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WHAT IF THE GIRL IS 25 and the guy is 18? I always have 18 and 19 year olds hitting on me, and I'm not sure what to do about it, lol.

She is high maintenance, lol. Also, she doesn't want to waste her time on some guy who isn't serious. Persistance rates big with her. If he calls once, but doesn't call back, she assumes that further down the line he will be less likely to pursue, and she just doesn't let it get that far...

That was MY opinion on what I would do, goodness u seem so confused.

I'm sorry, but asking when a woman typically calls you back IS a dumb question. WHICH ONE? I will call right back, my girl will wait 2 days to call back during the getting to know you stage. Another friend of mine NEVER calls back the first 3 or 4 times a guy calls.

If a man is to stingy to buy a gal a drink, then I am just not interested at all.

It sounds like she likes you, but if she isn't calling you it is either because she is just an attention freak, or she is too shy in real life. I don't know werid situation!

No woman is the same. You are asking a dumb question to begin with. It shouldn't be a question about the woman, but the situation. Just call once more, and don't think too much about it.

what if the girl is 25 and the guy is 18?

this is the best advice. from both sides of the coin, this is golden here. lol.

So what happens if you really start to like her?

I have to agree. Maybe it she is playing games now because she thinks she moved too fast, and doesn't want to lose your IL. Or maybe she isn't playing games, and thinks she moved too fast, so she is distancing herself. It is messed up that she basically stood you up, but just act like...

If I was that girl, I would think that you weren't really interested, and that you didn't take me seriously because I was too young. So out of "fear of rejection", I wouldn't pursue. You aren't as courageous, without that "liquid courage", eh!? LOL!

Aren't you worried that she is too much woman for you? I mean, she's got like a decade on you. I do know of some good LTRs involving older women and younger men, I am just curious on your mindframe here.

Or the ones with balls are complete losers who have nothing to lose. I DO get approached by men I am interested in, but I also let alot of good ones go, because they are too shy to approach me. And if they appoach me, well then. I am a masculine hor, right?!

She sounds like a really insecure girl. That is the overall impression I get, and I disagree about you being in control. She obviously is. You need to take some time to get your perspective right about this girl. I think she isn't the one for you, and that it will get ugly and end ugly...

This is completely TRUE. I HAVE to play games with men, because they ARE just as fickle as women. It's crazy. Don't tell anyone I told you that, most women like men to think they are the ones doing everything, a woman's best game is making men THINK they thought of it.

The female perspective: This is true, just check out this guys response in another thread: ( http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=125752 ) I personally think that some of the best relationships I've seen started with the woman approaching, but for myself, if I really like a...

I have to agree. You post something new like after MONTHS. If you were really friends, you'd see her more than once every few months. This is a back burner relationship, nothing close to friendship. But if you are having fun, whatever! I wouldn't worry too much about "hurting" her, as...

The best advice has been given already. MOVE. It is the best thing an individual can do for their soul.

This is true, just check out this guys response in another thread: ( http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=125752 ) I personally think that some of the best relationships I've seen started with the woman approaching, but for myself, if I really like a guy, I have the same fear as...