iqqi said:
See, that statement is highly debatable. And also I am completely against blaming any kind of conspiracy theory for what is wrong with some of your game.
By who? You?
A few of my friends are in functional relationships and seem to be satisfied overall. A few of them are in dysfunctional, soul-sucking relationships. But the vast majority of guys I know are resigned to pumping and dumping women at their leisure, with a STR or LTR sprinkled in here and there.
And I'm talking about successful, attractive ALPHA males who COULD have a girlfriend or wife in a second, but they are smart enough not to settle.
Oh, and then there are a couple who are married who cheat like crazy. Funny thing is, their marriages seem happiest of all......
I see tons of women and men dating, so that statement can't be true.
Yea, you see lesser males whining and dining chicks who cut out of the date early to meet up with the married guy they are banging once or twice a week.
Don't confuse "dating" or "courtship" as it used to be with what is has become today. We aren't pairing up one-on-one like we did back in the 50's.
And a lot of those dates seem to satisfy some intent and purpose, and a lot of people seem to be having fun doing it.
Yea, just not the "intent or purpose" they want it to be.
I go out with women too, and I'm sure to whomever happens to glance our way it looks like we might be "dating", but it's really more of a formality. A means to an end. A couple of drinks before we bang it out.
Point is, I might go out in public with them, but I don't want relationships with any of these chicks.
This basically comes down to... which one do you want to be?
If you want to be the latter, then just keep b!tching. Surely it isn't you that might be the problem or part of it.
Otherwise, improve yourself, your outlook, and then your options. Maybe change what your "intent and purpose" even is. I would actually start there, I know that is when my own luck seemed to improve.
Of course you default back to your assumption that I am unfulfilled/unhappy. I'm quite happy. I have a new business that is thriving, a couple of women I see here and there. It works for me. But of course, you have to twist everything into something it is not just so you have something to argue about.