So,today is my first outing with a girl in my quest to DJ-Hood.. I am going to be in Sarasota,FL and there are beaches and bunnies everywhere..Admittedly, I am a little nervous because I will be acting in a manner I've never acted before, yet still trying to be myself. Some of these beta behaviors have to go and Intend to start now.
Me and the girl are going to lunch today and then taking a boat ride which is cool with me. I am going to test some kino and play with some conversation skills. I am going to work on watching how I act and the things I stay because I tend to be a bit more animated than most so I am going to be a bit more reserved but keep the banter up.. She a blonde social worker so I may have to pull some stuff out of her. I am just glad to be out with a girl to be honest because I just want to get this sh*t going for myself.
*Amendment to my journey*
I admittedly dont have ANY a plates or a lot of contacts(It is what it is,sue me).In a odd way,as extroverted as I am, I am very much the loner. I come home and Im ok reading books or writing and just thinking **** out...I think I attribute that to some fear a little but..With that being said, I will be reaching out to EVERY girl in my phone that ive had non-friendly interaction with. And I mean every...That means ALL girls ive messed up with or dated with in some point. I know the rule is they mess up once, they gotta go and I get it but I gotta start somewhere. The second part of that is these girls can ONLY BE PLATES. Nothing more... I just need decent quality and high volume right now... I want to spin plates. I didn't know what I was doing before them and it will be fun to see if behavior changes make any differences.. I really want to get to know myself in this process but I want to use ever opportunity to learn something new or say something ive never said or do something ive truly never done.
I will try to be as open as possible and I am willing to try anything that is NOT stupid lol. I guess you guys can call me the group lab rat. Every time I ask a girl out or anything I will let you know about it.If you have something you want me to try or a suggestion,please dont hesitate to post it or PM me please. I am that open minded.
As I do this, I will be reading up on day game and trying to get this part down and start trying to meet girls a different way. The scariest part is doing it alone... I dont have any single boys or wing men so I will just have to get better on my own. In many ways, I think that is best way to do it. Im going to try to start with complimenting a beautiful woman when I see her. If I can do that, that is a start.
I've mediated, prayed about it and I am appreciative of finding the forum. But it really doesn't mean anything unless I am willingly to take some steps forward in the process myself.
Tomorrow, I have this girl coming to my house and I am going to cook and were going to watch a movie. Today, I am going to get some new stuff for my condo that is "female friendly". I know I need some FLUFFY towels lol and other things,so if anyone wants to comment on anything else, please let me know.
Im trying so this is a start. Any and all thoughts are greatly appreciated. Blessings to you all!!
Me and the girl are going to lunch today and then taking a boat ride which is cool with me. I am going to test some kino and play with some conversation skills. I am going to work on watching how I act and the things I stay because I tend to be a bit more animated than most so I am going to be a bit more reserved but keep the banter up.. She a blonde social worker so I may have to pull some stuff out of her. I am just glad to be out with a girl to be honest because I just want to get this sh*t going for myself.
*Amendment to my journey*
I admittedly dont have ANY a plates or a lot of contacts(It is what it is,sue me).In a odd way,as extroverted as I am, I am very much the loner. I come home and Im ok reading books or writing and just thinking **** out...I think I attribute that to some fear a little but..With that being said, I will be reaching out to EVERY girl in my phone that ive had non-friendly interaction with. And I mean every...That means ALL girls ive messed up with or dated with in some point. I know the rule is they mess up once, they gotta go and I get it but I gotta start somewhere. The second part of that is these girls can ONLY BE PLATES. Nothing more... I just need decent quality and high volume right now... I want to spin plates. I didn't know what I was doing before them and it will be fun to see if behavior changes make any differences.. I really want to get to know myself in this process but I want to use ever opportunity to learn something new or say something ive never said or do something ive truly never done.
I will try to be as open as possible and I am willing to try anything that is NOT stupid lol. I guess you guys can call me the group lab rat. Every time I ask a girl out or anything I will let you know about it.If you have something you want me to try or a suggestion,please dont hesitate to post it or PM me please. I am that open minded.
As I do this, I will be reading up on day game and trying to get this part down and start trying to meet girls a different way. The scariest part is doing it alone... I dont have any single boys or wing men so I will just have to get better on my own. In many ways, I think that is best way to do it. Im going to try to start with complimenting a beautiful woman when I see her. If I can do that, that is a start.
I've mediated, prayed about it and I am appreciative of finding the forum. But it really doesn't mean anything unless I am willingly to take some steps forward in the process myself.
Tomorrow, I have this girl coming to my house and I am going to cook and were going to watch a movie. Today, I am going to get some new stuff for my condo that is "female friendly". I know I need some FLUFFY towels lol and other things,so if anyone wants to comment on anything else, please let me know.
Im trying so this is a start. Any and all thoughts are greatly appreciated. Blessings to you all!!