Whenever you do anything in life you need to make sure you have a solid base. Confidence and self esteem are your base for becoming a bachelor. You can say all the right things when you first meet a girl but in the long run if your confidence and self esteem are low your gonna lose all chances in hooking up with a cutie.
Here are tips for improving confidence by ranking
1. Workout - Working out on a daily bases is my main weapon for increasing confidence. By having a hot body you know women will love, it will subconsciously make you want to talk to the hottest girls knowing they deserve a guy who stays in shape. Not only that, but by working out on a daily basis it will make you less conscious about your body and make you even better in bed. By knowing you are making progress physically you are advancing yourself in life and will keep advancing your confidence.
2. Advance in your career-By advancing in life career wise you will know you have found your talent. Finding this talent and knowing you are good at something will give you plenty of confidence knowing you are advancing in your life mentally.
3. Eat healthy - knowing you are maintaining your physical appearance will subconsciously tell yourself you can only be looking better or the same. Eating at burger king will only make you fat and only make you happy for a little while but will mess your confidence up in the long run.
4. Maintain yourself-
* Cut your hair once every two weeks
* If you got a good body, shave your chest. (it will make you look more buff and give you more confidence in bed)
* Trim your pubic hair. (Some girls like it, Other girls dont care. If you got a forest down there, do it it will give you more confidence in bed.)
* Gel your hair daily (if your hair is long enough)
* Trim your nose hair.
* Clip your nails when needed
* Wear cologne
* Shave daily
* Wear nice clothes
* Keep your breath smelling fresh and your teeth looking white.
* Pluck your unibrow. (when your eyebrows come together to make one pluck the middle hairs to separate them)
5. Surround yourself with bachelors or guys that are working to become one.
This can help tremendously. Especially if you are going out. Girls judge you in terms of who you hang out with, also hanging around guys who have your same mindset will allow your friends to encourage each other. And when approaching a group of girls, you can have each guy talk to a girl so girls don't ****block each other. (****block is a terminology used when girl/guy doesn't allow his/her friend to hookup or talk to another guy.)
6. DONT SURROUND YOURSELF WITH NEGATIVE PEOPLE
If you are going out with guys that don't want to take chances on approaching women or are negative about being around women. Drop them. When you go out and are trying to meet girls, you don't want guys that will bog you down because you will never hook up.
7. Keep a James Bond mindset
If you have ever watched any James bond movie you know that James Bond is a master of body language and communication. He doesn't get excited and look like hes ready to pee in his pants when talking to a really hot girl. This works especially well when approaching a woman for the first time. He talks to women with a very cool and calm approach not showing too much emotion, because around women emotions can make men look weak. Also, by keeping a James Bond mindset will allow you to relax and become a better conversationalist and not get distracted by a girls beauty. This also means not talking too much when approaching a woman for the first time. Chill out, and let her talk to you some so she can feel shes trying to impress you. So before approaching a woman ask yourself wwjbd? (What would James Bond do?)
Follow these rules sincerely on a day to day bases then watch your game skyrocket. Confidence is key to winning a girls heart.
After all if your not confident in yourself why should a girl be confident with you?
Here are tips for improving confidence by ranking
1. Workout - Working out on a daily bases is my main weapon for increasing confidence. By having a hot body you know women will love, it will subconsciously make you want to talk to the hottest girls knowing they deserve a guy who stays in shape. Not only that, but by working out on a daily basis it will make you less conscious about your body and make you even better in bed. By knowing you are making progress physically you are advancing yourself in life and will keep advancing your confidence.
2. Advance in your career-By advancing in life career wise you will know you have found your talent. Finding this talent and knowing you are good at something will give you plenty of confidence knowing you are advancing in your life mentally.
3. Eat healthy - knowing you are maintaining your physical appearance will subconsciously tell yourself you can only be looking better or the same. Eating at burger king will only make you fat and only make you happy for a little while but will mess your confidence up in the long run.
4. Maintain yourself-
* Cut your hair once every two weeks
* If you got a good body, shave your chest. (it will make you look more buff and give you more confidence in bed)
* Trim your pubic hair. (Some girls like it, Other girls dont care. If you got a forest down there, do it it will give you more confidence in bed.)
* Gel your hair daily (if your hair is long enough)
* Trim your nose hair.
* Clip your nails when needed
* Wear cologne
* Shave daily
* Wear nice clothes
* Keep your breath smelling fresh and your teeth looking white.
* Pluck your unibrow. (when your eyebrows come together to make one pluck the middle hairs to separate them)
5. Surround yourself with bachelors or guys that are working to become one.
This can help tremendously. Especially if you are going out. Girls judge you in terms of who you hang out with, also hanging around guys who have your same mindset will allow your friends to encourage each other. And when approaching a group of girls, you can have each guy talk to a girl so girls don't ****block each other. (****block is a terminology used when girl/guy doesn't allow his/her friend to hookup or talk to another guy.)
6. DONT SURROUND YOURSELF WITH NEGATIVE PEOPLE
If you are going out with guys that don't want to take chances on approaching women or are negative about being around women. Drop them. When you go out and are trying to meet girls, you don't want guys that will bog you down because you will never hook up.
7. Keep a James Bond mindset
If you have ever watched any James bond movie you know that James Bond is a master of body language and communication. He doesn't get excited and look like hes ready to pee in his pants when talking to a really hot girl. This works especially well when approaching a woman for the first time. He talks to women with a very cool and calm approach not showing too much emotion, because around women emotions can make men look weak. Also, by keeping a James Bond mindset will allow you to relax and become a better conversationalist and not get distracted by a girls beauty. This also means not talking too much when approaching a woman for the first time. Chill out, and let her talk to you some so she can feel shes trying to impress you. So before approaching a woman ask yourself wwjbd? (What would James Bond do?)
Follow these rules sincerely on a day to day bases then watch your game skyrocket. Confidence is key to winning a girls heart.
After all if your not confident in yourself why should a girl be confident with you?
