40, very much a cat mom, doesn't want kids, didn't date on her 30s

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You're going to need to run at some point. It's probably worth running sooner than later.
 

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Make sure the cat is out of the room and tie her up, she'll enjoy that.

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And liberal, hot and blond. Smash or run?
You might as well go for this. This seems like a more realistic option.

Just don't expect it to last forever. If anything, don't underestimate the amount of options that such a woman has.
 

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Nothing wrong with pvssy-cats is there?

Not dating "at all" in her 30s would be a red flag. Not that I buy that for a second. But really, any woman who is hot and single past 30 has some at least some latent red flags. Just based on what you're describing, there is no reason to not at least sleep with her and turn her into a plate. Anything more and you need to gather more intel as you spend time together before making that call.
 
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Smash & Dash; Pump & Ghost
 

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Hot and single? She is probably crazy/delusional. This is reinforced by the fact that she is now 40 and "didn't" date in her 30's and has cats.

She is effectively a cat lady, and I don't mean that in a good way.

To your question, enjoy it while it lasts.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You are considering this because you have no options. Your time will be better spent improving yourself.
 

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I say smash.

The question is can you put up with what comes out of her mouth for long enough to figure out if she's crazy. Never stick your **** in crazy.
 

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I say smash.

The question is can you put up with what comes out of her mouth for long enough to figure out if she's crazy. Never stick your **** in crazy.
Correction: a little crazy makes for great sechs.
 

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Correction: a little crazy makes for great sechs.
The difficulty with the inexperienced is their inability to properly gauge the level of craziness and how well they can deal with it.

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That's why I tell novices to stay away from the 'crazy hot chicks' until they have enough experience to look through the hotness and properly assess the danger.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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