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[Gamisch]

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Ouch

Man, I'm telling you I've done this shyte way too often...justt hitting up an old flame out of desperation equals this.

Tbh even staying on OLD entertaining women you aint even attracted to just to get some =begging for p00sy. And they KNOW this! That's why eventually hb4 will also dump you. Because she knows she's the best you can get at that particular moment in life, making her feel like an hb10,5 while she looks at you as a smv 2...

The sad tales of The p00sy beggar...

"Mam' , can I just pretty please just have a whiff of your private parts? Your azz, your armpits?? Some shyte stained panties, some dirty socks or even a used tampon? PLEASE MAM', HOW ELSE I'LL EVER GET SOME , MADAME MOISELLE???"

 

[anour]

Get a new hobby - does not matter how many you have, get something more. Learn more skills. Find new social circles. Do something you find enjoyable and are (or given time will be) proficient in. Let other people (not just girls) see you in that environment. Never go outside just to look for girls - unless it is a date, a proto-date, or you just seek social experience. Go outside because you want to go, and focus on yourself.



Yes, I tend to agree. Even if it may not be optimal, it surely is the most efficient way to do it. Unless you just need to overcome approach, etc, anxiety - then just do cold (and warm) approaches ad nauseam.

In the end, girls like confidence. They like a man who knows what he is doing. The fact is, that "older" men in their 30s, etc, have had more time to build up real value and thus confidence. While younger men may come off as try-hard, older men usually do not need to, because they know their value - if they have any, of course.

Also, based on some of your comment replies here: Humility (not the nice guy syndrome!) comes a long way, including with women.

What do you mean by humility? How can you act “humil” while not crossing to nice-guy syndrom?

 

[anour]

"Doc I NEED some p00sy NOW!"
- stop focusing on girls so much ect"
" But DOC i don't want a general answer I need an answer so Stacy who ingored after quadruple texting, I NEED it NOW"
- Build yourself up, surround yourself with dope people and be the leader of dope event. Hit the gym, make cash and studiy hame FOR life .

Don't look at an approach as something that's valuable. It's a throwaway thing, something ANY man eventually does natural ( assuming it's within your nature to want to reproduce).

Dont hold "the game" accountable, just play it. You are on the right path. What did the approaches cost you? Nothing. In fact, it added to your life . Because IF you meet women due to " coincidence " you'll know HOW to play now! Like you followed a course how to..make whatever .

Thank you for your advice. You give some good ass advice without being a ****.

 

[anour]

Well kudos if you are, that takes courage to do.

The only thing I would say is --- are you basically like a chicken with your head cut off in the way you are approaching these women? Anything with a *****? You want to be a bit discriminatory in your approaches --- that should increase your odds.

Also don't feel like you have to ****in cold approach every time you are out. If you go out with the intention to do it, it will show and it will repel women. You don't want to be that guy and we all know what I am talking about - sahara desert thirsty guy. When you step out the door you should be cool and carefree - it will reflect in your body language.

Wdym by a chicken with the their head cut off?

 

[anour]

Ouch

Man, I'm telling you I've done this shyte way too often...justt hitting up an old flame out of desperation equals this.

Tbh even staying on OLD entertaining women you aint even attracted to just to get some =begging for p00sy. And they KNOW this! That's why eventually hb4 will also dump you. Because she knows she's the best you can get at that particular moment in life, making her feel like an hb10,5 while she looks at you as a smv 2...

The sad tales of The p00sy beggar...

"Mam' , can I just pretty please just have a whiff of your private parts? Your azz, your armpits?? Some shyte stained panties, some dirty socks or even a used tampon? PLEASE MAM', HOW ELSE I'LL EVER GET SOME , MADAME MOISELLE???"

Damn bruv you must’ve had it rough entertaining tinder chicks while you didn’t bang a 4 nor had a relationship. I don’t beg for *****, as a logical man with high self-esteem, i won’t ever put myself in such a situation, and i posted the thread to see whether i need to correct my course of action if necessary. Just because you put yourself in that situation doesn’t mean every other man will. You spoke volume but only about yourself.

 

[anour]

Girls should never be the main focus of your life, but merely a compliment to your life.
Focus on yourself and become a high value man. Girls in your age are not interested in you anyway.
They are interested in the guys that are +30 and up and are already established high value guys.

This advice regardless on our difference of opinions on 30+ and their value offering is amazing. Thank you.

 

[Gamisch]

Damn bruv you must’ve had it rough entertaining tinder chicks while you didn’t bang a 4 nor had a relationship. I don’t beg for *****, as a logical man with high self-esteem, i won’t ever put myself in such a situation, and i posted the thread to see whether i need to correct my course of action if necessary. Just because you put yourself in that situation doesn’t mean every other man will. You spoke volume but only about yourself.

Yup.

I did many things for p00sy that I'm not proud of today. Chasing and taking whatever came my way. Including low hb women.

I don't really mind sharing that with y'all. The goal is to get better. Honesty is a big part of that.

 

[anour]

Yup.

I did many things for p00sy that I'm not proud of today. Chasing and taking whatever came my way. Including low hb women.

I don't really mind sharing that with y'all. The goal is to get better. Honesty is a big part of that.

I feel that ****ing women, without any considerations of value lowers your value tremendously on all aspects. Subconsciously, you begin to internalize this is about the best i can get. From a game perspective, if a women of hb8 sees you with a hb4, your value automatically becomes hb4 even less even if the hb8 had higher value set on you, lose-lose on all ends. In the end, we all make mistakes and god knows i’ve made like 2 of these and never again in my life, but we learn, grow and live for another day.
Stay blessed and true to yourself.

 

[anour]

What a d*ckish response.
I think I know why your cold approaches aren't working.

What’s the ****ish about that? You need to understand in Holland, particularly my city, alot of these women be ****ing senseless rats with absoutely nothing to offer in term of 30+ “value” that can’t be matched by a 20 year old. Stop being a little twerp and understand the context

 

[Serenity]

What do you mean by humility? How can you act “humil” while not crossing to nice-guy syndrom?

Humility has very little to do with being a nice guy, I'd even argue that the typical nice guy lacks it to a significant degree. Humility is being able to listen, reflect and be willing to admit to yourself first and foremost that you might be wrong. Without humility you can't learn, without learning you can't improve and without improvement you'll just keep failing over and over again.

I suspect you only understand humility superficially as the act of appearing humble, not knowing what it actually is.

Stop being a little twerp and understand the context

Please avoid using insults, it sours the discussion and is against the forum rules.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

OP do more of the fun things you like that don't involve women, and focus on the short-term things that will improve your status and reduce your thirst. (fashion, gym, escorts, etc). The long term goals people keep hinting at aren't going to help you anytime soon and you might be living in a Mad Max hellscape anyway. The "build your life" guys are kinda missing the boat on this.

 

[DonJuanjr]

The "build your life" guys are kinda missing the boat on this.

Especially since everyone is dealt different cards through life, and may be starting way later than they should have. At 35, I should spend 15 years becoming a high value man (while being celibate) to get pusssy at 50....

 

[Dr.Suave]

I've made some mistakes too. We all do mistakes.

Yes, all of you guys have made mistakes. So true, bro.

 

[Smooth_texter]

In western society, women don’t look for a provider. Not when they’re 18-25. They look for fun, confident & charismatic men with social status. Get it through your head.

This was true even 11-12 years ago, when I was your age (before OLD, and social media not being that big)

Young women are having the time of their life - going on trips, being hit on everywhere they go, getting a lot of likes and so on. Most women's primary concern in that age is how to maximize fun and pleasure.

 

[Smooth_texter]

What you’re saying is right in one sense only, if these chicks are gold diggers. In the netherlands women (majority) dgaf and will **** just about anybody if they find him attractive. I’ve seen guys with worn out AF1 that are ****ing yellow ****ing some 11s/10. Taking a humble approach using your analogy is taking the stance of defeat, wake up man. Alot of women be ****ing toxic, broke ass mfers, why? Because they provide fun & emotional roller-coasters.

That is true. An early 20 something woman would look for a 20 something male with at least a similar SMV and an interesting personality. She does not need a provider at this point.

The second part is also correct - women get easily bored from regular life and work - thus they love to balance that with strong dopamine spikes from trips or relations with volatile men.

 

[Styr]

What do you mean by humility? How can you act “humil” while not crossing to nice-guy syndrom?

The same way a man can be confident and masculine without being a jerk.

Humility is the opposite on arrogance. A nice guy, however, is often arrogant. As is a jerk. But a jerk can get away with it, because he is congruent.

 

[Styr]

OP do more of the fun things you like that don't involve women, and focus on the short-term things that will improve your status and reduce your thirst. (fashion, gym, escorts, etc). The long term goals people keep hinting at aren't going to help you anytime soon and you might be living in a Mad Max hellscape anyway. The "build your life" guys are kinda missing the boat on this.

The "build your life" guys are 100% correct here. One just has to do it right. Gamification is a great strategy to improve ones life. I am sure there are many ways to implement it. I personally use a spreadsheet with all the skills I am improving, award points for my activities, and keep track on my growth and improvement this way. It really motivates me to put in more time and effort to become a better man.

 

[Serenity]

A nice guy, however, is often arrogant. As is a jerk. But a jerk can get away with it, because he is congruent.

Put differently, the jerk is at least honest about it, the nice guy is trying to hide it and is even deluding himself.

Frankly, I think women would rather have a jerk she knows how to read than the nice guy who unpredictability turns into cvnt for everything and nothing at all. They're both assh0les, but the jerk is at least playing with an open hand.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

The "build your life" guys are 100% correct here. One just has to do it right. Gamification is a great strategy to improve ones life. I am sure there are many ways to implement it. I personally use a spreadsheet with all the skills I am improving, award points for my activities, and keep track on my growth and improvement this way. It really motivates me to put in more time and effort to become a better man.

Ok but if your country was on the brink of being dragged into world war two, for example, would you still be saying the same thing?

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Put differently, the jerk is at least honest about it, the nice guy is trying to hide it and is even deluding himself.

Frankly, I think women would rather have a jerk she knows how to read than the nice guy who unpredictability turns into cvnt for everything and nothing at all. They're both assh0les, but the jerk is at least playing with an open hand.

Are *women* playing with an open hand?