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That's exactly what I did with my current "gf". We're actually just seeing eachother but I've gotten the "What are we" question three times now, all asked in different ways. If you control the frame, meet new people even when she's with you, use C+F, you'll do just fine. She'll pop the...

You shouldn't ask her to do anything. If her interest level is high enough, she will pop the question to you. Usually within about six weeks of this kind of dating I get the "What are we?" question. If you ask her to be your gf, you take a big risk, especially if you like her that much...

And what if she does argue? Even when I control the frame this one woman fights everything I say.....I don't have a problem with pu action, but some are just tough.

This is a classic example of "civilization". You can literally get away with anything as long as your mantra is "Do it for the children". Throw in the "fact" that women are oppressed by men and the horror stories of "deadbeat dads" and you have the formula for a socially acceptable answer to...

It matters not one bit which is MORE AFC, because BOTH are AFC There is a dichotomy in this statement. What have you got to lose you say?......Well, you can lose the woman you are so concerned about. Yes you are concerned about her if YOU have to ask HER to be exclusive. To an AFC who...

AFC's of the world demand to know at what point the women belong to them. AFC's need reassurance to know that they have been chosen by the woman to be theirs forever and true. A man doesn't look for a "gf", for that directly implies exclusivity. That is the woman's role, to seek comfort in...

Wow, I find this interesting because my AW is very much like this. She's very concerned with what people think of her. Much more so than most women I know. Is this a common trait among AW's? I wonder how I could use that to my advantage..... Fed

djSlvt, Dude, props to you for not turning out a real criminal like so many who have come from your type of background have ended up doing. For that arsin and burglary thing, don't sweat that, I did some bad bad things as a kid too, I was just lucky enough to not get caught. Therapy is...

AI? Not sure what that acronym is? The AW I'm dealing with IM's me every day at work (we work for the same company, but completely separate areas.....I know I know....no company ink, but that's another discussion altogether). My point being, she's a total AW and contacts me all of the...

djslvt, What do you mean by come around next time? As in they initiate contact at some point down the road (say 6 months later or more)? Fed

Christz, Did you ever hook up with her? I'm assuming so by the "she wants me back" statement? Fed

I'm just wondering what people have experienced when they walked away from an AW? Has anyone gotten one to come after them at some point in the future? I'm dealing with an AW now, she contacts me all the time and crap, but never says yes or no when I invite her to join me for stuff...

My take on this statement of "taking control in a relationship" is really meant to be "don't lose yourself in the relationship". Remember, people are always an individual first before anything else. I have no interest in controlling the person that I'm dating so much as controlling my...

I wouldn't go for tha AMOG right away, but usually a guy in the set means she's taken, he's an AFC chasing her, or you're in for a couple of extra shyt tests. I've always found the best thing to do is Sarge the guys first, you win them, you win the girl. Fed

So I'm categorizing some interaction and lines into where they belong to better help me in the PUA part of my life IOI, IOD, Compliance Test, Neg, etc,... For example..... "What's your name?" - Phrase - IOI "You're not that fat" - Phrase - Neg "Nice eyes" - Phrase - IOI Doesn't keep...

Fender, I had the same situation as you once.....I told her that I didn't want to affect my friendship with my buddy and that it just couldn't work. Even now, a decade later, she says it's all my buddies fault that she and I didn't hook up, because he's her cousin, lol. Fed

Agree with GloriouslyInsane of course, when you return after a couple of months.....you have to make sure you are DJ material.....or you're right back in the friendzone.... I have to say, a couple of months might be aggressive.....I would think you may need longer than that. Fed

Alpha, I had this work for me once, unintentionally, and I wasn't even aware of it. A friend of mine was a total AFC and had it bad for this one girl. She was fighting with her bf and got to talking to my friend about it. Flirting with him and stuff. She totally mind f**ked this guy...

This sort of thing needs to be taken contextually..... Just because some woman ignores you walking down the street, or after you had one conversation with her in a Uni class does not mean she's into you. Now, there are some exceptions.......for example If you were to have hung out with...

C, The last few posts here are gold. Ditch her, you're better than that. Fed