A Friend with Benefits Loses Her "Friend" and her "Benefits" Status

[STR8UP]

FWB pisses me off so I fukk her best friend after she stands me up when I was trying to help her out.

She gets her panties in a wad and tells both her best friend and me to F off.

During a parking lot shouting match she tells the best friend "Oh yea....btw....I just found out that my friend Stacy has HIV, and I think STR8UP fukked her".

Known this chick for the better part of the decade, and she has to resort to spreading rumors that I might be infected with a deadly disease to keep her friend from screwing me.

Classy.

Oh well. Her friend is hotter.

 

[ketostix]

FWB is a "low quality" woman .

 

[STR8UP]

You only see a person's true character when their character has been properly tested.

Too bad these "tests" don't come around very often. That's why I say that it takes YEARS to be able to accurately judge a woman to be "quality".

 

[Joe Stud]

I bet in 2 weeks she will be (back to) chasing you for some action. Anger and jealousy are emotions... she wont be able to stay away. play it cool, you are the prize... and you are in the drivers seat!

 

[iqqi]

A 40 year old man "getting back" at a woman he is intimate with by fvcking her best friend + an upset woman saying a spiteful rumor out of anger and pain = high school drama.

This "FR" gets an F, and if you wonder why you are so miserable, this thread is a clue.

 

[ketostix]

You only see a person's true character when their character has been properly tested.

Too bad these "tests" don't come around very often. That's why I say that it takes YEARS to be able to accurately judge a woman to be "quality".

I agree in principle, but you had to have been able to figure out a long time ago that FWB had no character. I may not be able to label a woman "high quality" without observing her behavior over much time and "tests" but I can usually sense a person is "low quality" in very short order, so by the process of elimination what's left has a much lower chance of being "low quality".

 

[Deep Dish]

I see the AW "saga" has now been put to sleep.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Ah, return of the 'Mad Russian' I take it?

 

[speed dawg]

A 40 year old man "getting back" at a woman he is intimate with by fvcking her best friend + an upset woman saying a spiteful rumor out of anger and pain = high school drama.

This "FR" gets an F, and if you wonder why you are so miserable, this thread is a clue.

WTF?? Do you know anything about what you're talking about. Read some other threads on the board before you come back after your little absence just waiting to take a potshot at someone you have a personal vendetta against.

I give Str8up sh1t all the time for these crazed women he hangs out with but damn, at least get the story straight first.

 

[spider_007]

dude, come on!!!!

doesn't matter if she is only a f/buddy. Women still get jellaus. It gets even worse when there is somebody else involved THAT THEY KNOW (like their best friends). They might not want nothing serious out of the relationship, but they still DON'T LIKE TO SHARE (EVEN WITH FRIENDS). She might not have carred if it was some thrid person she knows nothing about, but this is her friend.

dude, you f-ed up this time

 

[Warrior74]

dude, come on!!!!

doesn't matter if she is only a f/buddy. Women still get jellaus. It gets even worse when there is somebody else involved THAT THEY KNOW (like their best friends). They might not want nothing serious out of the relationship, but they still DON'T LIKE TO SHARE (EVEN WITH FRIENDS). She might not have carred if it was some thrid person she knows nothing about, but this is her friend.

dude, you f-ed up this time

No woman likes to share, be wary of ones that tell you they do.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

This "FR" gets an F, and if you wonder why you are so miserable, this thread is a clue.

What's wrong IQQI, did the boys kick you off NLG recently?

 

[piranha45]

I'm still puzzled as to why she's allowed to make posts in here.
The Mature Man (13 Viewing)
A forum for DJs at least 25 years old to discuss problems, situations, and techniques UNIQUE to older and more mature men.

it just seems so self-explanatory.

 

[Luthor Rex]

A 40 year old man "getting back" at a woman he is intimate with by fvcking her best friend + an upset woman saying a spiteful rumor out of anger and pain = high school drama.

This "FR" gets an F, and if you wonder why you are so miserable, this thread is a clue.

Obviously iqqi was the FWB who STR8UP dumped.

 

[Aenigma]

Good job Str8up. I think one of the best ways to keep women's games in check is through jealousy and just moving on and taping other women when they pull BS like this. You save yourself the headaches from head games and keep your life fresh.

 

[iqqi]

OK. Let me put it another way.

A grown ASS man gets pissy because some FB of his flakes on him in some terrible, god awful, stop the presses kind of way. He retaliates by sleeping with FB's BFF.

A grown ass woman gets pissy because her FB sleeps with her BFF, so she screams in anger at him, and tells her friend he has AIDS.





I'm sorry, this IS the mature man forum? Pardon my naturally condescending-ish way of presenting the evidence, but grow the fvck up, people. BTW, I think what STR8UP did was much worse than what the FB did. Also, your actions speak on your character, regardless of the person who you acted apon, or your reasons, especially when your reasons were so immature.

HEY! Just my opinion, why all the flaming and personal insults? Does nobody else see how immature and retarded this situation was, and put 2 and 2 together, how STR8UP is always miserable with his surroundings and world view? Here we have an actual "FR", to see just the kind of chick STR8UP is intimate with, and how he responds to issues within an intimate relationship.

You can pat him on the back all you want, but he was wrong. Doesn't matter if he was wrongER or not, he did not act in a mature and respectable fashion, nor does it seem like he was engaged in a mature and respectable booty call relationship. And he has about 1 million posts talking about how immoral women are, and how his spirit is so low to the ground.

Geez, I feel like I just spelled it out.

NLG is like an oasis in the desert, and that is where I proudly live. However, I was asked to venture into the desert by a secret admirer. (Wink Wink.) Sometimes it is good to point out the rotten and sparse grass the sheep are grazing on, and to direct them to water.

POW

 

[piranha45]

don't let beggars change ur mind about posting here, you've got to be firm with people. set your boundaries by telling your orbiters that you have no time for this place-- zero, zilch, you'd be damned if you ever made another post here again.

 

[iqqi]

don't let beggars change ur mind about posting here, you've got to be firm with people. set your boundaries by telling the admirers that you have no time for this place-- zero, zilch, you'd be damned if you ever made another post here again.

That's ok, piranha. I enjoy occassionally delivering a proper perspective to men with fury in their hearts, directed at women. Once you look past my infuriating gender, and see the message, you might learn something, or even agree.

If not you, then someone else.

A light must be shone, in this dark and desolate place. There are only so many who do not succumb to bitterness and rage, and are strong enough to shine and not fade. I applaud them, and am here to offer a bit of light myself.

The world is not as bad as you are seeing it, you just must look elsewhere and stop focusing on the grime! In STR8UP's case, he needs to look at the man in the mirror! And ask him to make a change!

And thank you, thank you, for all the little red dots that show me your anger for daring to question your leader.

 

[ketostix]

NLG is like an oasis in the desert, and that is where I proudly live. However, I was asked to venture into the desert by a secret admirer. (Wink Wink.) Sometimes it is good to point out the rotten and sparse grass the sheep are grazing on, and to direct them to water.

POW

That just sounds like AWing to me . I have another theory, your just trying to get back at us for raiding Loveshack. If you remember you exposed our identity over there. But seriously iqqi is providing a counterpoint. Sometimes that's necessary to find the middle ground.

 

[STR8UP]

Yea, Dish/Rollo. If you see her out and about give her a big kiss for me.....

I see iqqi wants my c0ck again. Once she is finished "delivering a proper perspective", of course.

Just so IQQI and her beta boy followers understand this correctly, I was NOT "retaliating" when I banged her friend. Her friend might have been, but I was just tearing into a piece of meat that I have been eying from a distance for quite awhile.

I got my ass up off my comfy chair after having had very little sleep the night before from being sick, showed up within the 15 minutes I told her it would take me to get there ready to make sure her drunk ass didn't get a DUI or worse yet killed in a car accident, just to get a call from her THE SECOND I ARRIVED to pick her up, telling me "nevermind". She also basically abandoned her friend there (whom I was intimate with before the FWB) so the friend and I picked up where we left off (in my bed).

So I'm an ass hole for exercising my right as a man to have consensual sex with a woman when I have an "arrangement" with someone else? And she is justified in spreading rumors that could potentially cause me a lot of problems?

What I did was grey area "unethical". What she did was slander. My "crime" might bruise her ego for a couple of weeks, hers could potentially cost me socially and monetarily.