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    "next" theory

    I would say it's more the second one. It has to be genuine though and that's where working on your inner game comes into play. If you've reached the point where you are feeling super confident, nexting someone is no big deal. You just move on to the next targets. No looking back. Yes, there...
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    Nickname

    There's this girl who constantly calls me by a nickname, which I don't really like. Nobody else calls me this name except for her. I know it's just a little thing but I dislike having nicknames of any sort. Makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong as she must see me as some little kid...
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    shes absoultly killing me..why would she do this?

    Sounds like you're in deep at this point. Just play it cool man. Why don't you just go up to her and talk to her/say hi to her/anything? Just don't act like anything's wrong. Don't ask questions, none of that. Just friendly chatter. If you believe everything's cool then it will be. I...
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    oneitis help, advice, anything?

    hi2u, great insight. It's sad but true cuz I've had similar experiences in the past when I was younger. Maybe another key is to keep telling myself it is a mismatch. Why would I want something that doesn't fit? I don't do it with anything else in my life, so why with this girl?
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    oneitis help, advice, anything?

    "It is hard to even consider another women when you are in this frame of mind though" You hit the nail right on the head. I'm not a homer with girls, yet seem to have been taken a back with this one for whatever reason. I hate that cuz just a few months ago, I was doing fine dating other...
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    oneitis help, advice, anything?

    The funny thing is, I've befriended her already.. or at least I think. Maybe that's what got me into this mess? We've always had a friendly type of relationship. Our guards are never up. So, I do know she has flaws and isn't Ms. Perfect. That's probably what attracted me to her, haha. Is...
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    oneitis help, advice, anything?

    So, I can feel myself spiraling into oneitis... not good. I need help from the experienced ones here! There's this girl who I met at work, who I'm interested in. Well, as it happens she appears very into a friend of mine (flirting, IOI's, etc.). Drives me nuts whenever I see it... I know, I...
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