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I mean if you read what you wrote you should know what to do already. I don't know why you still want to be with her, after she disrespected you like that. I know its hard, I do it all the time, I think about how great the past was with this girl, but thats all it is, the past. You gotta look...

Haha more in common, I was like you too, I ended up getting bored of just banging random girls. It is emotionless, and it really isnt me to do that, it was fun at first, but it gets old after a while. Which maybe why your falling for this chick? One thing I you said that stuck out was how she...

Wow I feel for you man, I am in like the exact same situation almost. It sucks cuz in the back of your mind your thinking, wow it would be great if she was single when you met her right? From my experiance, if she still contacts you that means theres something she wants, be it physical or...

thanks darklight that helped. The thing is, we talked about it during our relationship that if she ever got pregnant she would abort, cuz she is a lot older than I am, I am 21 an still in college with no job, so obviously I am not in a great position to help raise a child. She just said she is...

oo yea, forgot to add that for the date she told me she got the abortion, she was 5 weeks pregnant, so the appointment a week after, she woulda been 6 weeks pregnant, and so on. I did not know if she had an appointment when she was 5 weeks pregnant though, I only knew that she told me she was...

thanks u laid out the options very clearly, i knew it beforehand i had very little power though heh. Nobody else has any thoughts on this? guess not a lotta ppl go through this situation then. Also, if anyone has been through this process, I was wondering if you could tell me how this...

So if your ex-gf told you she got an abortion but doens't want to talk to you or see you ever again, do you trust her that she got it? I am pretty sure she got it but I am not 100% sure, and the little doubt could come back to haunt me in the future. What would any of you guys do, just believe...

no one else has any advice or thoughts? i can't enjoy anythin with this lingering.

Ok, about her not being pregnant, I have thought about it but I think it is highly unlikely because I talked to her for over an hour about the pregnancy the last time we talked. Also I know she visited the doctor numerous times.

Ok, heres the thing, I really don't see her as someone that would do that, she is in her thirties and is already a single mom (the other dad has 0% involvement with the kid). She told me that she did not expect me to be involved or be responsible for anything, but I can't trust her on that...

Hey, I had a problem which I am not sure that can be helped, just looking for anything I can get as advice. I just recently found out that my ex-gf is pregnant. Here is the thing, we broke up on very bad terms and she is overreacting and completely hates my guts as of right now. I think it...