A little lesson, and a little question.

[AC/DC]

Last week, I asked out this girl. And just for fun, I did "C+F", the thing I told you all was crap but not many of you really listened.

Guess what? The day went piss poor because I kept being "****y about myself and funny about my penis size. I got the "lets just be friends". No surprise there.

I told you all, ****y + Funny DOESN'T WORK.

Anyways, I got around this little problem. I told her "I'm acting weird around you, and i donno why. You haven't seen the real me. It seems like all I want is ass or whatever, I just want some TLC (tender love and care). And I have no idea what to say when all your friends are hanging around, and when I wanna talk to you I donno what I wanna say and all."

I'm sure 99% of you are saying "AC/DC(WUWD) YOU AREN'T A DON JUAN YOU ARE AN AFC YOU WERE NOT CONFIDENT!

Well, you know what? That's not being a man.

Part of being a man is being able to admit your fears, but STAND UP AND CONQUER THEM! You don't want your girls to see you as someone who can never be toppled, because that's annoying to them. Be a smiling, easy-going guy. In the long run and the short run, that's what the girls want, and people will form higher opinions of you right away.

That's your lesson. Here's my question.

Unfortunately, I was taught (improperly, might I add) that C+F is the way to go. But it got me in the friends zone. I managed to get another chance with her, but I really don't want to mess this up.

This is THE girl for me, I don't wanna let her slip out of my hands this time. So anybody have any clue on how to just be a natural with this girl, and how to be the guy she really wants to have? In other words, I'm trying to open up and get rid of my C+F.

Any ideas?

Thank you all for reading.

 

[Eternal]

Originally posted by AC/DC
Last week, I asked out this girl. And just for fun, I did "C+F", the thing I told you all was crap but not many of you really listened.

Guess what? The day went piss poor because I kept being "****y about myself and funny about my penis size. I got the "lets just be friends". No surprise there.

I told you all, ****y + Funny DOESN'T WORK.

That's not C&F, that's just plain stupid. As far as "how to be myself," um...Just mellow out, relax, and let the fun roll. Just do what feels natural. You should do fine man.

 

[AC/DC]

Originally posted by GigaloDJ
oh yeah and don't make fun of yourself

And why not?

A man should be able to humor himself.

And why should I read the bible? I've MEMORIZED the bible.

Hell, some of my posts even MAKE UP the bible. LOL ,no point reading it again.

I think crazykid's idea to not pounce on everything with a stupid joke and such is very profound. Come naturally should go fine, just work on a good steady conversation...

Hey, that's not bad!

 

[Anson]

ACDC... have you ever heard that when a woman gives you the "let's just be friends" line, you should next her? It sounds to me like you are suffering from a one-itis (all that "she is THE girl for me" sounds pretty lame to me...)

So you got a second chance now? That's great. I bet her IL is pretty low, so what you gotta do is get it back up. If C+F isn't for you (I know there are a lot of people who don't know how to use it and take the ****yness way too far) then don't use it.

The problem is that you are not telling us how well you know this woman. But if you don't know her that well, do the normal DJ manuevers (control and challenge are the key words to that, but I think that as a more experienced DJ you already know how to use them properly on a date etc...). Then again, if you already know each other then you need to think of something new stuff, something you have never done together. Like they say, you need to be "full of surprises" even when you know her a little better. And if all that doesn't get her IL high - seriously, you have to accept the possibility that you might have to next her before she nexts you.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Originally posted by AC/DC
Last week, I asked out this girl. And just for fun, I did "C+F", the thing I told you all was crap but not many of you really listened.

Guess what? The day went piss poor because I kept being "****y about myself and funny about my penis size. I got the "lets just be friends". No surprise there.

I told you all, ****y + Funny DOESN'T WORK.

Anyways, I got around this little problem. I told her "I'm acting weird around you, and i donno why. You haven't seen the real me. It seems like all I want is ass or whatever, I just want some TLC (tender love and care). And I have no idea what to say when all your friends are hanging around, and when I wanna talk to you I donno what I wanna say and all."

I'm sure 99% of you are saying "AC/DC(WUWD) YOU AREN'T A DON JUAN YOU ARE AN AFC YOU WERE NOT CONFIDENT!

Well, you know what? That's not being a man.

Part of being a man is being able to admit your fears, but STAND UP AND CONQUER THEM! You don't want your girls to see you as someone who can never be toppled, because that's annoying to them. Be a smiling, easy-going guy. In the long run and the short run, that's what the girls want, and people will form higher opinions of you right away.

That's your lesson. Here's my question.

Unfortunately, I was taught (improperly, might I add) that C+F is the way to go. But it got me in the friends zone. I managed to get another chance with her, but I really don't want to mess this up.

This is THE girl for me, I don't wanna let her slip out of my hands this time. So anybody have any clue on how to just be a natural with this girl, and how to be the guy she really wants to have? In other words, I'm trying to open up and get rid of my C+F.

Any ideas?

Thank you all for reading.

Are you phucking high or just a dumbass? Its sad how you HONESTLY believe that what you said was ****y. It was more on the side of arrogance. You're not so intellgent by the looks of the crap you typed. Just like in your last post bashing c+f we told you that you dont even know how to go about doing it. In which you obviously proved right here. I dont even blieve that youre being serious, its like all of what you said is a joke...or maybe its you??!!?...

 

[Ded_Skin_Mask13]

Another reason why our friend AC/DC here is a f*cking dipsh*t!

First the band names, now C+F..

Look. Talking about your d*ck and mainly about yourself is not being ****y or funny to a chick. She obviously saw that you are full of sh*t. C+F DOES WORK. And the way you think C+F is, ISN'T!

You made yourself like an arrogant ******* than an intelligent and witty guy that C+F is supposed to radiate...

Read the Bible a little more buddy! C+F DOES WORK.

You just made yourself look like a jerk and a motherf*cking pig! not a DJ!

The only lesson you gave me was AC/DC(the guy on the forums) IS A F*CKING IDIOT.....which I already know.

 

[Anson]

Cool it a bit people will you. It's just plain dumb to start a flame war on wether C+F works or not. We all know that it can work sometimes on some girls if used properly, but if you don't feel like it's a part of you (like AC/DC apparently isn't feeling) then you shouldn't use it. Because if you don't believe in what you are doing, you are almost bound to fail.

 

[AC/DC]

Kids, kids, calm down.

Stop following the rule book. Step outside of yourself.

And just because a girl is VERY compatible with you and I voice it, that makes me an AFC and pisses away nearly 2 years of DJ training and knowledge?

You guys are just posers who have no idea what a real high school idol should be like.

I'm almost sorry I even asked.

((By the way, yeah, ****y + funny WAS EXACTLY what I did. Of course it messed up. What you WANT to be is F+E (Funny and Easy-going). Just needs a little name change there.))

Matrix would swoop down and say "step out of the box", but he's busy right now. You guys are living by a rule book: "ohh, you said THIS which means you are an AFC, oh you said THIS you are a Don Juan good job."

For instance, Anson said: "if a girl gives you the LJBF, next her."

Well you know what? I did what a man would do: I told her flat out that she shouldnt make a decision based on someone I'm not. End of story. Problem solved. JUST BECAUSE I DON'T GIVE UP LIKE YOU LOSERS ON A GIRL I CAN EASILY GET does, in no way, make me an AFC There is no one-itis, I just see potential for a great relationship.

Do you see what it means to be a man now? Not telling the girl "have it your way". A man attacks for what he wants. Always. I got shot down once. I ripped out the LJBF bullet, threw it to the ground, packed up my rifle and went again. Never surrender, because that is what really brings you down. I

Now you can either elaborate on crazykid's reply and be helpful ,or you can stop typing, because I don't want to put up with such idiotic replies like "your phuckin high and read bible and youre an AFC because you said out loud that you were compatible"

Please, children, being a Don Juan is about being able to use your head, and IMPROVISE. I just did. Have you?

 

[Ded_Skin_Mask13]

nobody called you an AFC you d*ck! I'm not saying follow the rules completely, all i'm saying is take what the bible says and mold it into your own way of doing things. What you were using was basically being full of yourself and not many people like that. They don't take you as seriously. Now if you think you are gonna get far in life by just talking about yourself and exclaiming how great you think you are, then that's fine but no one is going to give a damn..

 

[AC/DC]

Originally posted by Ded_Skin_Mask13
nobody called you an AFC you d*ck! I'm not saying follow the rules completely, all i'm saying is take what the bible says and mold it into your own way of doing things. What you were using was basically being full of yourself and not many people like that. They don't take you as seriously. Now if you think you are gonna get far in life by just talking about yourself and exclaiming how great you think you are, then that's fine but no one is going to give a damn..

That's better.

 

[Anson]

Originally posted by AC/DC
For instance, Anson said: "if a girl gives you the LJBF, next her."

Not necessarily always. But if you are suffering from a one-itis, then definetly. I don't know are you, but that is the impression I got from your first post.

I agree with you on some level; rules are ment to be broken. But the way you do it might be more harmful than good for you. Just a warning from one DJ to another; the situation where you are in might turn ugly when hearts start breaking. "This is the girl for me..." think about those words you said there, and ask yourself: are you REALLY out there just to have fun, like a DJ should be, or are you taking useless and devastating pressure on yourself because this girl...

 

[AC/DC]

Originally posted by Anson
Not necessarily always. But if you are suffering from a one-itis, then definetly. I don't know are you, but that is the impression I got from your first post.

I agree with you on some level; rules are ment to be broken. But the way you do it might be more harmful than good for you. Just a warning from one DJ to another; the situation where you are in might turn ugly when hearts start breaking. "This is the girl for me..." think about those words you said there, and ask yourself: are you REALLY out there just to have fun, like a DJ should be, or are you taking useless and devastating pressure on yourself because this girl...

I put somewhat a degree of importance on it, but hey, who doesn't. She is extremely compatible with me (although a bit oversensitive) and I'm getting a bit nervous and makin a fool of myself.

So I just need to relax.

And I'm glad you agree with me. Best friends

 

[Eternal]

Originally posted by AC/DC
Now you can either elaborate on crazykid's reply and be helpful ,or you can stop typing, because I don't want to put up with such idiotic replies like "your phuckin high and read bible and youre an AFC because you said out loud that you were compatible"

Please, children, being a Don Juan is about being able to use your head, and IMPROVISE. I just did. Have you?

I think I can elaborate on Crazykids reply the best.

"Thats just stupid": So you are going to try and be funny with about your penis size with a girl on the first date? What in gods name made you do that? First date = Make them feel comfy. I don't think joking that you have a big wang will do that.

"Just mellow out, relax, and let the fun roll. Just do what feels natural.": Why put on an act around people? "I put on my daily facade and then, I just end up getting hurt again." The more you act, the more you will get hurt. If you aren't naturally funny, work on it, but don't act like you are. What makes women so special that you have to act a certain way?

 

[DJZAP]

Guess what? The day went piss poor because I kept being "****y about myself and funny about my penis size. I got the "lets just be friends". No surprise there.



"Hey babe, you know I'm 5'11 with a 16 inch c0ck right?"

Oh Yeah thats goning to go over real well. Just cause your a lil bit slower doesn't mean C&F doesn't work.

 

[Ded_Skin_Mask13]

yeah, you f*cking newbies need to read a little better what ****y and funny is all about..

 

[Eternal]

Originally posted by Ded_Skin_Mask13
yeah, you f*cking newbies need to read a little better what ****y and funny is all about..

You do realize that AC/DC = Whatsupwiddat, don't you?

 

[Anson]

DJZAP... REDSKIN... here is a newsflash for you: WE GET IT! Stop ****ing dwelling on it goddammit, pisses me off to see people going on and on about the same issue even though nobody disagrees with them.

Redskin... you haven't posted a single word worth reading in this particular thread! If you really don't want to contribute to the conversation in ANY way, if you are here only to kill time or something, then I suggest you find yourself a hobby or go hit on some chicks out there, because EVERYONE already gets that what AC/DC said was a bad line.

For the last time:

Stop dwelling on it. We got it the first time you said it (and even that time you said like 3-4 times)

 

[Ded_Skin_Mask13]

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Originally posted by Ded_Skin_Mask13
yeah, you f*cking newbies need to read a little better what ****y and funny is all about..
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Anson, I didn't mean that for AC/DC and in fact I just realized i had him on my AOL buddy list! And my insults to him are taken back.

Now I have dropped it like you want me to. Now i want you to do something for me...LEARN TO SPELL MY NAME RIGHT DUMBASS!

 

[AC/DC]

I ARE TEH WUWD AND U ARE WILL RESPECT I!!!!

Crazykid said

I think I can elaborate on Crazykids reply the best.

You made me actually start chuckling like an old british guy on that one.

It was funny when Ded_Skin_Mask13 called me a newbie too.
I suppose being here registered only since November 2001 makes me new too


Anyways, good to see the problem is solved. No fighting on my threads, ever.

Love ya all.

 

[Anson]

Hmmm... I really wonder who you ment it for then, since me, WUWD and Crazykid are all what someone might call "oldies"

But I have to apologize for calling you redskin, dedskin. Won't happen again.

Yah, good to hear that all is fine again! Now I'm off to bed... nice convo, people.