I have a good friend (so I thought) that is going through alot right now. She just got out of an abusive relationship with a bf that beat and raped her. She can't move back home because her parents are extremely religious and won't let her. She is living in an apartment she can barely afford and has no money to eat.
I run into her the other day and she is so happy to see me and asks me to check out her apartment later. I find it and she invites me in. We catch up and a guy comes in, it's her boss from her job. He brings her some food, apparently he's helping her out. He's also married but his wife in in Iraq. My friend falls asleep with us there and the guy goes to leave and gets real close to her like hes kissing her goodbye. After he's gone she wakes up and tells me and everyone else how creepy he is.
I was interested in dating this girl before but we never did, we still get along really well though. We hang out in town and she asks me what I'm doing the next night and I thought we had made plans. We go to her boss' house to eat and watch movies and some more people come in. She immediately starts making friends with these guys cuz she is so lonely at the moment.
We leave the apartment with the guys to eat. She starts getting depressed all of a sudden and out of nowhere she says to the dudes she has known for a few hours that she has bipolar disorder. I knew she did, I ahve known her for awhile. Butthese guys were shocked. She was obviously embarrased and went outside. I found her crying beside the car and sat down next to her.
I listen to her, she says shes suicidal, no one loves her, shes crazy, she isn't good enough for anyone. On top of that she has no money and her boss helps her but he seems to expect something in return. And she says she can't tell him no or she will lose her job and the help he gives her.
We go back to her apartment and talk some more about it all. She falls asleep and I fondle her *JUST KIDDING*. She cries her eyes out to me. the next morning I get us breakfeast, she's being nice and friendly. I ask her aobut hanging out later, she doesn't know now. She said she would call, and I told her I would stop by her store cuz I would be in town later anyway.
I get there and her eyes are teared up. She's talking about someone stalking her to one of her co-workers, I joke that shes talkin about me. She says no. It's her boss shes talkin about. But then I get the feeling she may be talking about me, cuz I see him walk into the back room and she rushes back there too.
I am concerned about her cuz she talked about committing suicide, but I didn't get a chance to see how she was doing. I hang out at a buddies house and on the way home ecide to go by her place to see if shes home. She pulls up and asks me what Im doing there, yelling at me to leave and calling me a stalker. Her boss is there too. I'm confused cuz 5 hours ago we were cool. We argue and she keeps yelling at me to leave and never come back. I ask her if she was talking about me stalking her in the store and she whispers and says no, she was talking about her boss. She goes on to tell me shes crazy and doesnt deserve to be with anyone, and wants to be alone. That shes ugly and I have lots of women. She doesn't want help and wants me to leave. Everyone that gets closet o her hurts her. Her wrds.
We basically argue for an hour and then she just cuts me otu of her life. I didn't do anything. I just leave. This came out of nowhere, and I'm still confused by it. Any DJ's opinions on whats going on would be appreciated. NEXT of course, but man what's yoru thoughts on this?
I run into her the other day and she is so happy to see me and asks me to check out her apartment later. I find it and she invites me in. We catch up and a guy comes in, it's her boss from her job. He brings her some food, apparently he's helping her out. He's also married but his wife in in Iraq. My friend falls asleep with us there and the guy goes to leave and gets real close to her like hes kissing her goodbye. After he's gone she wakes up and tells me and everyone else how creepy he is.
I was interested in dating this girl before but we never did, we still get along really well though. We hang out in town and she asks me what I'm doing the next night and I thought we had made plans. We go to her boss' house to eat and watch movies and some more people come in. She immediately starts making friends with these guys cuz she is so lonely at the moment.
We leave the apartment with the guys to eat. She starts getting depressed all of a sudden and out of nowhere she says to the dudes she has known for a few hours that she has bipolar disorder. I knew she did, I ahve known her for awhile. Butthese guys were shocked. She was obviously embarrased and went outside. I found her crying beside the car and sat down next to her.
I listen to her, she says shes suicidal, no one loves her, shes crazy, she isn't good enough for anyone. On top of that she has no money and her boss helps her but he seems to expect something in return. And she says she can't tell him no or she will lose her job and the help he gives her.
We go back to her apartment and talk some more about it all. She falls asleep and I fondle her *JUST KIDDING*. She cries her eyes out to me. the next morning I get us breakfeast, she's being nice and friendly. I ask her aobut hanging out later, she doesn't know now. She said she would call, and I told her I would stop by her store cuz I would be in town later anyway.
I get there and her eyes are teared up. She's talking about someone stalking her to one of her co-workers, I joke that shes talkin about me. She says no. It's her boss shes talkin about. But then I get the feeling she may be talking about me, cuz I see him walk into the back room and she rushes back there too.
I am concerned about her cuz she talked about committing suicide, but I didn't get a chance to see how she was doing. I hang out at a buddies house and on the way home ecide to go by her place to see if shes home. She pulls up and asks me what Im doing there, yelling at me to leave and calling me a stalker. Her boss is there too. I'm confused cuz 5 hours ago we were cool. We argue and she keeps yelling at me to leave and never come back. I ask her if she was talking about me stalking her in the store and she whispers and says no, she was talking about her boss. She goes on to tell me shes crazy and doesnt deserve to be with anyone, and wants to be alone. That shes ugly and I have lots of women. She doesn't want help and wants me to leave. Everyone that gets closet o her hurts her. Her wrds.
We basically argue for an hour and then she just cuts me otu of her life. I didn't do anything. I just leave. This came out of nowhere, and I'm still confused by it. Any DJ's opinions on whats going on would be appreciated. NEXT of course, but man what's yoru thoughts on this?
