66% of wives would rather would rather read book, watch movie, or take nap than sleep with husband

[taiyuu_otoko]

She's 5ft tall
Works as a bank teller
Doesn't know how to cook
Is overweight, but fabulous.

If you read any of the LOA crap that women read that's what all the books promise. You DESERVE whatever you want BECAUSE you are so fvcking special. You only need to CHOOSE to believe, and you shall RECEIVE!

Sucker born every minute.

Same as it ever was.

In a strange way, it makes sense.

A fat ugly women believing she DESERVES some hot stud but never lifting a fvcking finger is PREFERABLE to to actually getting out there, facing rejecting, finding out one's TRUE SMV (which for most, including sosuavers, is vastly overestimated) and facing the long harsh road of self improvement.

Never underestimate the self delusional value of believing that one is SPECIAL.

 

[marmel75]

https://nypost.com/2012/11/25/nobody-marries-their-best-sex-ever/

So sex with someone a woman is not supposed to be sexing is more exciting than sexing her husband?

Most guys are pretty bad in bed. Is this really surprising?

The 34% that would rather get pounded are with guys who handle their business properly.

 

[AJ84]

You do not know the half of it. I was watching on Youtube a woman saying to Steve Harvey that she cannot find a good man. He asked what are your requirements. Here were some of them.

6ft tall
Six figure income
Paid off house
Cooks and cleans
Will take care of her.

She's 5ft tall
Works as a bank teller
Doesn't know how to cook
Is overweight, but fabulous.


???

Is she from Toronto? Sounds like it lol.

To be fair, some guys also have unrealistic expectations, thinking that it's ok to be pudgy and as long as they perfect whatever they read about game they will have hot models landing in their lap.

Some women mess around in their twenties for sure, then get babie rabies and settle for Mr. Agreeable. Some men mess around in their twenties and thirties then start looking for a traditional woman to wife up. One wonders why she's not happy with her bland husband and the other wonders why 25 yr old near virgins don't want to marry a 45 yr old man.

There's delusion on both sides.

 

[AJ84]

Most guys are pretty bad in bed. Is this really surprising?

The 34% that would rather get pounded are with guys who handle their business properly.

Men who only care about their pleasure are bad in bed. This is a universal fact with women lol. But any man can improve simply by being less selfish.

Some women suck in bed too by being selfish.

Basically, if the man or woman only cares about what they are getting out of it that sucks and speaks volumes about what else they will be selfish aholes about.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

mix it up in the bedroom.

There's only so many things you can do.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

As evidence of the fact that most people are bad in bed...

Look at the popularity of the book "50 Shades of Grey".

There's nothing in there that is even the slightest bit controversial to me.

But apparently it was so eye opening to so many, that it was a best seller.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

https://nypost.com/2012/11/25/nobody-marries-their-best-sex-ever/

So sex with someone a woman is not supposed to be sexing is more exciting than sexing her husband?

And herein lies the truth regarding women, marriage, and the fallout of throwing away your resources both current/future earnings as well as sexual access.

Divorce Source News & Information
According to the National Center for Health Statistics, about 50 percent of marriages in the United States end in divorce, and about 80 percent of the divorces are initiated by women.

http://www.divorcesource.com/blog/why-women-file-80-percent-of-divorces/

And yet, cucks continue to chase down cratered and plummeted SMV women who've gone off the cliff.

If you or I are to think of the Goat in the red pill community, Rollo aha the rational male likely comes to mind. Ironically enough, if he is married but, I disgress.

I have to say, everyone has an agenda. IMHO, you or I can pedal DJ lifestyle, pickup, red pill awareness, etc however, the sec you bring in the state through marriage or common law living, it goes out the window. It's futile.

I am a huge fan of Jordan Peterson who pushes trad, marriage, and men taking responsibility. Imagine if the. Essage was aimed towards women? lololol I think he's an expert in his domain of psychology and education among other things. I think he's bang on but, life isn't linear and he even admitted to failing to help a client who was destroyed in divorce court.


Whenever we men do something disgusting, the fallback is always aimed at men, and their needing to man up. The message is pretty loud and clear to that, you see a woman who is on top form Smv (18-23), and who she is then will echo throughout her life. If she's a **** then, plummeting smv is not making it better nor is buying her a ring. What incentive for women is there to add value? We've seen stats whereby, women control like 99% of the household spending. If she thinks she can do better, she can cuck her husband, she can unleash the dogs if the state, and extract the resources. Simply, there's nothing to stop ****ty behavior.

Now, I am a serial plate spinner. I am not a ltr guy. I am not a white knight or captain planet. If a woman isn't on the earlier side of twenty, she's fraudin. She is a fake. She's a jump off. She's a Netflix and chill.

At thirty, I've been killing pickup for a long time. I have met some awesome women. Some worthy of dating exclusively but NONE OF THEM I WOULD MARRY. It's a fools mate to do so. The fact that women be skiing down cawk mountain running through playboys and it's when bulking season kicks off, when smv plummets or craters all together, when she hits the wall, it's when Chad's stop calling, now it's time to play house. It's ban rabies. It's marriage and white picket fence time.

Meanwhile, new girls are turning 18/19/20/21 everyday.

In the words of the great Connor McGregor 'I want to take this time to apologize to absolutely nobody!'

 

[R.U.G.]

I’ve been thinking that for a while. Women should marry Chad. If she can’t get Chad (or Chad-lite), then she should give up and go WGTOW. But please leave Mr. Beta Bucks alone. Even if Mr. BB never gets sex as a single guy, he’s at least free to enjoy his money (and possibly pay for it if he wants). But to marry Mr. BB and then cut off the sex is cruel.

(Don’t mean to sound so harsh, but can’t really sugar-coat this.)

Yea, cause every man wants to looked on as a ATM and live the fake life of someone like our own Richardthefrog.

In all seriousness, there should be a happy medium for both sexes. In this day and age, not sure this is possible.

 

[R.U.G.]

Now, I am a serial plate spinner. I am not a ltr guy. I am not a white knight or captain planet.'

What's your problem with Captain Planet? He didn't do anything to you.... Remember, the power is yours.

 

[MrWood]

topic = most men are bad in bed

 

[mrgoodstuff]

topic = most men are bad in bed

That's what women want you to think . They obviously were good enough to marry em .

 

[MatureDJ]

That talk about the male side (See Joe Dassin): the girl you lay, the girl you regret, the girl that went away, the girl you marry/baby.

I'm quite familiar with Joe Dassin (who BTW did the best version of "Polk Salad Annie"). What song is that exactly?

 

[MatureDJ]

and like 90% of married men would rather be single, economically free and banging every chick they can get their hands on. Perhaps the married women should marry people they are attracted to so they wouldn't have to worry about not being into sex. This is a stupid and idiotic article, as women would never behave this way without the law to force men into compliance.

Can't do that. Remember, even Utah outlawed polygamy as a precondition of it becoming a state in 1896. 80% of the women want the 20% Chads. 60% would not be able to marry under your schema.

 

[highSpeed]

Can't do that. Remember, even Utah outlawed polygamy as a precondition of it becoming a state in 1896. 80% of the women want the 20% Chads. 60% would not be able to marry under your schema.

and yet, somehow society got along for quite some time without the state sticking it's nose in. Marriage worked to some degree and people, by all appearances, were happier. Maybe we should kick the state back out of marriage.

 

[MrWood]

That's what women want you to think

if you dont know you are good in bed, you arent
I dont need a woman to verbally tell me I am good
you can see your HIGH SCORE on her face, and FEEL it in her reactions if you know how to play the sex game

lol stfu

 

[mrgoodstuff]

if you dont know you are good in bed, you arent
I dont need a woman to verbally tell me I am good
you can see your HIGH SCORE on her face, and FEEL it in her reactions if you know how to play the sex game

lol stfu

I'm 46 .I was making all my females *** since 17 years old . My women get happy enough to get anger from friends and family . I know my shyt is good . What you didn't hear was yeah maybe alot of dudes are bad in bed . But it's more guys good at it
then society potrays . I TOOK NO SHOTZ AT YOU. IWAS DEFENDING MAN KIND. Yousee women blame men for Everything. It's a whole lot of females too selfish for good sex.

 

[BeExcellent]

Thoughts from the old lady:

What the article and the title of the thread tell me is that 66% of women settled from a sexual perspective. In other words they chose men for reasons other than sexual desire. For me that is too much a sacrifice. I would be miserable with awful sex or sub par sex. As my very wise granny used to say "Your husband should be your lover first, everything else second, and vice versa. Sex is the glue that keeps a marriage together."

I married the best sex of my life. We eventually got divorced for reasons that did not involve sex, but he was hands down the best in bed. Our marriage survived as long as it did despite other serious issues BECAUSE the sexual relationship was great. No way would I have cheated on my ex. I had it great in bed and so did he. To be able to build love, intimacy and depth with someone who is amazing in bed approaches a spiritual experience. Its that good. No way I'd settle for something less. However having said all that it does take time to build the trust and open up and allow the kind of vulnerability it takes to have that sort of mind blowing sexual experience. It doesn't happen right away. At least not in my experience.

I think people who are able to be completely uninhibited right off the bat sexually are deceiving themselves. That is as much mutual masturbation with another person as anything else. Some people are able to go there right away. I'm not. For me the emotional engagement has to exist as well. And that requires time...which is why sex right away generally speaking in my opinion is a bad idea. It can actually block the building of the emotional connection because sexual activity right away is by definition DEVOID of emotional connection. And it is an uphill battle to get that genie back in the bottle once its escaped.

Great sex is not always = to great love (and from that perspective I understand what these women are saying in the article)...my point is that IF you are patient you CAN HAVE BOTH (Great sex and deep love)...who wouldn't want that? In my view these women actually viewed exes with whom they had great sex as less able to form emotional connections...but aren't these women somewhat to blame for allowing the sexual conquest before the emotional connection is established? Nobody dares discuss that out there in the feminine imperative.

One of the things in my current relationship that is finally happening is that my BF is trusting things enough to allow himself to be emotionally invested and emotionally raw and vulnerable. This has been an enormous challenge for him as he's so accustomed to purely sexual experiences that don't demand the emotional component. And yet, what he is finding as we progress together is that he has missed a whole other level of the sexual experience which we are just starting to explore. Here we are 10 months in. He's just getting there, and he's embracing it. He's a bit mystified by it. I feel sure he's been the great in bed ex who women swear off and would never marry...but he is finding the value in actual intimacy as we grow together. I'd considered him OK but not great in bed because of his default emotional fortress. But that is crumbling away (to his credit and in spite of his fears) and things are starting to get good. Really good in fact. But that is a credit to his willingness to remain in relationship and invest rather than race off to the next conquest. It is also a credit to my patience and willingness to hold him accountable for his actions...which he finds refreshing and welcome.

But these women in the article? They are trying to soothe themselves for giving up on having the entire enchilada...although I don't doubt some of them do actually loves their spouses. Just as looks are not everything, neither is sex. But I'd not be happy without a man I really enjoyed the sexual union with. That to me is a roommates or friends situation. Maybe cool when I'm 80 or 90...but certainly doesn't appeal now. I want a guy whose bones I want to jump. A lot.

 

[Poonani Maker]

Maybe if you were a king with a harem like in the olden days (maybe even still some like that today?), you, as a man, would be perpetually happy. Sure, you'd get all the gluttony you want and get disillusioned and maybe even suicidal if you got EVERYTHING you ever wanted sex-wise. You see the sheiks over in Arabia they probably get everything they want. Like Hugh Hefner, do they ever tire of it? I don't know. Maybe not. Never tired of po0n. I'm pretty much that way too, never really ever say, "I don't want it anymore," but I can certainly live without it. Still Want it, and that is all. It's the dudes that NEED it that are sorely in a sore position, because women are forever Rationing it when you get "tied" to them (in their mind And legally). If there's no question of Rationing it, then the Man would tire of the po0n eventually and but later of course want it again after not having it for a while. It's easy to get tired of the po0n though and Want to do other things. For ME, those "other" things are usually Competition involved playing other men (or women), and then Learning history, future, and whole novels dreamt up by intelligent minds, other worlds of thought. Intellectualism is not where I want to be though, just truth. I only want true things juggling and weighing in my mind. The Fiction we must endure (the feminism, the political correctness) dreamt up by sinister minds (who don't even Believe it themselves and if they do, they're Retards), I try at all costs to keep at bay from my mind. It's the Warrior's Creed. Your friend is your mind.

I have no parents
I make the heavens and earth my parents.
I have no home
I make awareness my home.
I have no life or death
I make the tides of breathing my life and death.
I have no divine power
I make honesty my divine power.
I have no means
I make understanding my means.
I have no magic secrets
I make character my magic secret.
I have no body
I make endurance my body.
I have no eyes
I make the flash of lightening my eyes.
I have no ears
I make sensibility my ears.
I have no limbs
I make promptness my limbs.
I have no strategy
I make "unshadowed by thought" my strategy.
I have no designs
I make "seizing opportunity by the forelock" my design.
I have no miracles
I make right-action my miracles.
I have no principles
I make adaptability to all circumstances my principles.
I have no tactics
I make emptiness and fullness my tactics.
I have no talents
I make ready wit my talent.
I have no friends
I make my mind my friend.
I have no enemy
I make carelessness my enemy.
I have no armor
I make benevolence and righteousness my armor.
I have no castle
I make immovable-mind my castle.
I have no sword
I make absence of self my sword.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

It's David D 101. Attraction is not a choice.

It's just do blatantly apparent as to what you expect when you throw away resources both current and future as well as sexual access. It's even worst because she checks out when top form smv has plummeted (mid/late 20s) or worse, cratered smv (30s). It's not even as if a guy married his high school sweet heart. It's not like he is paying for cratered smv thereafter. He got cratered smv and he's paying for her cawk carousel.

Top form gents. Anything but is a hit and run.

 

[marmel75]

That's what women want you to think . They obviously were good enough to marry em .

Yeah, and most get out of shape and fat and have a hard time getting it up because they are filled with estrogen instead of testosterone