WhatchaOnaDo said:
I've gotten to know this girl pretty well guys, we just havn't been physical yet. I've been talking to her for almost 3 weeks
Oh yeah? I've been talking to a dude from my karate class for 3 weeks. Gotten to know him pretty well too. And without getting physical with this girl, you might as well be hanging out with this dude too. Same damn thing. Talking = friendship. Talking doesnt matter.
[I think this date will give me a chance to show her that I remembered certain things about her, like the food she likes (I read chicks love that) and I think she might appreciate this kind of date.
Who cares about that? How does that escalate sexual interest? Remembering things about her.
You think after you've been banging her for 5 months, she'll look back on things and say, "You know what I like best about you? That you remember things about me. That's so hot."...????
What she WILL remember fondly is the day you said "F*** it. And pulled her in for the kiss."
All this "common interests" "getting to know each other" crap is secondary to PASSION. That's what you need to add to these boring dates. Hell, I'm not even sure they are dates. Yeah, it's really great that you're such a good listener with her and blah blah blah. The girls I've dated that were the most into me....I mostly communicated through a series of grunts. And you're talking about "remembering things about her"...that'd be cute if you were in 6th grade.
God gave you that testosterone for a reason. Stop with the romance novel crap and put those balls to use.