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    Reminder: don't over-analyze...it can drive you insane

    Dude, nicely done and perfectly executed, I've been over analyzing for a few weeks with this chick I've been seeing. It no doubt will drive you insane. A) It's not always about you. B) You can only control 1 mindset........your's.
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    Can one recover from AFC?

    Romangod, yeah looks like I'm gonna have to go with a complete disconnect. Which will be tough because I will bump into her a couple times a week. Damn the frickin sign was there from the begining, the days she comes in to our office she wears very revealing...
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    Can one recover from AFC?

    Hey romangod, I thought I could save her, now I know I can't. And I can't be to sure that I'm not just another plate that is throwing money at her, thinking that it'll get me somewhere with her. That's not what I was doing at the begining, I just truley wanted to help. Getting no...
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    Can one recover from AFC?

    DonS,whoa, just as I was comming to the reality of things, and reviewing jettison options(by phone/face to face), you drop this bomb. I am real, to real, honest to a fault, knight in shinning armor, .......................I am a hardcore Beta AFC. Last night it was tough to get to sleep...
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    Can one recover from AFC?

    jophil28, you can read me like a book. So that would mean this chick probably had me pegged after our first lengthy phone call, heh? If she smiles at me I'm happy. If she calls me I think she cares. Reactive. Is it to late/impossible to try a no comm for as long as possible in order...
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    Can one recover from AFC?

    Danger, you are absolutely correct as has been romangod.......well everyone that has replied, I thought I was ready for this after such a long layoff. Three weeks ago I was relaxed, funny, confident and ready to take on the world. I know for a fact there's gobs of attraction between us...
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    Can one recover from AFC?

    This. One of 2 things should happen. She'll prod me on why I did'nt call or pick up. A good sign. She wont. A sign that will move me a bit closer to NEXT. Picstr
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    Can one recover from AFC?

    OK but from what I've learned in the past 12 hours would'nt this be considered a bit on the touchy/feely/needy side? Trust me when I say I've done far to much of that already. Thanks man. Picstr
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    Can one recover from AFC?

    Damn you guys are good. The context I'm about to give will cause replies of NEXT! This chick has tons of baggage, more than one could imagine. She lives an an hour and a half away but works in Orlando 3 to 4 times aweek. I've been on vacation this week and made the mistake of drinking to...
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    Can one recover from AFC?

    Went out last night and talked with buddies, decided no phone calls till tuesday and she's got to make the call. One problem here is I'm not real sure what I'll say when she may ask why I have'nt picked up the phone, I'm not a real good liar but am willing to learn, I just don't know what I'd...
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    Can one recover from AFC?

    Really? So could someone break this down for me a bit? I've been out of it for a very long time and I'm not happy with my "game". Once AFC always AFC? I mean we've talked everyday for the past 3 weeks and went out twice and I'm already screwed? Damn. Picstr
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    Can one recover from AFC?

    Hey Gentlemen, Just recently back in the game and minutes after finding this site I found I'm a hardcore AFC. I just tried to explain my current situation in a previous post but found it would be easier to just write a book. Short and sweet, I'm 45 and met a chick that I unfortunately...
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