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Thoughtful posts fellas. Cheers. Uber, you been reading my diary? Lol. Actually, apart from the bit about kids, that's pretty much the plan. Once this gig is up, I'll be moving back to my favourite city - maybe for good. It's all there - friends, family, dateable women, work in my field -...

Feel ya. I find myself asking - are things really that different, or is it me that's changed? Is today's "awful dating market" really just an artefact of me being less willing to endure what I did in the past? Maybe it's a moot question - does it change the way I should act? What should I do...

Entering post red-pill era?

Lol, I'm sure it won't be the last one while I'm still on contract. Quick vent among friends, and then back to business.

I'm twice the man I was ten years ago, and it hasn't made sex and dating any easier. We're not promised anything in this world, but this, this really frustrates me at times. And it's largely self-inflicted because I've been chasing dollars and taking crappy locations knowing that my dating...

I hate to be bleak, but... The things you think are going to change your life, won't. The six-pack. Six figures in the bank. Mastering new hobbies. You think you're going to break through, that there's some sort of paradigm shift on the other side of your goals. But there isn't.

> Ugghh. Be the OP. > Get five new "pay up sucka!" messages every day. > Start to despair at thot's lack of imagination. > Write brilliantly ironic new profile: Cue "Goodbye Horses". Would you date me? I'd date me. I'd date me hard. I'd date me so hard. > Not a peep - subtle satire is...

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Context is important here (and I doubt anyone is suggesting otherwise). Where I'm from, "suiting up" indiscriminately is going to work against you. For one thing, a suit only looks right in a handful of circumstances. For maximum social cachet, you want to be the best dressed guy in the room by...

I hate to say it but...

No grand ambitions. City apartment with great location and great views (probably in my home town). I may even rent, because at that point, impressing people with my "homeowner" status seems a bit redundant? The more I think about it, I probably wouldn't buy another car either. I'd walk around...

I always found the "matchmaking" aspects of OLD absurd - how dumb do you have to be to rely on an algorithm to tell you whether you get along with someone? The worst sites are the ones that only allow you to contact the people they recommend to you. E-harmony was the f*cking worst for that...

Wrap it up, we're done here! Very well put.

Best case scenario if a girl jerks you around but has the best of intentions and asks to reschedule: her life is a hot mess - kids, family, work, whatever - you really want a piece of that? Actually, best case scenario is getting laid, but you get my point!

Desktop android emulator if you're chillin on the laptop at home. Good for sharpening game if the local options have run dry.

Common interests are overrated. I like me a lady who hates the same things that I hate. Not even joking! That kind of schtick can establish a connection very quickly.

Yeah, now this interests me to no end. The idea of using Blue Pill tropes with a Red Pill mindset.

Absolutely. Congruency is king. It's why I'm laboring over the theory - I want the guys here to understand why it worked rather than copying the quote into their own profiles.

Yup & yup. Gonna use that as a jumping off point: I think it works so well because it's just the right amount of of qualification. The standards aren't extreme enough to make me look like a delusional douchebag who's out of touch with his own SMV (I'm looking at you basic b*tches). But they're...