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Don't try and stop a girl if she wants a break, it means her interest level has been going down long before she actually announced the news to you and it's probably worse than you thought. The best hope of getting her back is just to ghost her and go and get on with your life. Don't be moody...

Ok thanks buddy. My qualification and end game, as in making them feel special and then dealing with resistance isn't the best, but my plan is to keep being attractive, wait until she goes all gooey eyed, tell her why I like her specifically so she knows it's not just about her looks. And then...

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Corrector she's 21 next month, and extremely attractive, basically at the start of her sexual peak, you'd be begging for it. Why are you wasting your energy giving your negative advice on a pick up forum. You are judging a man for being attracted to a hot 20 year old, do you understand...

I’m over 40, she’s 20. I’ve known her mum for over a decade and now her daughter has turned out very hot and initially very infatuated with me, which piqued my interest with possibility. Although I am very hesitant to bridge the gap between the fantasy love scenario in my mind and the tricky...

I wish my ex was that nice :]

It's good to know other people think she was nuts and not just me I can tell ya! Some of my mates we like 'she's just young and immature'. My only solace was the internet. Bigneil, I don't have feelings for her at all, there is no 'her' inside to have feeling for. But she does invoke a...

Wassup, It’s been over a year now since I broke up with the ex and things are ok on the whole. But it took some time before I started feeling ok again. At first I cried every day, I couldn’t sleep at night, I’d just lie in bed writhing about in some kind of weird emotional pain, and I’d wake...

Some people have been saying BPD is a tiny tiny fraction of the population therefore chance of an encounter is slim. I don't subscribe to this point of view, heres why. Some of you might just learn something valuable from this so read on... Borderlines, Narcissists, Sociopaths, all come under...

I'm really confused because i'm constantly reflecting on everything that happened to try and understand and learn from the experience. I keep mentally flip flopping about what the reality of it all is but right now i'm seeing the whole thing failing as my fault. I’m f'king wounded here...

So what happened in the end then man, did you move on and forget her or is she still in ye life?

... continued a few times she went on really depressing rants on the phone about us and the relationship, she made it all sound so tragic. when i brought it up the next day to try and resolve it would claim she was tired that night and couldnt even remember what she said. if i told her i...

Yeah , it's a really weird experience... like I intuitivley 'know' she is bad news and not a good person, yet there is still a part of me that thinks I didn't treat her right and she decided to 'get me back' for being too playerish early on. anyway this is the long version for anyone who...

if anyone wants to read the longer version ill post it otherwise i might seem to spammy!

Ok sorry for the ridiculous length of this but im just gonna get it off my chest for my own therapy more than anything else. i'll put a summary at the top though. this is how it went... Met her at a club, I was in mega state, I pulled her over and she just clung to me and was totally fixated...

Hey, been on here recently reading about relationships & BPD's to try make sense of what just happened to me. I think it's a great forum for relationship issues as opposed to just picking up girls so it seems a good place to look for answers from you guys who are experienced in these matters...

Hey, been on here recently reading about relationships & BPD's to try make sense of what just happened to me. I think it's a great forum for relationship issues as opposed to just picking up girls so it seems a good place to look for answers from you guys who are experienced in these matters...

Metro3pilot - No I never got with her, i'm not that much of a player to be honest, but I am developing a really good understanding about women in general, and am aspiring to become better at getting the kind of women I want. For the record, I now ignore her when i'm at the supermarket where she...

I don't get lonely, my split personalities keep me company.

Ok i'm getting a strong feeling here, that in the past, quite a lot of you guys have had your hearts 'home runned' out of the stadium of love by this sort of woman. Well, me too. I thought i'd found my 'soul mate' and all that. Turns out that while she probably really did like me, she has...