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Just read through the last page and a half of your journal (took a while lol). I think you're doing really good, you seem to be very smooth and confident, and appear to have almost no difficulty in approaching (something i struggle with). Your main problem here seems to be with getting past...

Ya, I'm definitely going to go for it, I just wanted to get some tips and encouragement from you guys. I'll just be really straight up about it i guess. Any more tips are appreciated! I'll report back once the deed is done (probably this weekend). Oh, one more thing, what happens if the...

Ya, watching a lot of comedy will probably help (it can't hurt). As for the antidepressants, I would do what your Doctor thinks is best, that kind of advice is difficult to give on an internet forum. Generally speaking though, I would say to avoid them unless necessary as prescribed by your doctor.

Ya, I know. Ideally I would've gone for it right away, but I'm very new to this whole scene. I'll have to make do with the situation now i guess. Any tips?

Hey, thanks, I just read that thread you made. So you just walked in there and asked for it pretty much? How much time did you spend with this girl in total though? Like 10 mins in total? A big problem for me, is that I haven't had much time with this girl at all, maybe like 2-3 mins in total...

So one day I was at this gas station near my house filling up, I go in to pay and realize the cashier is around my age and is pretty hot. I say to her "So how did you get stuck working a saturday night?" She explains that she's the new girl, asks me if i'm going to a party or something (it was...

Agreed, great comeback, nicely done. I'd go on a few dates and see how it goes, but don't get too attached and be prepared to move on quickly.

Live music would be nice, except the town we live in is a little, shall we say, BORING. I'm trying to figure out what we could do where we'd have a chance to talk, but also at the same time, a chance to do something in order to fill the silences if needed. Something fun would be good too.

Haha, ya i guess it kind of is like a chick flick. We are in the same city. Weird thing is, just a couple minutes after i posted this she sent me a message with her number, I'm going to call her later this week. Anyone got ideas for the first meeting? Any tips/pointers?

Ok, this isn't the usual friend question i don't think. So a long time ago (like when I was 5 or 6) this girl lived across the street from me and we used to always play together/carpool to school, the whole shebang, I think she had a crush on me too. Well she moved when i was 7 or something and...

1 month between the first and the second date seems like an awful lot to me, that could've been a problem as well.

"I'm an awesome friend to have" Dude, that sounds like dangerous friend zone territory. I would try and make your real interests/intentions known asap or you could be in trouble.

Ya, my confidence probably isn't the best, but I'm working on it! I think I just won't say anything, but if she mentions it again, I'll make like she was stalking me or something.

So there's this girl i like, we have a bunch of classes together. I'm sitting with her one day, and her and her friend seem to be making plans to go somewhere, I've got somewhere to be, so I say good bye and go for a quick lunch. I end up running into her in the cafeteria and she jokingly...

I'm bumping this again, come on guys! i'm going to see her tommorow and need some opinions.

Anyone else have any thoughts on this?

I don't want to be too blatant about the boyfriend issue, I don't think she knows that I think she has a boyfriend. I think I'll ask questions that will get her to bring it up. "What do you do for fun?" "what do you do on the weekends?" stuff like that where she might reply "Me and my...

Also, one more thing, if she and this loser boyfriend are sort of on the rocks, what should I do? I'd like to be with her, but I'm unsure what to do now, proceed as usual?

So there's this girl at school (college) that i'm pretty interested in. We've talked a little bit, done some studying together, joked around, etc. Yesterday, I decide I'm going to move in a little closer. She's in one of my lectures so I "accidentally" see her there and she and her friend invite...