2 plates crashed the same day [need advice]

[Juanto]

Are you having sex with all 7 of them?

max I had is what I have now, 4, and sometimes it feels a bit too much for me

 

[SW15]

Would you then say that it would be a wise move for the PUA to instead wife up a gal so as to get regular sex (in theory) without having to work for it?

Girlfriend up, yes. Wife up, no.

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I'm essentially describing Option 6 from the article above.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Makes a lot of sense.

Thing is "plates crashing" generally mean to me that things aren't as smooth. Either they mention getting too attached and can't resist but want to OR flipside I feel that they are disinterested.

Either way, it's some work adding plates to rotation.

But as @DEEZEDBRAH says, move as they are gone. Catch and release is a great strategy/inner game mindset. I've heard it often before but never really understood the importance of it before today.

It's like how women think, out of sight is out of mind. Always be on the move. The game never stops.

I was talking to a old buddy. He said it's "trauma" to proceed this way HOWEVER, the SMP and women today move different. What you bring to to the table is a lot &&& most women don't make the cut.

Psychologically, the erosion of a rotation particularly in a pandemic is pretty common. A lot of couples got divorced over the past few years.

Tate recommended Pimpology by pimping Ken. Your best hoe will drop off. Pimping ain't easy. I cannot control outcomes but I can create processes I run. After pulling and beating it rotten, I go get more girls. I approach for sport.

Even when i was dating and semi monogamous on my early stages in learning pickup, I learned that importance to go approach regardless purely for sport. It goes against male nature. Fellas switch off once getting the girl. The fire is in the approach and pursuit. It's where I see Gen z dudes slipping. Get deezd lift gym cel and the sec they get a gf, they ditch thru boys and fall off.

If you ever checkout of the game, most have that fire which keeps women uncomfortable knowing she's replaceable. Not in the mood means some other girl is dtf.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

@DEEZEDBRAH has it here. He is right always be open to the next interest. But keeping 3 mains is about all I ever had time to invest wich is your most precious asset to yourself.
When I was heavy into spinning once they started the new ones just started showing up. Its like abbundance was breeding abundance.
But the tricky part was learning to dodge the lock down attempts. That can be a ***** and if it is in a girls loins to find that provider. She will drop you as quickly as you can drop her. Just part of the spin.

So not getting attached can actually be a good thing to cultivate for any lurkers reading. Its difficult and takes time if you were like me raised on disney fairy tales then it will take great practice in being into yourself at all times and spend time with these women on your terms.

I remember a night during this time I was out front of my apartment. Got a ride home from the club. Did not drive that night.
Making out in the car with girl A and girl B pulls in the parking lot. Lol didnt see us. So I go with girl B that night but if it was now I would have invited girl A in with B and introduced them and went for the 3 way. Lol but thats my taste.

Yea they both could have got pissed but who cares. They were plates and I knew the one liked women too.

3 is manageable. 5 starts to get dicey. Keep in mind rotation equates to smashing and I still go out to acquire more. Keep in mind, modern women move different. Once upon a time they were feminine. They would dhv. There's some lack thereof today which separates keepers from modern women. Compliance and DHV is a great ingredient.

 

[darksprezzatura]

Quick update.

Went for high volume approaches for a week.

I quit talking to far off plates to focus on close proximity rotation.

Got a cute as hell HB 8 date on the weekend.

A slumpbuster fatty date, who I flaked on cuz buyer's remorse.

Unemployed freak flying me over to smash in a different city.

Lawyer plate flaked once but reason seems legitimate, offered a reachedule.

Manager plate, came back, taking leaves to smash my brains out.

Professor came around, but said after a week or so.

 

[darksprezzatura]

Quick advice/Learning lesson.

When plates seem to detach, focus on your own life hardcore, while getting a bunch of new plates.

Ping them in a friendly way.

They all clamor back.

 

[Glassguy]

I feel that I'm very good at running a rotation. 7 is too many as there isn't enough time and attention to keep all 7 interested.

2 or 3 women will get the majority of your time and attention and they will be the ones that you have the highest interest in and vice versa. They also be the most compliant (no flaking/rescheduling dates).

There is a lot of turnover in a rotation for many different reasons. As @DEEZEDBRAH has already said, you should be hitting up new chicks right after you pound one. It's a numbers game and if you don't have high value in the area you live in, you'll never pull it off.

The women will always be changing positions on your rotation based on their submissiveness and compliance. Trimming the fat is inevitable and I prefer light ghosting. Slow fade.

Always be looking for better women to add to your rotation and move around your rank of priority based on each woman's behavior.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I feel that I'm very good at running a rotation. 7 is too many as there isn't enough time and attention to keep all 7 interested.

2 or 3 women will get the majority of your time and attention and they will be the ones that you have the highest interest in and vice versa. They also be the most compliant (no flaking/rescheduling dates).

There is a lot of turnover in a rotation for many different reasons. As @DEEZEDBRAH has already said, you should be hitting up new chicks right after you pound one. It's a numbers game and if you don't have high value in the area you live in, you'll never pull it off.

The women will always be changing positions on your rotation based on their submissiveness and compliance. Trimming the fat is inevitable and I prefer light ghosting. Slow fade.

Always be looking for better women to add to your rotation and move around your rank of priority based on each woman's behavior.

Game recognizes Game!

Anybody who is maintained girls through the pandemic is doing it right. A few in rotation were from before the pandemic which exceeds my expectations given female nature. Since the lock down, rotations erode by default as its female nature to pursue the bigger better prize or they want to play house. sourcing is king. getting a girl makes it more important to acquire more.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Op my additional advice is to get some matches on OLD. Plan a date you will actually enjoy (a restaurant u actually craving or a movie u actually want to see) and triple book your matches. If none cancels, go out with the hottest one and flake on the other girls.

No restaurants for first dates...boring, no opportunity for any real physical interaction, expensive, and are begging for awkward, interview style conversation

 

[Juanto]

No restaurants for first dates...boring, no opportunity for any real physical interaction, expensive, and are begging for awkward, interview style conversation

Exactly. Movies are also horrible date ideas (before you have sex with them, of course)

 

[Dr.Suave]

Well I have heard that before, by many members here. "No restaurants or movie theater in the first date because bla bla bla".

You say "boring". Not boring if you have good company, convo is going great, and u were actually craving that restaurant. Not boring for me anyway.

"No opportunity for any real physical interaction" Oh boy, do I disagree. Just choose restaurant that has a nice place "for a walk" after dinner. But even if physical interaction was not possible, dosent matter, I had a dinner I was actually craving while vetting a potential plate/ltr. Birds, one stone, etc.

"Expensive" I was craving that restaurant anyway and I can afford it. I dont mind.

"Awkward, interview style convo" Yes, this used to happen to me in my more inexperienced days. You are the man, you lead the conversation. It can be good convo.

Hey, if you dont like it or dosent work for you for whatever reason, cool. Figure out what works for you.

I recently had good results with dinner or movie theather on first dates, despite "common knowledge" those are bad ideas. But only happened recently when I was triple booking chicks and I was very outcome indifferent. Also, my post said "a date you would actyually enjoy", dinner or movie were examples that applied to me, not necessarily to everyone.