a guy hittin on your girl

[the_azn_fu]

okay, so if a guy were to hit on your girl in front of you, what do you do?
play it off or do something about it?

 

[El Don]

Well I read this somewhere but I thought it soudned pretty good....When the guy hittin on her says a line or something to her just say something along the lines of "oh thats a good one, what line are you going to use next?" and just keep getting on him. Never had it happen to me so I wouldnt know. Maybe someone else has had more success.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Talk to him as he tries to talk to her. Pretend hes approaching both of you.

 

[Reloaded]

Talk to him as he tries to talk to her. Pretend hes approaching both of you.

Yeah, that sounds good. I would probably just make sport of it or ignore him completely. If he does something in appropriate then I might get aggressive.

 

[KoalaKing]

Don't ever let this happen, never be a wimp or a wuss, confront the guy, frighten him away, if this doesn't work then he has given you no other option but to deck him, get into the gym, workout on the weights and the punching bag, take up Karate and Judo, learn about the points of the body that are easy to penetrate in winning a fight, and no other guy will ever be able to take your girlfriend away from you again, it is simple once you've learnt it. :yes:

 

[rocky_mtn]

Depends on the situation, but if he's annoying to me and her, after some deflecting lines like those already been mentioned, I might physically situate myself between him and her, with my back to him.

I might also steak out my territory by hugging and/or kissing her in front of him and then me and her move to another area.

I might cup my hand up to my ear and ask him "do you hear that", when he says "no", I'll say "you best go home, your momma's callin you"

It depends if he is a total stranger, how long I've been dating a women, or the status of the relationship.

I will never get jealous, act out, or force her to stay with me.

If its a friendly gathering and he's socializing rather than blatant hitting on my date, then talking as a group for a short period of time is acceptable.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Don't ever let this happen, never be a wimp or a wuss, confront the guy, frighten him away, if this doesn't work then he has given you no other option but to deck him, get into the gym, workout on the weights and the punching bag, take up Karate and Judo, learn about the points of the body that are easy to penetrate in winning a fight, and no other guy will ever be able to take your girlfriend away from you again, it is simple once you've learnt it. :yes:

Yea, trying to fight him isnt showing that youre a little in secure at all is it? If you deck some guys just cause hes talking to your girl then you need help and im pretty sure he wouldnt have to try to take her. You hit him without being provoked and im willing to bet shes gonna be pissed at you and see how insecure you are. Soo...do what you suggested and give your girl away. Theres easier ways to manipulate people than using fear.

 

[rocky_mtn]

Yea, trying to fight him isnt showing that youre a little in secure at all is it? If you deck some guys just cause hes talking to your girl then you need help and im pretty sure he wouldnt have to try to take her. You hit him without being provoked and im willing to bet shes gonna be pissed at you and see how insecure you are. Soo...do what you suggested and give your girl away. Theres easier ways to manipulate people than using fear.

No to mention getting arrested, charged and jailed.

 

[KoalaKing]

No to mention getting arrested, charged and jailed.

You usually won't have to hit him if you can show him that you can will and are prepared to do it, most guys are wimps and will back off very quickly if you can convince them that you can fight and will do it, knowing how to fight gives you an incredible power over other people, but most AlphaMales and AFC's as well seem to be wimps of the highest levels so they will tell you that you are insecure if you physically imtimidate some guy, but have you ever met a bikie who won't use violence to keep his girlfriend away from other AlphaMales who can't fight themselves, be a real man, why don't you. :crackup:

 

[rocky_mtn]

be a real man, why don't you.

Boys fight, real men don't need to.

I don't fight. I legally carry a handgun, so I won't go hand to hand with some punk trying to scam my girl. I'll handle it like and adult.

I won't back down and I won't lose either, ever.

Discretion is the better part of valor.

 

[Jariel]

Take your girl and walk away from him...unless she's reciprocating his advances, then you ditch her!

No one has ever hit on my girlfriend while I've been with her (and I doubt many would try). However, a number of guys have tried when they don't see me with her and I just walk upto her and wrap my arms around her. They soon disappear. Then again, she does a good job of brushing them off herself.

If anyone tries hitting on your girl with you there, they don't respect you. If it's someone you know, you need to work on a more masculine attitude. If it's a stranger, you need to develop a more bold appearance - bulk up or start dressing up a bit more...or both!

 

[Gary29]

Nicely tell him something like "hey, you got pretty good taste " This shows your girl that you are feeling very secure about her and yourself and will score you some points! If you get pissed off or aggravated, this signals insecurity and you will lose some points!

If the chick's interest level in you is pretty high, you don't have to worry about her falling for him at all, even if he is flirting or whatever. If she reciprocates his advances and goes for him, it's YOUR fault that you couldn't keep your chick's interest level high. Never blame women for **** like this; only blame yourself, because YOUR 'game' wasn't good enough to keep her at bay. Recognize your mistakes and make some changes to your personality so it doesn't happen again.

 

[oakraiderz2]

You usually won't have to hit him if you can show him that you can will and are prepared to do it, most guys are wimps and will back off very quickly if you can convince them that you can fight and will do it, knowing how to fight gives you an incredible power over other people, but most AlphaMales and AFC's as well seem to be wimps of the highest levels so they will tell you that you are insecure if you physically imtimidate some guy, but have you ever met a bikie who won't use violence to keep his girlfriend away from other AlphaMales who can't fight themselves, be a real man, why don't you. :crackup:

Any guy that has the balls to approach your girl with you there most likely isnt a wimp. Im pretty sure theyd be willing to scrap over some stupid sh*t that you would provoke. Fighting over a girl??? Ill be damned if i ever do.

 

[Mr_knowit_all]

Any guy that has the balls to approach your girl with you there most likely isnt a wimp. Im pretty sure theyd be willing to scrap over some stupid sh*t that you would provoke. Fighting over a girl??? Ill be damned if i ever do.

He's provoking something when some guy's hitting on his woman?

If you ask me, it's kind of a catch 22 situation. If you overreact, you look insecure. If you underreact, you look like a wimp.

If it was obvious that the guy knew you were with her and still tried hitting on her, I'd tell him he has good taste, but back the f**k off. If it wasn't obvious that he knew she was with you I'd simply walk up and say "who's this baby?"

 

[KoalaKing]

Any guy that has the balls to approach your girl with you there most likely isnt a wimp. Im pretty sure theyd be willing to scrap over some stupid sh*t that you would provoke. Fighting over a girl??? Ill be damned if i ever do.

I guess they just assume that you are a wimp because of what I read on these posts it seems as if 90% of all guys are these days, that is why they approach other guys hot babes if they can fight a bit themselves, the thing is if you just sit back and let the guy walk all over you he will, if you show him that you are not a wimp and stand up to him 90% of the time he will back off, the other 10% of the time you will have to fight.

I wouldn't be the one doing the provoking in the situation of which he was the one approaching my girlfriend anyway.

To tell you the truth I used to be the biggest wimp on the planet, so due to this I took up both boxing and karate and learnt how to fight, because of this reason I don't really like the type of guys who have the balls to naturally be able to approach girls and fight, so it doesn't take much for me to attack these type of guys, as they once had the power over me, but don't anymore.

I don't believe in violence against weak people, but the type of guys who are going to approach another guys girlfriend are usually the more confident types of guys and I have never really liked them anyway as I have had to spend many years building myself up to be the confident type of guy that I now am.

When they use the term it is the coward who fights the most ferociously, they really mean the guy who once was a coward but isn't anymore, I fit that catergory.

It doesn't bother me if I lose the girl, as I have learnt how to both enjoy my life without one, and I can also attract another when I desire to, I just don't like other guys entering into my territory, and so I am prepared to fight them if I have to.

 

[flexion_]

Folks you don't have to worry about guys approaching your girl when you are with her. Be receptive and don't worry about it.

Its the times when she is alone that are the potential problem.

 

[Distant Light]

Come on guys please don't tell me yall never heard of AMOG tactics.

There are different ways to get rid and different AMOG tactics for certain situations.

- ignore him
- Cut him off
- Interrupt him
- Physically cut him off (You and girl backturn him)

There are far more AMOG tactics but those 4 above are basic and will blowout the easiest AFCs.

 

[Mr_knowit_all]

Come on guys please don't tell me yall never heard of AMOG tactics.

There are different ways to get rid and different AMOG tactics for certain situations.

- ignore him
- Cut him off
- Interrupt him
- Physically cut him off (You and girl backturn him)

There are far more AMOG tactics but those 4 above are basic and will blowout the easiest AFCs.

I'm not so sure I agree with the "turning your back" thing. If some dude is AMOGing me, I'd want him in front of me so I could defend myself if need be.

I understand turning your back makes a point, but that action might also provoke him to take a cheap shot.

 

[john_1234]

when this happens, i always handle it the same way w/ great results. it's simple. just be cool w/ the dude(s). small talk about whatevers.

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

I tell him to get the fk out of here. Im a grown man and I don't play games. This kind of shyt only happens to weak men that do not have the respect of other men.