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5'5" to 5'8" Men- Your height is not an issue

AsianPlayboy

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I'm 5'5, Asian, and a below average face. At my fattest, I was 201 lb (now 141lb and 10% Body Fat). It takes a lot of work, but it is entirely possible to out compete, out work, and out game other men who are taller, better looking and white.

It's certainly by no means easy, but it is doable. Not the least of which is the apex paradox that you can take advantage of.
 

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I'm 5'5, Asian, and a below average face. At my fattest, I was 201 lb (now 141lb and 10% Body Fat). It takes a lot of work, but it is entirely possible to out compete, out work, and out game other men who are taller, better looking and white.

It's certainly by no means easy, but it is doable. Not the least of which is the apex paradox that you can take advantage of.
@MatureDJ You should buy this guy’s course.
 

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So imagine how much better you would have done if you were 6'3 then
I'm 5'5, Asian, and a below average face. At my fattest, I was 201 lb (now 141lb and 10% Body Fat). It takes a lot of work, but it is entirely possible to out compete, out work, and out game other men who are taller, better looking and white.

It's certainly by no means easy, but it is doable. Not the least of which is the apex paradox that you can take advantage of.
I know 3 guys at work who are around 5’5” and do well with women. However. Each is super fit, outgoing, White & Handsome.
 

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Or just ignore women who are obsessed with superficial 'qualities'.

If you're great company and a woman rejects you for not being tall enough, just ignore those shallow women.

My male pattern baldness became more noticeable in my late twenties, so I shaved my head. And I know that probably ruined my chances with women attracted to Fabio or Lorenzo Lamas. But I didn't 'suffer from hairloss', there was no 'suffering' involved.
And I didn't bemoan the fact that the Fabio women weren't interested in me. Women who would see my baldness as something that detracts from my attractiveness are not the type of women I date. Shallow people are unattractive to me.

Nor should you date anyone who makes an issue of your length.
Being 2 meters tall means you can get away with baldness. :rolleyes:
 

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The only chicks that don't make an issue about length are single mommies and chicks who have an issue with their circumference.
Plenty of single moms also make an issue out of height. I also think that overweight women would also make height an issue. There are often many men trying to have sex with overweight women.

Lots of men are also pursuing single moms, mainly for short term sex. There are also men who do commit to single moms. They are often single dads themselves.
 

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There are often many men trying to have sex with overweight women.
 

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I've seen it over and over, men in the above height range with an attractive woman on their arm.

Volunteered at an event today and noticed a solid 7.5 to 8 in her late 20s or early 30s working at next booth. I wondered if she gave me a "glance" but then saw her locking lips with a ginger dude who was 5'6" or 5'7" tops! This guy was just average in the face too and didn't look rich.

Stop making your height an excuse and the false belief if you were at least 5'10" all your women troubles would go away

I'm 6'0 btw and don't have tons of options

Now, men who are under 5'5", I'm not going to lie, you will have it very, very hard with women.

5'5" seems to be the cut off.
To be frank, I am 5'4", and I find interest in girls who are my type and are interested in me, and they are indeed interested.

They are usually shorter than I am, but it's not merely the height, and it's not very, very hard with women, especially if you're the only one aware of and properly studying frame amongst your male peers.
 

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To be frank, I am 5'4", and I find interest in girls who are my type and are interested in me, and they are indeed interested.

They are usually shorter than I am, but it's not merely the height, and it's not very, very hard with women, especially if you're the only one aware of and properly studying frame amongst your male peers.
Are they fat?
 
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