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    BS&I Improvement Log

    Friday report Friday report as promised. Past few days have been good. I've been kinda just going with the flow, and just doing what I felt like at any particular point. Haven't been working too hard but I've been doing something. Have been enjoying learning in my courses. I think the...
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    BS&I Improvement Log

    So... I posted earlier today. At that point, I had gotten a little fed up, so I posted here as a call to arms. Then I manned up and crammed a bit for my test tomorrow... then my sleep deprivation and negativity caught up to me, and I probably wasted something like 7 hours... I need to start...
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    BS&I Improvement Log

    Terrible couple of days. I have had no will to do any work. Difficult to describe... it could be a strange depression. An unenviable feeling of helplessness. Neglected my work... already screwed up some things for the week beyond recovery. For the other ones, I now have a mountain to climb...
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    Woman's Insulting Condescension!

    This. But also, the fact that you are insulted by it means you have some sort of insecurity regarding your stature or hers. Also, I would guess that the fact that she was interviewing you made you feel inferior, though I can't know this. My advice would be to examine whether you need...
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    So two things happened to me over the past week...

    Maybe you're hanging out with too many low caliber girls. I would say not to waste your time with crazies.
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    I feel digusted

    Don't let people convince you that every man should feel an urge to beat his chest and grunt loudly after doing what you did. You are yourself, not some archetypal male. Ask yourself whether such actions are in line with your values or not. Also, there may be cultural implications that are...
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    What would you say some tips are for not becoming too predictable?

    On second thought, watch a lot of talk show hosts. Their whole job is to get talking happening. Listening is a great tool, as everyone agrees. I think listening is really easy though... 1. Be interested in them. 2. Ask questions to find out more about them / what they're talking about.
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    What would you say some tips are for not becoming too predictable?

    Listening is good. I find that exciting conversation is sort of cyclical, though. When she has something interesting (or interesting to her) to say, definitely listen, and get involved in it. Often though, it's exciting for the conversation to be driven by you. A lot of alpha males + me...
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    How do you Handle this?

    Personally, I wouldn't feel comfortable joining in like Cinnamon suggested. The only time I would join is if they were totally non threatening. If there were two of them and they had attitude, I think most people would end up seeming weak if they joined in. I would have walked off. If someone...
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    Girl suddenly starts asking about my friend.

    haha, what's done is done, and I think you handled it well. Personally, I wouldn't have given her his number. She would have gotten it anyway, but getting it from someone other than you is a little more dignified (for you) IMHO. regardless, good job!
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    sosuave got me from point A to point B... lost finding my way to point C

    the following is something I have noticed that may or may not apply to you. I challenge you to consider its implications on your life: in relationships with girls it is accepted that you are either climbing up the "attraction" ladder or the "friend-zone ladder" as you spend more time with her...
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    BS&I Improvement Log

    I think a good start will be the following. Post every day during the weekend. As soon as I get home on Friday. Then, Saturday night, and then Sunday night. After a long week of work I just go home and forget about school. I can't afford this because I have missed roughly 1/3rd of the...
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    BS&I Improvement Log

    Sup guys. Some background: Visited this site 4 or 5 years ago. Actually used some of the tips here on my first girlfriend. Since then, we've been in a relationship together, which if everything goes according to plan has just ended. Ironically, I found that some of the philosophy in Don...
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