2 plates crashed the same day [need advice]

[darksprezzatura]

Currently, I'm spinning 7 plates.

3 are regular weekly rotations who live near.
1. Manager 25 yo cute, slight chub
2. Lawyer 25 yo, fit and competitive
3. Professor 29 yo, fit and feminine

4 are plates in different cities I meet when I hang out.

4. Intern 19 yo, cute as hell, fit, beautiful face
5. Banker 29 yo, cute fit and works out
6. Techie 25 yo, average, unfit, rich
7. Unemployed 23 yo, below average, quick lay

Plate 1 and 3 crashed.
Plate 2 just responded something to a date suggestion, I'll check.

4-7 are logistically a time drain, could be considered friends/potential lays.

Having two plates crashing in a day has some effect on me, but obviously I saw it a long time coming.

The usual, approach more, workout, stack money advice is something I'm following well.

I'm open any more suggestion on how to to deal with things

 

[Barrister]

I think the advice you are already following is basically all you need. You are an old hat at this and know how it works. 7 plates is a lot to be juggling at once even though I understand the 4 outside of where you live don't require any true maintenance. I think you definitely need at least one more regular rotation plate to avoid getting too involved with the lawyer. Hopefully you have some prospects to make that happen sooner than later.

Good luck, brother.

 

[firstbornunicorn]

If you haven't had sex with them they aren't plates. They have no attachment to you yet it seems. If anything they are prospects.

 

[Machine10033]

The most I’ve ever juggled at once was 4.... and it was confusing... and too time consuming. I give you props for dealing with 7.

 

[jamesfromhouston]

I’ve done 7 before.

 

[lgbs2004]

7 plates? Too much work!

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

I have spun as many as 7 but 2 were in primary relationships and only saw them a couple times a month. Agreed it’s a bit much. 4, maybe five is perfect if you have logistics down and some can host.

I’ve also had 2 crash in a day, hate the game not the playahs.

 

[MatureDJ]

SPIN MORE PLATES.

 

[Dr.Suave]

In my experience plates pretty much always eventually fall away unless you girlfriend-her-up.

They can still fall after years if you dont marry them. Even if you marry they can divorce

 

[Dr.Suave]

Op my additional advice is to get some matches on OLD. Plan a date you will actually enjoy (a restaurant u actually craving or a movie u actually want to see) and triple book your matches. If none cancels, go out with the hottest one and flake on the other girls.

 

[user252009]

Stop wasting time with these women and do something worthwhile with your life.

 

[SW15]

Currently, I'm spinning 7 plates.

3 are regular weekly rotations who live near.
1. Manager 25 yo cute, slight chub
2. Lawyer 25 yo, fit and competitive
3. Professor 29 yo, fit and feminine

4 are plates in different cities I meet when I hang out.

4. Intern 19 yo, cute as hell, fit, beautiful face
5. Banker 29 yo, cute fit and works out
6. Techie 25 yo, average, unfit, rich
7. Unemployed 23 yo, below average, quick lay

So 1 and 3 are gone. 2 is the only one is your current city. 2 has no long term potentials. Lawyers make bad girlfriends or wives but are acceptable as short term plates.

What do you want to do with 4-7? 4-5 are the best. 4 is the best.

2 and 4 could make a decent rotation in the short term.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Currently, I'm spinning 7 plates.

3 are regular weekly rotations who live near.
1. Manager 25 yo cute, slight chub
2. Lawyer 25 yo, fit and competitive
3. Professor 29 yo, fit and feminine

4 are plates in different cities I meet when I hang out.

4. Intern 19 yo, cute as hell, fit, beautiful face
5. Banker 29 yo, cute fit and works out
6. Techie 25 yo, average, unfit, rich
7. Unemployed 23 yo, below average, quick lay

Plate 1 and 3 crashed.
Plate 2 just responded something to a date suggestion, I'll check.

4-7 are logistically a time drain, could be considered friends/potential lays.

Having two plates crashing in a day has some effect on me, but obviously I saw it a long time coming.

The usual, approach more, workout, stack money advice is something I'm following well.

I'm open any more suggestion on how to to deal with things

Keep sourcing. You boosted the importance of leveling up. Being on your purpose. Keep getting new girls.

Go get more girls. Get a lift in or go run. Meditate. Tony Robbins calls it a pattern interrupt. Think being on a heater in a casino or a crypto play.

Part of the game is catch and release. After I leave a girls place, I go approach more. I open more sets on the walk to the car JUST CAUSE. I MOVE as though she's gone after I go. I proceed as though they drop off. It's female nature. Sooner or later they all fall off. They want to play house or have kids. Some dude is the bigger better prize or offers playing house.

You are just experienced coming off a heater. Out of state was the reference in pickup. The solution is get more. Exercise indifference to women coming or going.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

How many of these plates have you fcked? And 7 is a high number for anyone. Trim it to your best 3 options and then go from there

5 is fine. After it gets dicey as you said. I source new prospects but in terms of rotation status is a stretch. After a handful while sourcing prospects and going balls deep it gets sloppy.

 

[darksprezzatura]

How many of these plates have you fcked? And 7 is a high number for anyone. Trim it to your best 3 options and then go from there

Usually I consider all women as plates who I approach and number close. Coincidentally I've slept with all of them at one point or the other.

The out of city ones I haven't seen too often tho, but i drop in a text here and there.

 

[darksprezzatura]

Part of the game is catch and release. After I leave a girls place, I go approach more. I open more sets on the walk to the car JUST CAUSE. I MOVE as though she's gone after I go. I proceed as though they drop off. It's female nature. Sooner or later they all fall off. They want to play house or have kids. Some dude is the bigger better prize or offers playing house.

Great advice as always brah @DEEZEDBRAH

I think the advice you are already following is basically all you need. You are an old hat at this and know how it works. 7 plates is a lot to be juggling at once even though I understand the 4 outside of where you live don't require any true maintenance. I think you definitely need at least one more regular rotation plate to avoid getting too involved with the lawyer. Hopefully you have some prospects to make that happen sooner than later.

Good luck, brother.

Thanks @Barrister

So 1 and 3 are gone. 2 is the only one is your current city. 2 has no long term potentials. Lawyers make bad girlfriends or wives but are acceptable as short term plates.

What do you want to do with 4-7? 4-5 are the best. 4 is the best.

2 and 4 could make a decent rotation in the short term.

Yeah @SW15, 4 is far off for anything meaningful tho yeah

 

[darksprezzatura]

If a woman is a true plate then it should never be a concern if the plate falls away because you have abundance. Even if all your plates fall away at once, you should have the abundance to go get more plates.

That's the whole point of the plate system in my understanding. Women can come and go from your life without effecting you.

In my experience plates pretty much always eventually fall away unless you girlfriend-her-up.

Makes a lot of sense.

Thing is "plates crashing" generally mean to me that things aren't as smooth. Either they mention getting too attached and can't resist but want to OR flipside I feel that they are disinterested.

Either way, it's some work adding plates to rotation.

But as @DEEZEDBRAH says, move as they are gone. Catch and release is a great strategy/inner game mindset. I've heard it often before but never really understood the importance of it before today.

It's like how women think, out of sight is out of mind. Always be on the move. The game never stops.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

You have to learn to be OK with plates removing themselves from the rotation and getting more.

Shelf life on plates are about 3-4 months usually...

There isn't always something you did wrong...most of the time the woman knows nothing serious is going to come of it and she wants something more and goes out to find it.

Just chalk it up to the game and move on.

 

[Zimbabwe]

SPIN MORE PLATES.

3-4 plates is more than enough, anything more and it becomes a full time job in itself managing all that.

 

[MatureDJ]

This is how a guy burns himself out. It's unsustainable if you want to keep banging lots of women for a long period of time.

Would you then say that it would be a wise move for the PUA to instead wife up a gal so as to get regular sex (in theory) without having to work for it?