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40, very much a cat mom, doesn't want kids, didn't date on her 30s

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You're going to need to run at some point. It's probably worth running sooner than later.
 

Gamisch

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And liberal, hot and blond. Smash or run?
You might as well go for this. This seems like a more realistic option.

Just don't expect it to last forever. If anything, don't underestimate the amount of options that such a woman has.
 

Barrister

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Nothing wrong with pvssy-cats is there?

Not dating "at all" in her 30s would be a red flag. Not that I buy that for a second. But really, any woman who is hot and single past 30 has some at least some latent red flags. Just based on what you're describing, there is no reason to not at least sleep with her and turn her into a plate. Anything more and you need to gather more intel as you spend time together before making that call.
 
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Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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Smash & Dash; Pump & Ghost
 

Modern Man Advice

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Hot and single? She is probably crazy/delusional. This is reinforced by the fact that she is now 40 and "didn't" date in her 30's and has cats.

She is effectively a cat lady, and I don't mean that in a good way.

To your question, enjoy it while it lasts.
 

Macadellic

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You are considering this because you have no options. Your time will be better spent improving yourself.
 

Kotaix

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I say smash.

The question is can you put up with what comes out of her mouth for long enough to figure out if she's crazy. Never stick your **** in crazy.
 

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I say smash.

The question is can you put up with what comes out of her mouth for long enough to figure out if she's crazy. Never stick your **** in crazy.
Correction: a little crazy makes for great sechs.
 

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How do I know she has a good looking face?:rofl:
I frankly don’t give a f*ck what you think, chances are all of my plates are hotter than anything you could ever get even in the same postal code with. You’ll have to take my word for it, especially since you’re on a board looking for men to pic put a of their fwbs.

The thirst is real.
 

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I frankly don’t give a f*ck what you think, chances are all of my plates are hotter than anything you could ever get even in the same postal code with. You’ll have to take my word for it, especially since you’re on a board looking for men to pic put a of their fwbs.

The thirst is real.
Don't be surprised if you invite a certain measure of ridicule when trying to brag on the internet. Why did you post that photo to begin with?
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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