreezyB84]

So,today is my first outing with a girl in my quest to DJ-Hood.. I am going to be in Sarasota,FL and there are beaches and bunnies everywhere..Admittedly, I am a little nervous because I will be acting in a manner I've never acted before, yet still trying to be myself. Some of these beta behaviors have to go and Intend to start now.

Me and the girl are going to lunch today and then taking a boat ride which is cool with me. I am going to test some kino and play with some conversation skills. I am going to work on watching how I act and the things I stay because I tend to be a bit more animated than most so I am going to be a bit more reserved but keep the banter up.. She a blonde social worker so I may have to pull some stuff out of her. I am just glad to be out with a girl to be honest because I just want to get this sh*t going for myself.

*Amendment to my journey*
I admittedly dont have ANY a plates or a lot of contacts(It is what it is,sue me).In a odd way,as extroverted as I am, I am very much the loner. I come home and Im ok reading books or writing and just thinking **** out...I think I attribute that to some fear a little but..With that being said, I will be reaching out to EVERY girl in my phone that ive had non-friendly interaction with. And I mean every...That means ALL girls ive messed up with or dated with in some point. I know the rule is they mess up once, they gotta go and I get it but I gotta start somewhere. The second part of that is these girls can ONLY BE PLATES. Nothing more... I just need decent quality and high volume right now... I want to spin plates. I didn't know what I was doing before them and it will be fun to see if behavior changes make any differences.. I really want to get to know myself in this process but I want to use ever opportunity to learn something new or say something ive never said or do something ive truly never done.

I will try to be as open as possible and I am willing to try anything that is NOT stupid lol. I guess you guys can call me the group lab rat. Every time I ask a girl out or anything I will let you know about it.If you have something you want me to try or a suggestion,please dont hesitate to post it or PM me please. I am that open minded.

As I do this, I will be reading up on day game and trying to get this part down and start trying to meet girls a different way. The scariest part is doing it alone... I dont have any single boys or wing men so I will just have to get better on my own. In many ways, I think that is best way to do it. Im going to try to start with complimenting a beautiful woman when I see her. If I can do that, that is a start.

I've mediated, prayed about it and I am appreciative of finding the forum. But it really doesn't mean anything unless I am willingly to take some steps forward in the process myself.

Tomorrow, I have this girl coming to my house and I am going to cook and were going to watch a movie. Today, I am going to get some new stuff for my condo that is "female friendly". I know I need some FLUFFY towels lol and other things,so if anyone wants to comment on anything else, please let me know.

Im trying so this is a start. Any and all thoughts are greatly appreciated. Blessings to you all!!

 

[Konada]

Make sure you turn that girl whos coming over into a lay. Most threads have to do with the guys not escalating for sex and then wondering wtf happened after 2/3 dates when she suddenly goes cold.

 

[El Payaso]

What @Konada said.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

You don't nerd fluffy towels. You need a couch, and a surface that will survive sex, kitchen bench, a decent wall or all of the above although a bed is nice.

I am going to say something that will get me kicked off the forum.
-forget the dj bible, forget about daygame, negging, ****y and funny, all of that.

The only thing to remember is that she has already decided to f*ck you. She is coming to your house! Your job is to show her that you want to f*ck her too and that you are a confident sexual man and not a complete douche.

That is what kino is about, confident men are not afraid to touch women and show their sexual interest.

If you are busy analysing yourself you will not seem natural or relaxed. You will probably seem like you are doing seduction by numbers, VERY unsexy.

If you want to touch her or kiss her do it and do it with confidence. Don't second guess yourself or hesitate.

 

[BreezyB84]

Welp....these past couple days have been humbling to say the least . ... my outing saturday was blah..... nothing special at all to report there.

I've been flaked on 2 times in 3 days.... I've tried to set a date with this girl yesterday and I sent exactly two text..the first text was me saying hello and cracking a joke and she responded positively.. then I asked her out and said let's do something fun... that was at 2pm yesterday and I still have not heard back from her..
I deeply want to text all these girls and tell them how they rude and inconsiderate they are because that is how I feel. But, I won't because I'm new to this and obviously I'm doing something wrong so, I probably need to do some things differently.. so I'm still plateless right now lol...

I just need to meet more girls plain and simple but being flaked on and ignored sucks regardless . I think tomorrow I will get out in the afternoon and try to just meet some women some how,some way..any thought's are appreciated !

 

[Bible_Belt]

Sarasota beaches are my favorite as far as the actual beach goes, but it's not a place to meet people. If you go a little north to Bradenton, there's Florida white trash everyone, and plenty of little jailbait skanks. Clearwater would be the place to meet tourist girls.

 

[Young OG]

I've tried to set a date with this girl yesterday and I sent exactly two text..the first text was me saying hello and cracking a joke and she responded positively.. then I asked her out and said let's do something fun... that was at 2pm yesterday and I still have not heard back from her

You need to throw some small talk in there. Trying to set up a date in the second message makes you look desperate and thristy.

It takes a while to become a DJ. It doesn't happen over night. You just have to stay focused and keep improving. I've been on here for over a year and I'm still learning everyday.

 

[BreezyB84]

You need to throw some small talk in there. Trying to set up a date in the second message makes you look desperate and thristy.

It takes a while to become a DJ. It doesn't happen over night. You just have to stay focused and keep improving. I've been on here for over a year and I'm still learning everyday.

You need to throw some small talk in there. Trying to set up a date in the second message makes you look desperate and thristy.

It takes a while to become a DJ. It doesn't happen over night. You just have to stay focused and keep improving. I've been on here for over a year and I'm still learning everyday.

I wish I would have knew this earlier..hence why I hate texting..I give up!!lol