RockstarPUA
Don Juan
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My name is Rockstar. I am a PUA in Vancouver.
I have been subscribed to the Sosuave newletter for years. Sosuave is what got me started in the game and for this I am thankful.
I have noticed a recent trend in some of your emails that is contradictory to what I have learned after 2 years of doing this.
The problem that I see is that you (and the guys on sosuave) focus too much on the material.
Material will give you an understanding of how you should be acting. This is great but it won't get many guys anywhere.
Allen said in his recent newsletter:
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The Few - The Proud
"Do you realize that if you've read all the articles and tips at
SoSuave.com, then you most likely know more about male-female
relationships than 95% of the guys out there? (Heck, maybe even
99%.)
Your competition, for the finest ladies around, knows practically
NOTHING about women. This should be a tremendous boost to your confidence, your self-esteem, and give you a general all-around good feeling about life... and these traits, of course, will make you even more attractive to women.
So let me ask you... how often do you visit the site? How many of
the thousands of articles and tips have you read? You do know that the site is updated with new info several times every week, right?
The key to filling your life with women, happiness, and oodles of
freaky romance is right before you. All you have to do is click."
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Everything said here is true. Your right. If a guy reads every article than he will know more about femals, male-female relationships and social interactions than 99.9% of the guys out there. This is all fine and dandy. This is what got me started.
What these guys have to realize though is that just because you understand male-female interactions, this doesn't mean you will be successful.
While these guys sit at home and read article after article, guys like me are out in clubs, on the street and every other venue imaginable practicing this stuff. We are getting results. Are you guys?
If I sat at home and read article after article for the year that I've been doing this, my game wouldn't be anywhere. For the first few months of my learning process all I did was read material. It helped my understanding sure, but I really started to see results when I actually went out and applied this material. When I started aproaching girl after girl I started getting conversations, numbers, makeouts and hookups from georgious women.
Are you going to get all of this by sitting at home and reading material? Hell no! Sure it makes you feel better but you will only learn how to be successful with women once you get out in the field and practice this on THOUSANDS of women.
To be honest, i have stopped reading material all together. I will read/learn something and then practice it and get it tight with my game before reading something else (this can take months). That is the key to this game: Going out and making all of these things your reading congruent with you so you become a guy that is naturally good with women.
Your competition knows nothing about the theory behind picking up women. This is true. But while your at home in your computer chair reading, these guys are out learning FIRST HAND what works and what doesn't. These are the guys that you will see with the models, with the strippers, with the cheerleaders. These guys are the ones that grew balls, committed themselevs and went out and suffered the 'tortures of the damned' (facing their fears, insecurities, nervouseness and getting blown out) night after night in clubs and on the street.
Believe it or not, KNOWING about women will not make you more attractive. You can know all of the information in the world but when that GORGIOUS FUNNY SMART SEXY woman walks in the room if you cant approach her with the right body language, and without studdering or looking nervous she will deem you as a loser like the rest of the loveable loser AFCs out there.
Get out and learn in the field.
~Rockstar
I have been subscribed to the Sosuave newletter for years. Sosuave is what got me started in the game and for this I am thankful.
I have noticed a recent trend in some of your emails that is contradictory to what I have learned after 2 years of doing this.
The problem that I see is that you (and the guys on sosuave) focus too much on the material.
Material will give you an understanding of how you should be acting. This is great but it won't get many guys anywhere.
Allen said in his recent newsletter:
---------------------------------------------------------------------------------
The Few - The Proud
"Do you realize that if you've read all the articles and tips at
SoSuave.com, then you most likely know more about male-female
relationships than 95% of the guys out there? (Heck, maybe even
99%.)
Your competition, for the finest ladies around, knows practically
NOTHING about women. This should be a tremendous boost to your confidence, your self-esteem, and give you a general all-around good feeling about life... and these traits, of course, will make you even more attractive to women.
So let me ask you... how often do you visit the site? How many of
the thousands of articles and tips have you read? You do know that the site is updated with new info several times every week, right?
The key to filling your life with women, happiness, and oodles of
freaky romance is right before you. All you have to do is click."
---------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Everything said here is true. Your right. If a guy reads every article than he will know more about femals, male-female relationships and social interactions than 99.9% of the guys out there. This is all fine and dandy. This is what got me started.
What these guys have to realize though is that just because you understand male-female interactions, this doesn't mean you will be successful.
While these guys sit at home and read article after article, guys like me are out in clubs, on the street and every other venue imaginable practicing this stuff. We are getting results. Are you guys?
If I sat at home and read article after article for the year that I've been doing this, my game wouldn't be anywhere. For the first few months of my learning process all I did was read material. It helped my understanding sure, but I really started to see results when I actually went out and applied this material. When I started aproaching girl after girl I started getting conversations, numbers, makeouts and hookups from georgious women.
Are you going to get all of this by sitting at home and reading material? Hell no! Sure it makes you feel better but you will only learn how to be successful with women once you get out in the field and practice this on THOUSANDS of women.
To be honest, i have stopped reading material all together. I will read/learn something and then practice it and get it tight with my game before reading something else (this can take months). That is the key to this game: Going out and making all of these things your reading congruent with you so you become a guy that is naturally good with women.
Your competition knows nothing about the theory behind picking up women. This is true. But while your at home in your computer chair reading, these guys are out learning FIRST HAND what works and what doesn't. These are the guys that you will see with the models, with the strippers, with the cheerleaders. These guys are the ones that grew balls, committed themselevs and went out and suffered the 'tortures of the damned' (facing their fears, insecurities, nervouseness and getting blown out) night after night in clubs and on the street.
Believe it or not, KNOWING about women will not make you more attractive. You can know all of the information in the world but when that GORGIOUS FUNNY SMART SEXY woman walks in the room if you cant approach her with the right body language, and without studdering or looking nervous she will deem you as a loser like the rest of the loveable loser AFCs out there.
Get out and learn in the field.
~Rockstar
