Originally posted by MUSCLEMONSTER
It is my theory to build up the girl's interest level in you by making it clear that you just want to be friends with her. It drops all the guards down. You have no reason to try gauge her interest level because you actually do want to be her friend. Just picture your friendship with your best guy buddy. Do you give a damn what he thinks of your personality or your looks? Of course not. He is your best buddy. You can say whatever you want to him and not give a damn. You know each other too well. Becoming great friends with a chick is a major advantage not a disadvantage as some on this board think. The trick is make sure she knows you want to keep it at friends and that you are really interested in everything she has to say (Very hard to do sometimes). Don't make any moves period. And if you do stop and say we should just be friends really. Recently, I have even gone as far as to use the "friends" line (very playfully) while banging the chicks. They will bang even harder! Its hilarious to see the response in bed.
It takes a ton of discipline but if you master it every chick, no matter how hot she is, will make the move on you.
whatever it takes for the pressure to be on her or elsewhere.
i have gotten great results by just not caring about gettin any a$$ and just looking to have a great time and meet fun people.
though your approach may work it is not b/c it is such a great idea or that there is much logic behind it. all it would be is that the girl is attracted to you or finds your personality to be great.
if you tell a girl an hour or so after you meet her that you just want to be friends thats bein way too upfront.
i see where you would think that she would seem to want you more but in cases like that the want usually builds up over time about not being able to get what she wants.
We met yesterday. I did the LJBF thing on her. She lit up like a freakin Christmas tree!!! I spent the rest of the conversation just listening to this hot babe tell me just about everything about her entire life Funny how any chick will warm up to you if you show absolutely no desire for her. We are meeting again in a couple of weeks when I am back from a business trip. Man I am so proud of myself. It takes so much discipline not to hit on the scorching hot chicks.
we will see how this works out...
you tell her "LJBF" and then do you keep the kino goin and send opposite signals?
if so woman are generally better readers of charecter and they may be seeing through your mixed signals.
regardless you are lying to woman to get them into bed and the worst part is, it seems really BORING. you sit there and listen to them talk for hours?
that isnt worth gettin laid for...which would be in the future...if your scheme works
