a guy hittin on your girl

[Charlie Gordon]

Two situations

As the poster alluded to, a guy can try hitting on your steady girlfriend. I have had this happen to me when I was out with a girl I had been dating for a while, and my response was to give her a kiss. The guy got the message. Had he remained, I hope my girl and I would have seen eye to eye about getting the hell away from him. I don't want to fight a stranger. I would let my girl know that I feel uncomfortable so she could at least give him clear IOGTFOOMFs.

If you call a woman your girlfriend, she should make these sort of situations easy for you to deal with. I admire a woman who can be polite to a man coming on to her while making it obvious that she wants him to leave her alone. The boyfriend shouldn't have to be the one to step in and dispatch the player. If you're constantly shoving away dudes that are hitting on your girl, then that might be more indicative of a problem with your relationship than a problem with all of these other men. The common denominator in each of these situations is... her.


Situation number two brings me back to this forum and to the community. Let us say that you are out with a girl, either a friend or a date, and one of our partners in crime arrives to blow you out of the set and close your date. This is tough, very tough, and as the community grows, I find myself being AMOGed time and time again. I am really sick of it. I am really sick of watching this stuff work on chicks. I wanted to just be myself, but that wasn't enough. I figured that I had internalized all of this seduction crap to a point where it would be there, at the back of my mind, if I ever needed it. So I left the community. I concentrated on my career and on other things I cared about. I have accomplished so much since leaving the community. Unfortunately, being yourself and being confident just isn't good enough with women. You need to understand the game. You cannot get rusty or else you are back at AFC, lesson one. It's a very competitive world out there. There are sweet talkers and pickup artists out there, ready to steal your girl away from you. They work fast. I would learn AMOG tactics. Aggression won't work with PUAs cuz they waltz in, kissing your ass and pretending to be everyone's friend. The only person they seem disrespectful towards initially is the target (ie your target). The second you are out of the set for any reason at all, like you have to take a piss or one of their wings pulls you aside, they're all over her. A lot of women fall for them or at the very least, have a hard time pushing them away. Read up on AMOG stuff cuz that's what they're using. In fact, that is one of my goals for this year. It's tempting to flatten some of these guys, but that would be a very bad move. Maybe we should be learning to be more like them.

 

[diplomatic_lies]

Whenever I'm dating some girl and some chump comes hitting on her, we just start making out right in front of him. Show him a bit of what he's missing.

 

[Rocker]

One guy pulled a move on me once when I was out with a girl I was seeing.
We're at the bar drinking, and this dude walks up with his phone, hands it to me, and says someone wants to speak to me.
I thought I'd play along, and start telling jokes to the guy on the phone.. who didn't even seem interested. It's only after a couple mins I realised that the guy who handed me the phone has sat down next to my girl and started chatting her up.
When I realised I simply hung up his phone, gave it back, told him his mate wanted me to pass on that he'll meet him at the brothel later, then kissed my girl in front of him. He walked off.
Had I thought about it better, I would have walked out of the place with his phone, then called my girl from outside to come and meet me.. that would have taught him.

 

[dreamxhenry_notAFC]

lol all you guys act hard on the internet,when in real life we are nothing but shy losers.If a guy ever came up hitting or flirting with any of our girlfriends,we WOULD ALL do nothing besides,wacth.Im pretty sure none of here have balls to do something about,because we are internet losers,we act hard on the internet but in real life we are shy,anti social,outcast losers.I bet all of us here atleast 99% of us guys on here are afraid of blackmen and black women pretty much blackpeople in general.We all know if some thuggish blackguy approached our girlfriend aka whitegirl we wouldnt do sh*t,we would be afraid and just sit back wacth!

 

[OfficeSpace]

I don't fight. I legally carry a handgun, so I won't go hand to hand with some punk trying to scam my girl. I'll handle it like and adult.

Wow, you legally carry a handgun? Isn't getting the permits hella hard? Are you in law enforcement or whatever?

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

Actually i witnessed this kind of situation some days ago,a friend of mine was hitting on the gf of an acquaintance of mine with him there,he just picked her up,kissed her and literally "removed" her from the situation.It was quite funny to see my friend's expression.

 

[spider_007]

If i approched a girl that i didn't know had a b/f and her b/f came out all pissed off and try to push me away.....i'd be pissed to say the least.

Why can't people be civil. Why would you act like a fvcking gorila. Like, that would piss me off to the point of fighting him.


The thing is, if you don't know the guy, you need to be civil to the guy. You don't go knocking people out when you accidently run into them on a dance floor, so why would you if he accidentaly hits on your chick. For all you know he carris a knife on his key chain (like me)

 

[Charlie Gordon]

It's extremely disrespectful to hit on a man's girlfriend when he is present, especially when you have prior knowledge of the relationsihp. Unless you immediately eject or apologize, you are more or less provoking him to anger. Men are extremely territorial when they are out with their girlfriends. I don't care if you have an uzi strapped to your back. There are few things you can do to another man to piss him off more than this. I asked the most mild mannered guy I know how he'd react to some dude coming up to his girl at a bar and using seduction crap on her and he said he'd pull her in and give her a kiss. I asked what he'd do if he tried to out-alpha, amog, etc. him, and he said he'd react courteously but feel his temperature rise. So, I asked him how he'd feel if he knew that this particular pickup artist has kissed dozens of women behind their boyfriends' backs and that he had every intention of scoring his girlfriend's number. My friend interrupted me and almost yelled "Then I'd break his _______ neck."

Maybe two uzis?

Be careful in the field. Some dudes just want to go out and have a good time with their girl, or wife, without having to deal with a player or wanna be player every five minutes. A lot of pua-types show some degree of discretion on the hunt, albeit they're still annoying as hell, and they'll leave the set as soon as they get the message. Other dudes just don't have a clue and if they keep pressuring the "ho" (aka girlfriend, wife) until she says "no," they might instead end up getting their asses kicked, with or without a pocket full of weapons.

The FLIP side of this argument is to be careful taking a woman out to a bar unless she's your girlfriend and you trust her. It's so easy these days to begin your evening with a woman and end your evening getting played and taking a cab home by yourself.

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

lol all you guys act hard on the internet,when in real life we are nothing but shy losers.If a guy ever came up hitting or flirting with any of our girlfriends,we WOULD ALL do nothing besides,wacth.Im pretty sure none of here have balls to do something about,because we are internet losers,we act hard on the internet but in real life we are shy,anti social,outcast losers.I bet all of us here atleast 99% of us guys on here are afraid of blackmen and black women pretty much blackpeople in general.We all know if some thuggish blackguy approached our girlfriend aka whitegirl we wouldnt do sh*t,we would be afraid and just sit back wacth!

Cool you fear me

You have alot to learn.

good luck!