Okay, this is a severe case of oneitis, but I'm mad about the girl. All her female friends say she really likes me, and would not keep in touch with a guy she did not like. Also, she has specificaly told them that she likes me. I just cannot get things to progress futher than hugging and kissing on the cheek friends! Help!!
4 years
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Thomas94305
Senior Don Juan
Umm.. did you ask her out? How did that go?
If she's not letting things advance, act aloof, ask others out, and let her know about it.
If she's not letting things advance, act aloof, ask others out, and let her know about it.
L777
Master Don Juan
I think you know the answer to this one.
Hint: it begins with 'n' and ends with 'ext'.
Hint: it begins with 'n' and ends with 'ext'.
L777
Master Don Juan
I know its hard man, but the title of the thread speaks for itsself, 4 years!!
Just ask her tomorrow, straight up, will you go out with me? no games, no lines nothing, if she yes then cool, if she says no then at least you know for sure and can get over it.
Just ask her tomorrow, straight up, will you go out with me? no games, no lines nothing, if she yes then cool, if she says no then at least you know for sure and can get over it.
Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.
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Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
:crackup:
this thread...:yawn:
this thread...:yawn:
Look man... if you KNOW she likes you, play straight:
"Look, it's clear that you really like me. It's stupid to make things complicated, specially between you and me, we have known each other for 4 years and we can read each other out. Let's stop pretending and start enjoying."
Something on those lines. Also try to make her clear that this is her only chance to go out with you for real. You don't have to tell her that directly, but insinuate it with your attitude. You must look like "I'm the one brave enough to say what we both think and you won't have this chance again as if you say no you'll be the one who will be sorry later."
And that will be it, if she say no. If she say no, you don't have anything to be sorry about, you did your best, you told her directly, she said no. It's her fault, not yours. Move along, next target. It's very possible than in a couple of days she'll return to you.
"Look, it's clear that you really like me. It's stupid to make things complicated, specially between you and me, we have known each other for 4 years and we can read each other out. Let's stop pretending and start enjoying."
Something on those lines. Also try to make her clear that this is her only chance to go out with you for real. You don't have to tell her that directly, but insinuate it with your attitude. You must look like "I'm the one brave enough to say what we both think and you won't have this chance again as if you say no you'll be the one who will be sorry later."
And that will be it, if she say no. If she say no, you don't have anything to be sorry about, you did your best, you told her directly, she said no. It's her fault, not yours. Move along, next target. It's very possible than in a couple of days she'll return to you.
Now your talking, she says things like "since the last few months I love how your more confident..."Ray said:
Whereby she says she wants to go to a certain place for dinner, but I want to go to another. I still give in to her, but I act ****ey about it, which she likes.
She tells me when she is pissed off with me, for example, when I ask her whether she got home okay after a night of clubbing, or I tell her how much I care about her in front of her friends. Of course her friends do not care and think it is noble of me, but she hates it.
so why let it go another 4 years and never know. just do it man, if she says no, then itll never happen. Doesnt matter if she likes you or not. Most likely you are in the friends zone. Ive had a lot of girls like me as friends, but it never goes past that. You need to lay it all on the line, and be prepared to next this chick if she says no. But still be her friend, and like i say, if she doesnt want you, have her hook you up with her friends, bang her friends, and itll come back to her that your a great guy and whatever, and she'll regret saying no. Never know, 4 years from now she might come around. grab your balls and go for it.
JPFromTally
Senior Don Juan
Styleman, it's obvious you're not going to do anything. Then along will come a guy like me who will start banging her before you finally got the cojones to do something.
MacAvoy
Banned
Send her a note, on it write "Check yes or no"
