Update...
Date 2 last night. Although she said she doesn't consider it a real date, as we went out for an appetizers and some beers at a bar. I picked her up at her place, and we went to the pub. Had a real good conversation. We both had a few beers so feeling relaxed.
Lots of good topics discussed. She told me about some past relationships, current life issues, and what shes looking for. Not to be whatever, but she is really into me. I'm an interesting guy, with good looks and charisma as she puts it. I feel like I'm in the drivers seat with this one which is nice for a change. She definitely says way more nice things about me than Ive said about her.
We ended kissing a lot sitting at the bar. In fact she wanted to make a point that I was someone special to her so at one point she climbed up on my lap and planted a long wet kiss on. There weren't a whole lot of people there, but maybe 10 or so? We were sitting smack dab at the middle of the bar so this was all happening there in the open. I paid for the drinks and food again. No offer on her part.
We left and went back to her place where we talked while lying on the couch. Not much more kissing went on, but she made it clear she wanted to build a relationship before she sleeps with someone. She is totally sexual, and made a point of letting me know that. Not that hadn't figured it out already, but she said she would prefer sex every night, and her biggest two things in a relationship are trust and sexual chemistry. Fell asleep with her only to drive home at 4a as I had to work this morning.
So anyway, I could go on, but so far its going well. Again, this is a successful woman that needs no one to provide for her. Funny thing is I'm not intimidated at all, in fact my confidence is turning her on big time. To be honest Ive always been a little passive, so I'm intrigued at how this thing is playing out as well.
She wants to date on Valentines Day, but I have my daughter that night and dont know if I can swing it. I offered to make it up over the weekend if it doesn't work out, but she really wants to do something Thursday. How would you guys handle Valentines Day with this woman?