lonewolf17
Don Juan
Confidence comes from within, not without.
I've learned this the hard way.
A few months ago I decided to get a new warddrobe, and all of the sudden I noticed something strange. What was it...I couldn't put my finger on it. Oh my, it was the ladies checking me out! My confidence was boosted. All of the sudden, I felt like I could hold my head high and go up and talk to girls - and it worked! I was getting dates and attention and everything I never had before. I even had a girl hit on me who had previously given me the worst rejection I've ever had.
"Ahh yes", I thought to myself, "it's the CLOTHES!" So I went out and bought more - and what do you know, my streak of self confidence continued and grew. "It's GOTTA be the clothes!" I told myself. And the more I went up and talked to people feeling confident, the more success I had.
But I hit a bump in the road, and had a set back. I had a bad date, I screwed up, just once. And all of the sudden I felt scared and nervous again, like I had no idea what I was doing. I crawled back in my dark shell. From there on out, it was a spiral, and my confidence went up in flames, each attempt at flirting with a girl going more and more poorly, and my confidence draining with each passing day.
So I went out and bought more clothes, thinking I was buying more self confidence. But it didn't work. I wore the exactly the same stylish clothing, but girls no longer checked me out. I was dumbfounded. I no longer felt like superman, my secret weapon had failed me. Why wasn't what had girls attracted to me before attracting them now?
But then I realized. THAT was my problem. I didn't realize that the confidence boost I experianced was all me. The girls weren't checking out my stupid clothes. They noticed I was confident. THAT is what attracted them. And everytime I had success from this little spark of confidence, I grew more successful. I could have went to wearing rags at that point, it wouldn't have mattered too much, as long as I was still confident.
But in my mind, it was all the 'clothes' that was doing it. So when I had a minor set back and let my confidence derail, girls became less attracted to me because I lost my confidence I wore the same stuff, but no longer had the confidence, so it was futile.
So let this be a lesson for those who are about to spent crazy money on a Mustang - it isn't the Mustang that will get the girls, it's the confidence. Have fun with the car, but make sure your confidence is coming from within not without.
I've learned this the hard way.
A few months ago I decided to get a new warddrobe, and all of the sudden I noticed something strange. What was it...I couldn't put my finger on it. Oh my, it was the ladies checking me out! My confidence was boosted. All of the sudden, I felt like I could hold my head high and go up and talk to girls - and it worked! I was getting dates and attention and everything I never had before. I even had a girl hit on me who had previously given me the worst rejection I've ever had.
"Ahh yes", I thought to myself, "it's the CLOTHES!" So I went out and bought more - and what do you know, my streak of self confidence continued and grew. "It's GOTTA be the clothes!" I told myself. And the more I went up and talked to people feeling confident, the more success I had.
But I hit a bump in the road, and had a set back. I had a bad date, I screwed up, just once. And all of the sudden I felt scared and nervous again, like I had no idea what I was doing. I crawled back in my dark shell. From there on out, it was a spiral, and my confidence went up in flames, each attempt at flirting with a girl going more and more poorly, and my confidence draining with each passing day.
So I went out and bought more clothes, thinking I was buying more self confidence. But it didn't work. I wore the exactly the same stylish clothing, but girls no longer checked me out. I was dumbfounded. I no longer felt like superman, my secret weapon had failed me. Why wasn't what had girls attracted to me before attracting them now?
But then I realized. THAT was my problem. I didn't realize that the confidence boost I experianced was all me. The girls weren't checking out my stupid clothes. They noticed I was confident. THAT is what attracted them. And everytime I had success from this little spark of confidence, I grew more successful. I could have went to wearing rags at that point, it wouldn't have mattered too much, as long as I was still confident.
But in my mind, it was all the 'clothes' that was doing it. So when I had a minor set back and let my confidence derail, girls became less attracted to me because I lost my confidence I wore the same stuff, but no longer had the confidence, so it was futile.
So let this be a lesson for those who are about to spent crazy money on a Mustang - it isn't the Mustang that will get the girls, it's the confidence. Have fun with the car, but make sure your confidence is coming from within not without.
