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https://nypost.com/2012/11/25/nobody-marries-their-best-sex-ever/
So sex with someone a woman is not supposed to be sexing is more exciting than sexing her husband?A 36-year-old marketing executive from Chelsea we’ll call Abby says that “what makes sex incredible, or places it into the range of ‘best sex’, is an element of danger. There’s an element of disobedience . . . that elicits a feeling of carnal desperation. [That feeling is often provoked by] the guy who you shouldn’t be with versus the one that you marry.”
Sex therapist Sari Cooper says many women come to her troubled that their husbands aren’t ideal sexual partners.
“Your best sexual relationship has likely been with the person who was most unstable and most volatile, but was very passionate,” Cooper says. “That’s like riding a roller coaster. That’s passion. But if you have a family, riding a roller coaster isn’t that great for kids.”