The most educated people out there have both experience and have read books on different self-improvements. The book is easier to follow since it lets you understand the experiences you've had. Usually the experiences are in the form of senses, visual, and emotional, but when you read it it's well reasoned and you can make a connection between reasoning and emotion. This way you become more aware, educated, and much easier to pull girls in when you do go out there. You realize you don't have to do anything to impress them because what lures them in is your presence both physical and mental. It's just one of those things it's hard to explain but you both know that you want each other. Usually when I go out I get looks from all women. In the beginning when I was a little shyer from all the bull**** my parents and grandparents taught me in my younger years I was feeling a little uncomfortable from all the attention. But now as time progresses it's much easier to understand the "real" intetions behind people's actions and you don't blame them because you've either been there or you understand exactly what you're going through. This is a little besides the point just a little psychology/philosophy rant thrown in to help you understand the nature of our existance. Anyway, you don't need to tell a girl you're reading books, even though it's a good idea to do so. If she asks, tell her you do but do it like it's no big deal, like everyone does it. And in fact more people read stuff they are interested than you realize, it's just that it's boring to talk about what you read or whatever. Usually people say what they've read related to some type of conversation but they don't mention they've read it. They might say someone told them or whatever. It's part of humanity and personal skills. You don't have to prove anything to those girls, you don't have to impress them. All you have to do is be confident, have a presence both mental and physical. Some of the newbies around here will understand what this is all about after a while. I think Player_Supreme knows very well what I'm talking about. Maybe he can add something himself to this conversation because most of the time he's talking about things that not many people will tell you. It's the truth. The rest you hear from people is bull****. Their reasons and intentions are bull****. It's all about survival, what YOU need to survive, everyone is selfish and it's a good thing, and the rules of society are made for people who don't know what they want to follow. The ones who do, don't flaunt that they're breaking rules, they know what rules are all about and they just do what they have to in order to be happy in life. It's all about happyness even though some people have a hard time admiting it and think it's selfish but deep down they know better. All ethics and whatnot is to control people. To make everyone equal. To make everyone survive equally. The truth is, I don't need to follow those etiquettes in order to be a "good" person. I don't need to supplicate to society in order to be what they want me to be because I know that I'm a good man and I don't have to prove it to anyone. I believe in myself. I know what I'm all about at every single moment and I expand my identity all the time. It's about living, experiencing, we're human. We're about chemistry. I'm not alive to work, I'm alive to live. That's what I'm here for and that's what I intend to do because I only have so much time to live my life. That's not selfish. That's what everyone's purpose on this planet is. It's to live. The thing we do on daily basis are distractions and even though some of the introverts might say there's nothing substancial about materialistic things I'll say the opposite. We need physical/materialistic things to be closer to reality. Something you can touch. Even for introverts. I don't put a label on myself because I can adapt. I can be introvert or extrovert depending on my environment. I can change according to my surroundings. I can be the coolest guy you ever met at one time and I can be the most techie person you ever met at another. It's all about balance and knowing how to transform/adapt to your role expectancies. It's about experiences, discovery and awareness. It's funny how some of the introverts deny themselves what life is all about. Deep down they know it's about living but they use all kinds of boring ethical statements to deny their needs. They suppress them. At one time there will be an explosion which is when you become the real you. The person that wants to experience and knows what life is all about. Some people go through life with denial and get worse and worse. Those are the people that are in pain all their lifes because they didn't accept the reality that people are selfish in nature and people use those labels as a way to control other people. I don't want that person to be you. That's why I'm writing this. I'm hoping this will help some of the less experienced out there.
