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good answers. what if she doesnt play the "are you mad" card and she just strikes up regular convo? thats when i kinda get stumped. and i appreciate the responses. i DO keep myself busy with other people and other things i enjoy doing, im just not "there" quite yet when it comes to some of my...

what is your attitude to them when they contact you?

I'm confused. I thought ur supposed to NC them

Hey guys, Im not a full blown DJ but I do ok as far as keeping myself happy. Ive come across some situations where I NC'd someone for a while and they persist and when they DO get a hold of me or see me out and ask me what the problem is (its usually due to flaking) I tend to give weird...

Yea.. likes the attention. THATS what she misses. Who cares if she says she misses you? What does that do for YOU? Besides make you think about her? Actions over words, my friend.. Remember, dont make someone a priority in YOUR life, when you're just an option in THEIRS. You'll be ok, man. Just...

how long before you DO answer her call/text???

Lol no Maury show for me. Anyway, I haven't contacted her in 2 days. There was an after work party Friday that she texted me and said she wouldn't be able to make it. I was like OK, cool. I didn't try to convince her to come. I had a great time anyway haha!

UPDATE: Hey guys I figured id give some periodical updates and let you know what's going on. In the evening time yesterday she started to text me, just small talk but acting cool like her normal self. So I did what I normally do, never brought up her babys daddy, just flowin and being funny...

I know she's goin to be calling. Probably soon. How would you guys handle that? act like normal? What would ya'll say if she does small talk? keep it short and sweet with no negativity? thats usually how i do it.. just wanted opinions. in other words, how do YOU guys act when a girls has a bf...

I think you're right, man. I give her a few weeks, hell maybe even a few days, haha!

I thinks she's pretty surprised at my indifference now. She's pretty quiet

Nice! I passd the test. So what results can I expect now?

Umm thanks! Now real quick, what's a **** test?! Lol! OH and what type of results should I typically expect??????? Thanks man

I asked her what part did you think id be negative about? she said everything

So this girl Ive been fukn around with tells me that her and her baby daddy are thinkin of getting back together again (for the sake of the daughter, she ADORES her daughter) She tells me and Im kinda nonchalant about it. She texts me back and says i thought you would be more negative (as if i...

So simple yet so complex and most still can't figure it out. Good advice. Actions, not words

Thanks pimp. what if she calls back the next day and asks to do something then? she's done that before.. maybe she really did have something goin on? how does that change things? thanks for the response man

I just read that too. good ****! :yes:

"Ended up being an interesting night", haha! I like that. Good stuff

good info.. i wont let them see me pissed. so how would you answer if she asks if youre mad, just pretend nothing happened? Doesnt that give them the mindset that its ok to do it again? thanks again homeys!