66% of wives would rather would rather read book, watch movie, or take nap than sleep with husband

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https://nypost.com/2012/11/25/nobody-marries-their-best-sex-ever/
A 36-year-old marketing executive from Chelsea we’ll call Abby says that “what makes sex incredible, or places it into the range of ‘best sex’, is an element of danger. There’s an element of disobedience . . . that elicits a feeling of carnal desperation. [That feeling is often provoked by] the guy who you shouldn’t be with versus the one that you marry.”
So sex with someone a woman is not supposed to be sexing is more exciting than sexing her husband? :mad::mad:
Sex therapist Sari Cooper says many women come to her troubled that their husbands aren’t ideal sexual partners.

“Your best sexual relationship has likely been with the person who was most unstable and most volatile, but was very passionate,” Cooper says. “That’s like riding a roller coaster. That’s passion. But if you have a family, riding a roller coaster isn’t that great for kids.”
 

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Society demonizes masculinity, it’s says it’s bad. Masculine traits are still attractive to women though. Over time, this creates a cognitive dissonance in their minds that badness = attractive. This is also how a lot of women are bisexual without realizing, or rather, turn bisexual at certain moments but not so when about their normal day.
 

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Stop reading articles from outlets that specialize in their liberal/feminist points of view.

That being said, there is NO way you can be a die hard liberal and be a man thats good with women that like men. Cant happen.

Every time I read something from an Obama/Hilary supporter on here I just about throw up in my mouth. That line of thinking will never give you an alpha mentality when it comes to getting the ladies.

Period. These liberal groups live in their bubbles and scream equality. Real women that like men scream to be lead and taken.

Choose wisely as your mind is the engine behind being great with women. Dont corrupt it with this junk.
 
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Men can also feel this way it's not just women and there are online articles covering that.


Because a lot of married couples stop dating each other they end up feeling less like sexual partners and more likely to disconnect which is why it's important to date each other and mix it up in the bedroom.
 

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Men can also feel this way it's not just women and there are online articles covering that.


Because a lot of married couples stop dating each other they end up feeling less like sexual partners and more likely to disconnect which is why it's important to date each other and mix it up in the bedroom.
Guy gets beta and soft while girl gets old and fat...thats why they would rather masturbate online than have sex, goodlooking couples manage to have sex in few hours with no communication or rapport from the bar.
 

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TDLR: She got Chad widowed.

But notice that the article jumps from “Sex isn’t as hot with hubby as with your ex”

to

“Odds are 2 out of 3 that wifey doesn’t want to F hubby at all. She would rather sleep or read a book or watch tv.”

Mike’s Summary: Because it isn’t AS HOT, she likely doesn’t want it at all.
 

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All this talk about sleeping is making me tired...slamming the cooter sounds like more fun!:p
 

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Stop reading articles from outlets that specialize in their liberal/feminist points of view.

That being said, there is NO way you can be a die hard liberal and be a man thats good with women that like men. Cant happen.

Every time I read something from an Obama/Hilary supporter on here I just about throw up in my mouth. That line of thinking will never give you an alpha mentality when it comes to getting the ladies.

Period. These liberal groups live in their bubbles and scream equality. Real women that like men scream to be lead and taken.

Choose wisely as your mind is the engine behind being great with women. Dont corrupt it with this junk.
I don't think he should stop reading them, I just think he should read a bit less. Reading into "the other side" is never wrong, imo.
 
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Guy gets beta and soft while girl gets old and fat...thats why they would rather masturbate online than have sex, goodlooking couples manage to have sex in few hours with no communication or rapport from the bar.
That's why supermodels get cheated on and women leave hot alpha men all the time.

Yes some couples get complacent and get fat (men get fat too it's not just women who blimp out look around you).

And everyone gets old if they don't die first.

Keeping the connection alive is not just about looks it about attitude.
 

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Its the usual: they settle down for a guy who can "provide" better... or more "stable" life. When they are at the period to do so (around 30 or 35-40 for millenials).

It's been covered alot here and there is even songs about it.. That talk about the male side (See Joe Dassin): the girl you lay, the girl you regret, the girl that went away, the girl you marry/baby.

Heck there is even a Ancient Greek quote: " Slaves are for dirty sex, prostitute for fun sex, wife for babies"

I guess the HighScore theory would boost the résultat and also a male who "recreate the magic periodically in the couple" + learn how to be a lover. Keep the frame up guys
 

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Yea, I can contend that once I got married sex started to dry up. Since I was running my business and building, I didn't think much of it until it went from three times a week, then twice, then once, then I noticed. What women do not understand, that sex helps a man concentrate better on their life and provide for their family. In addition, sex, for both men and women, are great to ward off depression and build a strong lasting bond. This is prob. what many of our parents and grandparents had. Yet, now in the gig economy, many prefer to have sex with many people instead of build a bond with one. That's all and good in your late teens through maybe your early 40's (if you keep in good shape). But, after that, age and gravity always come into play and many will not look as good as they did back in their teens and 20's. Women, in general, do not think of the future, only live in the present. It's amazing how things have changed over 20 years or so.
 

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https://nypost.com/2012/11/25/nobody-marries-their-best-sex-ever/

So sex with someone a woman is not supposed to be sexing is more exciting than sexing her husband? :mad::mad:
and like 90% of married men would rather be single, economically free and banging every chick they can get their hands on. Perhaps the married women should marry people they are attracted to so they wouldn't have to worry about not being into sex. This is a stupid and idiotic article, as women would never behave this way without the law to force men into compliance.
 

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Yea, I can contend that once I got married sex started to dry up. Since I was running my business and building, I didn't think much of it until it went from three times a week, then twice, then once, then I noticed. What women do not understand, that sex helps a man concentrate better on their life and provide for their family. In addition, sex, for both men and women, are great to ward off depression and build a strong lasting bond. This is prob. what many of our parents and grandparents had. Yet, now in the gig economy, many prefer to have sex with many people instead of build a bond with one. That's all and good in your late teens through maybe your early 40's (if you keep in good shape). But, after that, age and gravity always come into play and many will not look as good as they did back in their teens and 20's. Women, in general, do not think of the future, only live in the present. It's amazing how things have changed over 20 years or so.
by the time most women actually become mature enough to realize this, their opportunity at happiness is long gone. they've wasted their youth and worse yet, perhaps even wasted some poor man's youth as well on their idiotic and fickle emotions.
 

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by the time most women actually become mature enough to realize this, their opportunity at happiness is long gone. they've wasted their youth and worse yet, perhaps even wasted some poor man's youth as well on their idiotic and fickle emotions.
Yea, very true. Again, they only think in the moment, not the future.
 

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It's dangerous thinking guys. Women can plan well ahead when it suits their agenda which is normally emotionally driven. And woman need to maintain their place in the social herd. So emotional logic must be good for that or they wouldn't be that way.
You'll have plenty of female competitors in the modern workplace don't underestimate your competition.
 

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It's dangerous thinking guys. Women can plan well ahead when it suits their agenda which is normally emotionally driven. And woman need to maintain their place in the social herd. So emotional logic must be good for that or they wouldn't be that way.
You'll have plenty of female competitors in the modern workplace don't underestimate your competition.
Sure they can, they're conniving. What most are referring to here, is the emotional IQ that most women simply don't have. They can plan ahead when it suits them sure, but it does not compute to plan ahead to make the relationship better. That is a level of emotional intelligence that they simply do not possess. Put his needs ahead of mine? Why the hell would I do that? Take care of him so that he is happy and takes care of me? Now why in the hell would I do something as idiotic as that? Should he take care of all of her needs, wants and wishes, even if they are no longer together? You're dam right she says and that's where the emotional IQ train goes off the tracks for them. They are simply unable to think of how taking care of someone else can lead to them being taken care of. One for all, all for one and everything for her lol, that's what goes through the air tunnel that makes up most of the female brain.
 

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People, men and women, have been brainwashed into thinking whatever they want should not only be EXCEPTIONAL, but it's their fvcking birthright.

Every guy has the right to be with a loyal supermodel.

Every girl has the right to be with a jack hammering chad who loves doing the dishes.

Nobody wants to work for anything.

A society filled with such entitled lazy fvcktards is not sustainable.
 

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People, men and women, have been brainwashed into thinking whatever they want should not only be EXCEPTIONAL, but it's their fvcking birthright.

Every guy has the right to be with a loyal supermodel.

Every girl has the right to be with a jack hammering chad who loves doing the dishes.

Nobody wants to work for anything.

A society filled with such entitled lazy fvcktards is not sustainable.
You do not know the half of it. I was watching on Youtube a woman saying to Steve Harvey that she cannot find a good man. He asked what are your requirements. Here were some of them.

6ft tall
Six figure income
Paid off house
Cooks and cleans
Will take care of her.

She's 5ft tall
Works as a bank teller
Doesn't know how to cook
Is overweight, but fabulous.


???
 

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Perhaps the married women should marry people they are attracted to so they wouldn't have to worry about not being into sex.
I’ve been thinking that for a while. Women should marry Chad. If she can’t get Chad (or Chad-lite), then she should give up and go WGTOW. But please leave Mr. Beta Bucks alone. Even if Mr. BB never gets sex as a single guy, he’s at least free to enjoy his money (and possibly pay for it if he wants). But to marry Mr. BB and then cut off the sex is cruel.

(Don’t mean to sound so harsh, but can’t really sugar-coat this.)
 
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