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Thanks for all the responses and tough love. I've conceded defeat with this one. Unfortunately I've realised all of my mistakes when it was too late. I also think she wasn't highly interested in me. I've read on this site a number of times where people have said if she met Zac Enron, Ryan...

Yeah I get this, but if you’ve got someone on social media that’s written you a message and you ignore it whilst posting sh1t on your social media and continue being active on it, totally ignoring the message, in my eyes it’s a bit rude.

Yeah and whilst this may be true, I've also learnt through my time in dating for so many years is that when someone says they aren't ready for a relationship it usually means WITH YOU....so we can't be totally sure if she really wasn't ready for a relationship and was just playing game and...

Yeah man and this is where I went wrong. I now realise all of my mistakes but it's too late. She played me well and won. I don't know if she was really interested in me or I was just one of her plates. Either way these things she was doing spelt out low interest. Should of just ended things...

I can accept that I got too invested in her and this probably isn't salvageable. I just don't know whether I believe her whole spiel about not being ready for a relationship is the truth when at times I felt like some of her comments and actions suggested otherwise.....I should of just bowed out...

Hey all, so I’m now officially on day 1 of NC with this chick I’ve been seeing for the past 2-3months who has given me nothing but headaches. You can refer back to my previous thread for more info but basically we had about 5 dates in total which all went really well, lots of chemistry...

What I don’t get though is she’s the one usually always initiating contact with me and wanting to set up dates. I barely ever initiate contact with her. In person she’s all over me and then in between dates she’s contacting me and flirting. It’s just the fact that I don’t get to see her every...

So do I just pull back and let her come to me if she likes me or do I continue keeping low contact with her?

Ok so just in case you don’t know about my situation from my last post, I’ll briefly sum it up....I’ve been seeing this chick for nearly a couple of months. Have been on 4 dates in that time. We get on really well, lots of chemistry, and we slept together the other night which was amazing and we...

Well usually she doesn’t really reply if I continue with it or she’ll make comments saying that she’s not ready for that stuff yet but will make it happen when she’s feeling more comfortable

I do try an sexualise conversations and she shuts me down by either not replying or calling me cheeky lol...

We’re both 31....to be honest I’m starting to get bored of the whole thing with her, I mean we do have a good time when we are out but the whole lack of flirting and physical intimacy is really making me question whether I want to continue with her. I feel rude to to ghost lol because I know...

Well after the last date when she messaged me when she got home she said she can be reserved with new guys until she’s comfortable and that she does like me and want to see me again. I did try and escalate throughout the date and the furthest I got was hand holding and a hug.... As I said I’m...

funny because after our last date I have been withdrawing my attention and delaying replies to her texts and she must panic when I do that because she’ll always double text me to make sure I’m not pissed at her...she’s the one who always texts me first. I do want to go on another date with her...

Hey guys, have an interesting situation with a girl that I can’t read who I met off tinder. So we’ve already been on 2 dates which have gone really well, lots of laughing and vibing, lots in common, nothing sexual yet but both have communicated mutual attraction for one another. The problem? We...

Well she's gone and deleted me everywhere and hasn't been I'm contact since we had that fight on Tuesday. I've also been in NC as well though. Will be interesting to see if she ever comes back

Thanks I needed this!!! It's a shame because underneath all those traits she does have a sweet and genuine side and the funny thing is she has a good job and is very smart, can you believe it? Lol....but yeah the weekend benders and party lifestyle are totally not my scene not in my 30s.

I did tell her when i got back that I thought we were a bad match and that's when she said she wasn't ready for a relationship and just wanted to be friends but yet she still kept initiating contact with me but was very cold. She also did admit that she's had a wild sex life in the past which...

I just don’t know why I’m having a hard time moving on from her ugh

Yeah I should of listened to my gut when I first started talking to her and now I am paying the price as I caught feels and now have to get rid of them. I am a bit down about it because despite all the issues she was very attractive and did have good qualities about her but we just come from two...