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EyeBRollin

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3 months is hardly an investment when you hustle as many chicks as I do. I'm busy with work and the gym. I'm usually hustling 5-8 chicks at any one time. Not in a rush to smash any of them. I always plan should the opportunity arise. However, it's amazing what abundance does to your patience.

If I next a girl for not screwing me in two weeks, my roster would be full of sluts instead of quality women that have their own ambitions and bomb ass cooking skills.

Also, keep in mind I never see these chicks more than twice a week. Most of them I only see once every week or two. They spend a lot more time missing me than interacting with me (which is the point). Gents, it takes time for women to engage their feelings.
 

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Not many dudes are going to be able to do what I do simply from a physicality standpoint based on my strength and amount of work I've put in the gym, so my competition from that perspective is extremely low.

Never underestimate what being in peak physical shape and putting a ton of work in related to posterior chain exercises does for your thrusting power. I'm sending a chick through the bed frame or the wall if she is standing up, hahaha
So your abs are chiseled and cut all over? Yeah they get hot when they see that.
 

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So your abs are chiseled and cut all over? Yeah they get hot when they see that.
Some times of the year I have abs. Fall and winter I could care less about abs. Those have no bearing on the outcome
 

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Thanks Pyros.

Yes maybe I pushed it too far with the plans for her to come back to my place again, but as you said, if she was really interested she would have at least made a counter offer. Reality is, yes I do want to **** her because I am attracted to her, but I also want to get to know her better. However, if she also isnt attracted to me after 3 dates, whats the point in investing my time on her?

Update: she got back to me and said that after monday she will let me know when she is free. Still a bit wishy washy response
As an update on this, last night I posted on Facebook 2 pics of me having fun with 2 lady friends, just 2 selfies where the 3 of us are laughing and in one of them I wrote "partying like a rockstar, with so and so" .
This morning, I find out that this girl I went out with 3 times before unfriended me on facebook and blocked my contact on Whatsapp. What the hell...?
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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As an update on this, last night I posted on Facebook 2 pics of me having fun with 2 lady friends, just 2 selfies where the 3 of us are laughing and in one of them I wrote "partying like a rockstar, with so and so" .
This morning, I find out that this girl I went out with 3 times before unfriended me on facebook and blocked my contact on Whatsapp. What the hell...?
Ha ha ha... damned if you do, damned if you don't.

There's no rhyme or reason to these girl's behavior. Some of them are just completely capricious, which makes you wonder why we strategize so much... ha ha
 

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Wasnt so much of a strategy from me, these were 2 normal pics of people having fun, its not like i was making out with another girl (although even if I was, she had nothing to do with it). But why would she just delete me after this?
 

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This is the crux of your nonsense.

I currently keep a long-term plate that qualifies as this "quality woman" nonsense. Had to drop another plate about 2 months back that was the same (resource management).

Started shagging them both within 3 dates.

Have you seriously never fvcked a "quality woman" in 3 dates before?
Do you seriously not know how to read?

I specifically said most are within 3-7 dates. Some plates I've ****ed on the 1st date, some on the 5th, some on the 3rd. The point is, I DO NOT CARE. I'm not some desperate beta hunting sluts. Women **** you when they're ready to **** you. For some, no amount of your so called "game" will make them drop their underwear on the first two dates. As long as they stick within my frame and provide external benefits such as cooking or taking me out, I'm willing to exercise that patience.

Spin plates. I'm always hustling 5-8 chicks at any given time.
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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As an update on this, last night I posted on Facebook 2 pics of me having fun with 2 lady friends, just 2 selfies where the 3 of us are laughing and in one of them I wrote "partying like a rockstar, with so and so" .
This morning, I find out that this girl I went out with 3 times before unfriended me on facebook and blocked my contact on Whatsapp. What the hell...?
some girls actually don't like players, and she probably thought she was being played
 

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some girls actually don't like players, and she probably thought she was being played
Might have been the case, but it was just a selfie with 2 other girls laughing. I would say a more confident girl would be even more enticed to pursue me (if there was any high enough interest of course).
 

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Might have been the case, but it was just a selfie with 2 other girls laughing. I would say a more confident girl would be even more enticed to pursue me (if there was any high enough interest of course).
maybe she gets screwed by players a lot and isn't taking the chance

or maybe she mistook it for you already having a girlfriend and she didn't want to be a mistress
 

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maybe she gets screwed by players a lot and isn't taking the chance

or maybe she mistook it for you already having a girlfriend and she didn't want to be a mistress
Yes, true. Anyway, now its too late with this one, time to move on.
 

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some girls actually don't like players, and she probably thought she was being played
gotta give them the benefit of the doubt. Show you're a social guy, but too much proof of you chasing girls and showing you like to party may be a huge turn off to her. My sister is a "high value" gal but still AWALT. Ive talked to her about stuff like that before and she says it comes off as super "player-ish". In the end it could have been an array of different things, keep focusing on yourself.
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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