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This actually makes it worse.Fela Kuti said:because she hides his identity, dude. and to a smaller extent, because she said "i'll think about it". yeah, even though she said that because she didn't have the nerve to reject straightly, it still makes me disappointed.
What DJDamage said is spot on. She's obviously become bored with you and has no respect for you anymore. She planted a seed in your mind. Now you'll be suspicious of every guy the two of you know. And it may not even be one of those guys but a complete stranger. It wouldn't matter, though. Because if you're worried about losing her (and it's obvious that you are) you'll let your fear and insecurity dominate all of your actions. You'll distance yourself from your guys friends, attempt to control who she talks to and behave more and more like a jealous, insecure guy. You'll have given up all control to this girl; once she has it and she'll dump you. She's on the verge of doing that anyway.DJDamage said:This actually makes it worse.
By not telling you, you will think every guy that is a friends of her's could be that guy.
What you need to do is evaluate not this situation per se but her entire behaviour up to date. Would you say she is a great girlfriend with consistent behaviour? or there has been problems in your relationship and if so what were they?
well, she's a very introvert girl, if that says anything. we've been together for about 6 months. the guy asked her 1 on 1 but it's not quiet clear yet whether he knows she has a bf or not. my gf herself doesn't know if he knows or not.Danger said:An interested woman would tell you everything.
She is protecting HIM from YOU??? That's not how this works.
Aside from this, we need a lot more information.
How long have you two been together?
Did this guy ask her out 1 on 1? Or to a party or something?
Does this guy know she has a bf?
I know. That's why my NUMBER ONE priority is always been to get her open up without me prying and making her cry. I'm still searching for an effective way to do this. Sigh..ready123 said:Fela, you notice every question you post on this board always has to do with some kind of miscommunication between you and your girlfriend?
Unless she learns to open up without you prying or making her cry, expect situations like these to come up indefinitely.
This is strange. To me an an extrovert would say something like.. 'i'll think about it' and an introvert would not say anything at all! get the drift? Don't fall for her logic.Fela Kuti said:I remember last night she said this: "I don't like to be an introvert like this. I wish I was an extrovert, who can say what she wants without any burden."
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well, ducaro, she's the kind of introvert who has hard times telling people her "secrets", you know. something like that.ducaro said:This is strange. To me an an extrovert would say something like.. 'i'll think about it' and an introvert would not say anything at all! get the drift? Don't fall for her logic.
I Hope you know her better than I know most women. All The Best!Fela Kuti said:well, ducaro, she's the kind of introvert who has hard times telling people her "secrets", you know. something like that.
well thanks for the advice. i'll surely give it a thoughtducaro said:I Hope you know her better than I know most women. All The Best!
Fela Kuti said:well, ducaro, she's the kind of introvert who has hard times telling people her "secrets", you know. something like that.
Thats what my last girlfriend said before we broke up.Fela Kuti said:she won't tell me who it is because she doesn't want me to be suspicious of him (she said that i know of him), when it's not clear yet whether he asked her as a casual friend or more than that.
is that reasonable, guys?
Fela Kuti said:"Well, okay. We won't talk about this problem again if you don't want to. I'll let you handle him by yourself. I'm sure you know what is the right things to do."
Fela Kuti said:So my GF told me that a guy asked her out twice and asked my opinion about that. She told the guy that she'll think about it (this answer kinda pissed me off, although I understand that it's not clear what the guy's intention was). When I asked her who it is, she wouldn't tell me, saying that she's not sure yet whether the guy were romantically interested in her, so she won't say anything "bad" about him yet.
What should I do, guys? Thanks![]()
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