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I'll still snag a date with the occasional 28 or 32 year old but much, much less often. You know what I think changed? The introduction of "hard" match-filters on Tinder, Bumble, etc. I definitely did better (and younger!) on the previous generation of OLD sites where anyone could message...

Oh you're gonna love this. She's been dating unsuccessfully and blaming it on "men being jerks". Standard stuff, or so I thought. I ran pretty tight game on her and didn't put a foot wrong (she even said as much) so now she's got no excuses to fall back on. But she can't take the plunge, she's...

For the last eight years or so I've been "dating" with the full understanding that most women are a gigantic pain in the ass and not worth your effort - I just treated it as a matter of fact truth about the world and went about my business. But, I also thought I was clever enough to filter out...

So lately I've been using YouTube recommendations instead of Pandora for background entertainment - YMH, JRE, Gavin McInnes, Aaron Clarey, Entrepreneurs in Cars, Red Man Group - that kind of thing. This post is about the last two channels, specifically one idea they keep pushing, which I'm going...

Well, for what it's worth, I'm pretty sure that location and logistics have had a much bigger impact on my success with women than my net worth or body fat percentage. Could be some overall decline in the market, but with so many confounding variables you can never really know.

Kind of goes against what I was just advocating, but sure, it could be my one charitable act this Christmas, lol. We'll take it to PM. Let me know what apps/sites you plan on using.

Dave, the thing about effective OLD profiles is you can't fake them or borrow someone else's schtick. Your profile has to be congruent with your online communication and who you are in the real world. That said there's some general principles that do work - you just have to "Dave them up"...

Lol, you're getting harder to dislike Richard. Keep it up!

Reminds me of this from South Park: Stan: But Chef, when is the right age for us to start having sex? Chef: It's very simple, children. The right time to start having sex is... 17. Kyle: Seventeen? Chef: Seventeen. Sheila: So you mean 17 as long as you're in love? Chef: Nope, just 17. Gerald...

Right? And I didn't even feel a pang of "Be a nice guy, give her a shot, maybe it will work out". Just a detached "Nope, this isn't in my long-term self-interest, I'm out".

"Are you going to keep stalking me without saying hello? :D" That ain't half bad actually. If she's checking you on the reg you could add that to your profile instead of texting.

That is a little curious to be honest. Possible she thought she had a better option and it fell through/isn't working out how she thought it would. Nonetheless, let her reach out first. Solid response to the soft rejection by the way - may have scored yourself some points there.

Just thinking out of the box here - could you invite a girl to an open inspection to pose as a couple with you? Keep it very tongue in cheek of course.

Asking the right questions Richard. Got an option you're working on? Good for you mate. FWIW, when I'm transitioning to my place from another venue, I tend to use stand-up comedy "bits" on YouTube as an excuse. Food, booze, music, movies. All good, all female friendly (yeah, I know it's basic...

Dude, right? Underwhelming sex with a heightened risk of "regret-rape" if you decide to nope on out afterwards? No thanks. I have no issue with a three-date timeline - it's for my benefit as much as hers.

Solid stuff RM, resonates with what I'm seeing and experiencing.

Was wrestling with this recently as well. Recent date from OkCupid was much less attractive in person (surprise, surprise, surprise). I was disappointed but brought my A-game anyway and managed to have a pretty good time - spent most of our time mocking PC culture. Ended up back at mine and...

Lol. One of them just crumbled, and sent me a very humble message asking when we'd be be catching up. That's more like it!

Let's talk about walking away in 2017. Should you walk away if a girl isn't matching your effort? Hell yes! Now, if this was 2007, there's a good chance said girl would correct her behaviour immediately and come crawling back to the big Z like a bird on its belly (any Futurama fans in the...

Been in the US almost a year now. Practically zero culture shock coming from Australia - it's basically plug and play. Figured it was about time a foreigner told you everything that's wrong with your country, bahaha. Kidding, I hate the douchebags who do that. Anyway. If there's one quality...