Nice name by the way...
I read a little of your last post and quite honestly, i don't know how much I can contribute. As men, we tend to look at competition a lot. Looks like you compare yourself to other guys a lot. I donno though. Instead of looking at what everyone else has, you need to look at what you have, what you've created, and where you plan to be. Take your mind off women in general. Just put them in the background. Your concerns should be with yourself. Ok, so you work, you have money, and you have a car, ok. That's just extra ****. That's not what gets you all the ladies. I don't have money, i've only got a part time job, and my car just got towed a month ago. They're asking for so much that I have to give them the pink slip. But here I am... A pulse ready to step up to any challenge. It's all about, and up to, you...
If you could just work on self improvement and look at the more positive things, **** would run smoother. If there's anything that helped me more mentally, it was working out. Why don't you do some research on working out. There's so many benifits, it's rediculous. Make your interest working out. I really don't know how to express this as well as I'd like too, but this should be your number one concern.
Secondly, be more social... Are you going to bars with the intention of having as much fun as you possibly can, or are you thinking about how badly you're going to eat it? Can you meet some new friends? are you afriad of sociallizing in general, or is it just the girls? There were moments i didn't want to go to a club or bar... but you know what? I went anyway. We're looking forward here, we have places to go. If I need to become more social, and that's the way to do it, i'm going. The pass is only there to help you succeed. Forget about all of the visual things like money, cars, appearance. Oh, and did you notice the hundred dollar shirt i'm wearing? What do you really have going on for yourself?
You need to be more social. You go to work, go home, and then you go to bed? That wont get you anywhere. So what if you go out and come home empty handed, did you try? Did you expose yourself? Are you growing? Without a fight he is dead. Do you have dreams? Do you have goals? Do you have plans? The last thing i'd do is raise a flag and say i'm going home. I don't k now if you watch baseball, but take boston for example. You see Boston's fight? 100+ year curse, and these guys are still fighting. Can you grab your balls? This is bigger than life, step up to the challenge.
