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    Need some tough love!

    Hi All, So I've just recently ended a situationship that has really cut me up. I was talking to a girl who lived in another city, she was 30 and I'm 31.We met on a dating app when she was in my city but was leaving on the day we started talking so I didn't get the chance to meet her. I was...
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    Anyone else completely over it?!

    Yeah your right I got too invested too quickly and got caught up with all her charm and beauty, she was very attractive for 42 with 2 kids. I acknowledge I made mistakes and shouldn't have got attached to early but it's still stings when you see all your friends and relatives your age who are...
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    Anyone else completely over it?!

    QUOTE="EyeBRollin, post: 2714462, member: 131023"] That’s not a fact. Women settle for the right man (“right” means 95% interest level). Your job is to make her fall in love with you, then keep it here. That means take her out on dates, make her laugh, and have sex with her. Rinse and repeat...
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    Anyone else completely over it?!

    Girls that age are never ready to settle down, they still want to party and slut around... Haven't come across one that has showed me anything in different. Girls my age aren't any better.
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    Anyone else completely over it?!

    Because consistently having meaningless sex with chicks gets old after a while, it would be nice to meet someone to create something a bit more substantial... I have read articles and bibles on this site and I agree with a lot of it to an extent but as much as I love banging them for Free, it...
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    Anyone else completely over it?!

    Turning 32 in a couple of months and it’s starting to kick in that my chances of ever finding “the one” are diminishing bit by bit. I have done so much work on myself these last couple of years after my big break up to get to a place where I’m ready to truly date. I’ve lost a heap of weight...
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    Nasty break up! please help im a mess

    Thank you for all the replies! It’s interesting with the BPD. I didn’t find her to be this evil b1tch. I just found her hard to keep happy. Nothing I ever did was enough. I don’t know whether it was an act but I did find her very supporting and caring for the most part and she did a lot for me...
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    Nasty break up! please help im a mess

    I have been working on my personal issues eg getting a job, seeing a therapist etc Before she came along I was doing perfectly well and in such a good place in life. I worked really hard to get there too. She chased me and wanted me bad! Now I’m back at rock bottom, depressed and destroyed. We...
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    Nasty break up! please help im a mess

    Hey all, So i was dating a girl for the past 6 months, who i fell in love with and really thought she was the one. She is diagnosed with BPD so she did have her issues but for the most bit, everything was great between us, things were intense from the minute we started dating, we had so many...
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    relationship dilemma, what to do?

    That’s the thing she has been clinically diagnosed with BPD though... It’s hard she does make me a better person in a lot of ways and she has helped me grow as a person even though we haven’t been together that long. For the most part she has been a positive influence on my life and has done a...
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    relationship dilemma, what to do?

    30 year old guy here whose been dating this chick for 6 months now. We get on great, always have great fun together and in love with one another. However this chick has BPD and although we get on really well, we have our differences. Shes a great chick, but i am finding her high maintenance and...
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    No motivation from dating anymore?

    Thanks for all the replies! I've had a read of all of them and have taken some of your ideas and thoughts on board. Let me just clear a few things up that I believe though. Firstly for me, I feel like I don't have the drive to even put myself out there anymore in direct hopes of attracting a...
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    No motivation from dating anymore?

    Yeah its like i just cant be bothered to date anymore or seek out relationships. They honestly just don't seem worth it. I also seem to do better in life when I'm single and doing my own thing. I don't want to have to adjust my lifestyle to impress a girl either.
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    No motivation from dating anymore?

    Im 29, have never really had much success in the dating world. Have had a couple of short term relationships which never went anywhere, despite me doing my best to make them work. I've had slept with a few girls which was great but eventually that comes to an end as well. I have done all the...
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    Cant read this girl...need some advice!!

    She has told me she was in a physically abusive relationship before me and doesnt want to rush in to anything....Whenever i try and steer the conversation towards sex she will cut it off by saying shes not ready to go there with me yet and if i get frustrated it will turn into a huge argument...
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    Cant read this girl...need some advice!!

    Hello all, So for the last 3 months ive been seeing this girl whose 12 years older than me, shes 41 and im 29. She's a single mom with 2 kids in early 20s who have moved out of home. She's very physically attractive for her age and we seem to have a lot in common and have an amazing connection...
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    Crush on lecturer

    Well the problem is she is a very friendly person and gets on well with the other students but me and her seem to be closer because we talk more and built up a better connection. I don't know what the policy is for the whole dating students thing, but as I said I'll be done in a few months...
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    Crush on lecturer

    Hey all, Its been a while since i have been on here and i have this interesting situation that i would like your opinion on and some advice. Im currently enrolled in a community college to study a short term course (will be finished in a few months) and i have recently developed a big crush on...
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    Not getting tinder matches

    I'm blown away....I'm not an ugly guy, every time I go out I always get told by women how handsome I am and even men make comments that I'm good looking guy. It's the same on social networks, always have girls liking and commenting on my photos and they are the same photos I'm using on tinder...
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    Why Do Exes Feel The Need to Reach Out to You After...

    Because when you are still so inlove with them and know YOUR the one for them, its the right thing to do. She might genuinely be sorry for the break up and saw the error in her ways? Everyone makes mistakes
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