inquisitor
Senior Don Juan
1. She has no direction nor dreams in life, no matter how flexible or absurd. She doesn't have anything of my interest going on for herself. She doesn't dream big.
2. She doesn't challenge my presumptions and biases in and about life.
3. She doesn't listen to me, nor care about my important insight. She can't humble herself, and only cares about what she knows.
4. She has nothing to offer - be it intellectual, physical, emotional, social - anything that supports us both.
5. She doesn't devote time and effort for our futures.
6. She doesn't devote time and effort for her family nor for herself.
7. She doesn't encourage and initiate much more than I expect. She doesn't have any fun surprises, nor does she invite me to her own adventures. She doesn't find new ways to spice up our connection.
8. She continues to create impulsive decisions without any forethought nor caution. She chooses to be reckless without any reasoning. She has unresolved childhood issues that she hasn't continually addressed.
9. She doesn't find value in spirituality, nor in any other worthwhile field outside of what she knows.
10. She doesn't want to learn anymore. She only stays put, afraid to offend me nor correct me if I'm wrong. She'd rather remain within the confines of her own self-imposed limitations. She's too insecure to be a better version of herself.
I don't find any issues with education as long as she's willing to engage in fruitful conversations with me.
In my mind, there's also a list compatible with this one that dictates how a man should be, to arrive at these conclusions.
2. She doesn't challenge my presumptions and biases in and about life.
3. She doesn't listen to me, nor care about my important insight. She can't humble herself, and only cares about what she knows.
4. She has nothing to offer - be it intellectual, physical, emotional, social - anything that supports us both.
5. She doesn't devote time and effort for our futures.
6. She doesn't devote time and effort for her family nor for herself.
7. She doesn't encourage and initiate much more than I expect. She doesn't have any fun surprises, nor does she invite me to her own adventures. She doesn't find new ways to spice up our connection.
8. She continues to create impulsive decisions without any forethought nor caution. She chooses to be reckless without any reasoning. She has unresolved childhood issues that she hasn't continually addressed.
9. She doesn't find value in spirituality, nor in any other worthwhile field outside of what she knows.
10. She doesn't want to learn anymore. She only stays put, afraid to offend me nor correct me if I'm wrong. She'd rather remain within the confines of her own self-imposed limitations. She's too insecure to be a better version of herself.
I don't find any issues with education as long as she's willing to engage in fruitful conversations with me.
In my mind, there's also a list compatible with this one that dictates how a man should be, to arrive at these conclusions.