For folks asking me how I managed all of this:
- Remote job
Not manual repetitive labour, but something that requires intelligence to make decisions. Can allow a lot of freedom.
- Pets
Invaluable proof that I am responsible, shows that I am a caring person who loves animals
- Don’t brag
It doesn’t help to brag about anything in front of high quality women, it gives them ideas of what my insecurities are
- Logistics, cleanliness and personal hygiene.
I ma my bed and my room better than a five star with all kinds of gizmos and interior decor stuff. It smells great and I have a bunch of essentials all women would like. I live alone without interference from any external flatmate or entity that could spoil my move to bring her home. Women usually enjoy meeting pets, great plausible deniability - “I want you to meet my cat, but I can’t promise she will like you”
- Money, keep finances under check, the woman shouldn’t have to fret about money, things should be effortless from the pick up place, date, sex place and the drop off. I don’t drive when I’m drinking, so I usually get a cab.
- Sex, this is often understated, but going down on a woman will give her pleasure which she’ll link with you and want it again. Do it, if you feel she’s clean, stay protected, always wrap it up.
Foreplay, should go on till she’s begging to have you inside her, but still wait a bit even after. Know the G spot, know how to finger her and eat her out. Ask her sometimes for feedback if she’s too silent, usually she’ll let you know by her body movements. Make her orgasm once atleast before you penetrate. The moment she goes like stop stop, don’t pull your fingers out, just stop, and stay, she’s probably a bit sensitive. Keep at it again, and know about all the erogenous zones, stimulate most of them together, you will figure out how. Neck, breasts, earlobes all work well with your mouth.
The sex itself, I start slow, and use the one Mississippi rule during the first few hundred strokes, playing around, she’ll probably orgasm by then. Rough her up till she’s moaning hard. Benzocaine for round one helps last longer, don’t if you’re drinking. Following rounds I get way more rougher. Learn to orgasm multiple times as a man, it’ll shock women. It’s supposedly one of my superpowers that I can keep having sex even after I orgasm.
- Chivalry
As much you’d like to be a bad boy, chivalry after sex is more important than before, especially because you don’t want to anymore. Most guys are bored after they’re done and that makes the women have buyer’s remorse. Be nice playful and good to women after having sex with them too. Let them know you care, ask them if they reached safe.